Is There Anything About An Enema You Don't Like? Least Favorite Part?

I have been following the thread on what the best part of an enema is, which got me to thinking about the flip of that, the worst, or least favorite, part. For me I'd have to say getting rid of it. I know some just love the expulsion and made a dom/sub thing out of it and revel in seeing it in videos, or graphic stories about it. For me it's unpleasant and if when the nozzle came out magically that was it, I'd think that great. Colonics are not the answer. I'm a bag and bulb guy. Just not interested in the poop part. Wonder if there are aspects of an E others aren't keen on?

Though I enjoy releasing and it's a great relief to say the least, I think I do enjoy all the other parts of an Enema more because all the earlier sections each do something to ramp up my humiliation and sexual tension as it goes on, such as insertion, filling and retention. I can prolong each phase as long as I like and then eventually release when all the other fun/sexual tension/orgasm/rest periods are completed. Feeling the submission, humiliation, vocalization and increasing sexual tension build as I insert and fill and retain and masturbate is sometimes almost unbearably delicious.

Eric

For me the least favorite part is having to hold the nozzle in by myself or trying to get the colon tube allthe way in without help . Enemas are so much more enjoyable when there are two people involved.

I only like to give so there is no least favorite part for me. I like dropping the panties and inserting the nozzle and I always stick around for potty time. It can be very embarrassing which is also a turn on for me. I love it all!

The cramps! And, my giver is quite proficient in making sure they are intense. Also, the smack she gives my butt after briskly removing the larger than normal nozzle.

The only thing I dislike about enemas and the enema experience is doing the clean up after, namely cleaning the nozzle, hose and drying out the bag. I know that these steps are needed to make the next time just as enjoyable, however, it is a task that I don't relish.

The only thing I dislike about enemas and the enema experience is doing the clean up after, namely cleaning the nozzle, hose and drying out the bag. I know that these steps are needed to make the next time just as enjoyable, however, it is a task that I don't relish.

I love to cook, but cleaning the pots and pans afterward, not so much.

It's the same with enema equipment, especially if I'm doing a marathon using a lot of varied equipment.

I love to cook, cleaning the pots and pans afterward, not so much.

Come on now we all know you have a complete onsite staff at all times. Next you'll be telling us you hate vacuuming. Sheesh

I don't like the cramping that I get sometimes.

Holy cow, I don't think there is ANYTHING I dislike about an enema, giving or receiving, well, maybe having it end. Cleanup is a cinch.

That's the truth - the worst thing about an enema is having it end. But at least I get to dream about the next one and how long and distended it will be.

Eric

The worst part of the enema for me does not exsist during the process. But it it is outside of the process. It steals my thoughts and time from my daily life with its too much charm. That's too bad.

When my enema time is over,and the wait until the next time i can enjoy again

Not usually. I don't like those days when the butt just isn't cooperating and the enema is hanging around and not coming out. I don't particularly relish the "accidents" when you dump an enema bag on yourself or the hose comes off. I'm not a big fan of nausea either, though sometimes I'm really backed up and getting that taken care of is worth it - though if I'm careful I can usually clear out my colon without the nausea.

The least part of enema enjoyment for me is when I have to take them for IBS. IBS can be very painful for me at times but becomes even more painful during the first one or two enemas and sometimes results in a very strong urge to expel before I've taken the 2 quarts, hence the need for something to expel in when I'm taking them on the bed. Fortunately, after the enemas, the pain is completely gone until the next flare-up which could be weeks or even months.

Other than that, the only other thing I dislike, as someone else mentioned, is the clean-up afterwards though the joys of taking pain-free enemas (and the enema-induced orgasms) in between IBS flare-ups makes it all worthwhile. 😉

I have a few minor ones I'll list:

As others have mentioned, things like the unexpected disconnect of a hose or the unexpected explosive blowout of an inflatable nozzle as the enema solution that WAS inside you is now elsewhere (and the ensuing clean up). Sometimes it's the smell of the discharge from deep inside my bowels. And maybe, on occasion, it's the cramping and nausea that occurs (but I remind myself that is usually caused by the nature of the enema solution I mixed up and that I took on by inserting the nozzle and opening the valve). Mostly, these are minor inconveniences that goes with the territory.

The major thing I don't like is this:

The sense (as an adult) that there just isn't enough TIME to thoroughly and completely enjoy an enema...whether a single bag or multiple bags. There is almost always the sense that there is something else that needs to be done and that requires time. Unlike my younger (and more carefree?) days, the "lack of time" to thoroughly enjoy the sensations of preparing to be filled, being filled, holding and retaining that enema inside me (and the struggle to hold it), and then the time to expel at my leisure and the time to choose whether to repeat is something that "I don't like."

There was a time when I felt at liberty to take a weekend or even a day of the weekend to be filled (most of the time) with an enema. If I wasn't filled with 3 to 4 liters of liquid and enjoying that sensation, then I was either (re)filling myself or sitting on the toilet emptying myself out in preparation for more until I decided on the very last one for that day or weekend.

Maybe when I retire some of that sense of lack of time will diminish.

Obviously I speak of the years when I was forced, because it was imposed by my grandmother or mother. The worst moment, in that period, was the announcement that they were preparing my enema. I hated the announcement, because I had the impression that the whole world knew that I was about to receive a warm and abundant enema. As an adult, however, I do as I please and this unpleasant psychological feeling does not suffer. Then, the enema, had other unpleasant sensations, such as the introduction of the cannula, the lubrication of the anus, the heat of the water, keep it for a few minutes and obviously the shame of sitting naked .... but the announcement that I was going to do an enema I hated it !!

I'll have to say @Enema Runner has one of my pet peeves nailed: TIME! One of the joys of embarking on an enema session is taking the time to savor the sensations of an enema. And it seems to me that those occasions when there is ample time to luxuriate in an enema seem to be few and far between.

Now to my all time "dislike". I really hate it when an enema that has otherwise been wonderful manages to get stuck! The inability to expel a gut full of water is the most maddening thing I can think of. Yes, cleaning up a blowout or a disconnected tube is a pain...but an enema that is stuck inside is a real pain in more ways than one. Although this situation rarely occurs, it does negate all of the fun of an otherwise good enema session.

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

I think for me with my limited experience, the worst part is the cleanup -- it's not bad, but today I dropped my 4Q bag that was mostly full and dumped the water all over the floor. I'm doing laundry right now as part of the consequences of that. However, I do love for whatever reason, stuff placed in my rear.

Sometimes after taking more than one enema, my butt get irritated/sore and that discomfort really steals the pleasure of taking an enema series for a cleanout. A & D ointment really helps in these situations.

What i do not enjoy is the amount of solo enemas. It is very hard to find an enema friend to share the whole enema experience with. don't get me any enema time is good enema time but sometimes its good to have an enema friend to share it with

I suspect that my issue will be more of a semantics one. First, I really do enjoy a good enema. It is personal time just for me, unless that is my husband is around to help. Second, there is a certain thrill in preparing and taking one and I always feel so much better afterward. But to me an enema is not fun. I enjoy it, but fun is the wrong word. As I said, probably semantics.

I thought about this 'posed situation' for a while, even called my sister because we not only got enemas together in our pre-double-digit age era, and then did them together with each other after mom taught us to self-administer, and there really wasn't at any time (we agree on this) anything we ever vigorously disliked about enemas ever.

Yes, we did our share of whining and complaining when mom would announced "it's enema time" ... we knew it was coming because she only gave us enemas when dad was gone for a prolonged time so we were never afraid of him stepping into our scene.

When she said 'it's time', we just naturally headed for the area of the bathroom, undressed, waited patiently as she prepared the soapy solution, did some whining, were told to pipe down or we might end up getting a spanking too (note: Neither of us ever got spanked in our lives), obeyed mom's commands when she was ready to administer ... she liked to have us standing, bent over with our hands on edge of the bathtub ... we liked that too ... and she was always nice about the size of the enemas -- the first one was usually a quart, second soapy one two quarts, then two or three rinse enemas --- and each was done without rushing or any urgency. She made it a relaxing, enjoyable experience. (I think she knew we didn't dislike enemas)

When we were done, she never encouraged us to get dress (I think she also knew we like go around tdhe house naked) and when she thought it was about time for dad to arrive home from whatever he was out doing, she's say "Girls, time to get dressed", and we would.

When we were in junior high and senior high school, we'd usually arrive home a couple hours before both got home from work ... the clothes were gone before he got to the living room ... we did all our activities naked including homework ... but sometimes we'd suggest our own little enema-fest.

Oh yes, no one else new about our enemas, our personal sessions and other other activities between the two of us. We never had friends over to the house when mom or dad were not there ... it was their major rule and we didn't violate it because who would want the good thing we had going.

So, to sum up our answer, there's nothing we ever dislike about enemas ... and that still holds true to this day, nearly 30 years after mom administered them.

I agree with @debgurl -- the mysterious disappearing enema is the worst. And since Deb is always on the money, I'm glad to know this doesn't happen only to me! ?

Twice, a small portion of my usual 3 or 4 qt fill up went missing - even after my intended 10/15/20 minute hold time and typical urge to release. The first time, I didn't expect it (since it had never happened before). So in an attempt to shake it loose, I thought moving around might help. After putting my pants back on, I decided to vacuum my house ... yeah, chores are the ultimate buzzkill to what had been a very good warm enema session. It apparently worked though, because after vacuuming (still with no feeling of imminent release), I sat down at my computer. About 10 minutes in, voila -- urgency and high-tailing it to the loo solved my problem!

The second time, maybe a year or so later, the vacuuming was already done (and I didn't want to do that again, haha). So I decided to try a small cold supplemental rinse. Proceeding carefully, I inserted and opened the clamp. Maybe it was just the motion of getting back down into the sims pos, but the new cold flow seemed to reach and rescue the original water from its hiding spot. Within minutes, I was happily empty (and relieved, in both senses).

This weirdness hasn't happened in the years since. To this day, i still don't know what caused It. But I did not enjoy that "full" feeling like I enjoy the normal pleasantness of internal hydration. Luckily, both times were on days when I had adequate time to enjoy an afternoon of enemas (which instead turned into trying to get myself empty) -- so glad I wasn't in a hurry to be anywhere!

Twenty Thousand Leagues Under The Skin, perhaps?

Wow! I never expected so many replies, and such interesting ones too. I enjoyed reading them all and gave each of you a heart. Thank you!

This Zity Biz is filled with such nice, interesting, and smart people.

That "disappearing enema" is usually around a pint or so that seems to stay behind after it's over.

If you can afford to stick close to home for a few hours after the enema most of the time it will work it's way out.

It IS the reason why I usually conclude the process with an oral laxative so that I can be sure it will come out in a couple of hours

Not expelling the entire enema has been happening with me for a while now.

If you are having trouble releasing an enema try putting your right hand flat against the toilet seat under your right hip. you should release in a minute or two.

I have a couple issues that are on the downside like others have said regarding their enemas. First let's put things in perspective. The negatives are minor compared to the positives. So I will keep doing enemas as long as I can fill a bag and stick a nozzle in my butt. So here are my negatives.

I do my enemas solo. I am married and my wife knows I do them but doesn't participate and she really does not find enemas as being sexy in any way. So out of respect for her, I will do them either when she is not home or early in the morning before she gets up. So having that time window or feeling that I need to have a session and be done before she should walk in on me kind of takes away from the relaxing and soothing effects of the enemas.

Lastly, the clean up doesn't take that long but of course it is mandatory and kind of takes away from the positives that enemas session just provided.

But as I said, these negatives will never out weigh the positives.

The thought of an enemas is exciting, the preparation is exciting, receiving the enema is exciting, holding and expelling is exciting. Cleanup - not exciting.