Real Life Age Play

Is it even possible to have RL meet ups & encounters through personal ads without having sexual intercourse? It seems that whenever I place a personal ad to hook up with "grown-ups" (uncles, aunts, nurses, schoolmarmes, etc) my ads are responded to excludively by homosexual or bisexual men. To complicate matters, it gradualy comes out in the whitewash (through a series of emails) that they just assume that I'm gay or bi like them.

My most recent ZityBiz personal ad clusterfuck culminated in the man claiming that I "misrepresented myself". Another man answered my ad said he was looking for an " enemate". The term "enemate" alone creeps me out to no end.

I did put NA for my sexual orientation because being in tbe role of a "little", I'm supposed to be too niiive to actually have a sexusl orientation. I also termed myself as a " sissy" in my ad, meaning a wimpy little boy, not homosexual or cross dresser. Of course I completely amended my ad & now list my sexusl orientation as straight, & I avoid the term sissy. I want to remain "in character", for tbe sake making things as real as possible, but then to clarify matters, I'm forced to be clinical about my proclivities, & that kinda dispells the illusion & takes the fun out of everything.

I also have the same problem on FetLife. Too much attention from gay or bi men. Invariably men sauntering through my profile & bio give "likes" & "loves" to my photos. Men read what I say in discussion groups & pm me assuming I'm game for meeting up for role reversal and/or sex, when my bio specifically reads "no role reversal".

Now that I have exquisitely reworded my ZityBiz personal ad, hopefully I won't find myself somebody's Rorschach test, but it's now ignored

Also, on this site I did find an ad from an elderly man who ran a medfet exam & enema clinic. It seemed to good to be true, so I asked if there's a fee & he replied, "no", but he expects "donations". (He had a recurrence of prostate cancer & had to shut it down anyway.

Anyone here able to take their age play fantasies out if the fantasy realm into reality, without winding up a mommy's or daddy's sub?

Oh yeah, (Age) Play & Real Life are contradictory terms, & I guess in my tittle there's an inherent paradox . Sadly in real life encounters, children too often wind up incest victims. Unthinkable to me.

I was raised in a family that's rather uptight about nudity, if not downright sexaphobic.. The only acceptable place to show my naughty bits was on the exam table. I didn't view my elders as sexual beings as I did myself. No Freudian desires to fuck mommy or daddy.