Sex for old kinksters like me

This is admittedly a yahoo vanilla story, but I am certifiably older now that I just turned 60 and it caught my eye. Being on zity too has helped me realize that age is not a death sentence to a "senior" sex life! As I read the article (and many of its links) I found pearls of wisdom and wanted to share them. Enjoy the reading and your own "activities" regardless of your age.

https://www.msn.com/en-ca/health/wellness/5-things-nobody-tells-you-about-sex-after-60/ss-BBLfJjH?ocid=spartanntp

My parents are in their late 70s and by all accounts they have sex as often as my husband and I do. I attribute my father's youthfulness and good shape to my mother's insatiability. While they probably don't spend as much time during the week doing things to each other as my husband and I do (they have some kinks, but they're still kind of vanilla--no 4 hour S & M scenes) they have intercourse about as frequently as we do. Sometimes I get "twice a day" stories from my mother! What a whore!

Age of course will catchup with us all, but if you are active physically, eat well, and engage in sex regularly- several times a week then you can likely keep the lights on well into your 70's and beyond. Attitude is everything so don't let an age number drag you down- get the most out of everyday.

Useful article - nothing naughty at all - just matter of fact - good

The senior sex life for my husband and I is great. There are no inhibitions restricting our sex life. Often we have to plan time for our activities because we are very involved with our grand children. Sunday mornings are normally quiet so we plan fun times then. What really helps also is knowing we are best friends. Being lovers over the years was and is fun. Becoming best friends takes time and effort! I know who to lean on when I need help! To us it's about change and acceptance.

This coming Tuesday, the day after tomorrow will be a very special day for us. Our youngest daughter will have a cesarean section procedure. We will be at the hospital to meet our new grandson. Our daughter is 35 and has lost two babies in the past, We pray all goes well. The following days and a few weeks perhaps I've pledged my time and love to our daughter and our new grandson. It's times like this that test our lives. It's not about us! It's about "We"! What are we willing to do to be part of? My husband understands he may be home alone for much of the time. After his surgery he's assured me all will be just fine. That's Team Work and there is no "I" in team.

Believe me, I'll be rip, roaring and ready for some old style kinkster sex as soon as possible. What we do now is not a burden, it's a blessing. Taking self out of the picture regardless if it's sex or what ever makes life and love much easier.

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Our youngest daughter will have a cesarean section procedure. We will be at the hospital to meet our new grandson. Our daughter is 35 and has lost two babies in the past, We pray all

Fingers crossed .... hope all goes well.

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Great advice!!! We should all do that more often!

All went very well! A new baby boy, 6 pounds, 15 ounces. He's beautiful and I'm worn out. Daughter is sore after C-Section but her and daddy are doing pretty good!

CONGRATS!! TO YOU, YOUR DAUGHTER AND HER HUBBY!!!! 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁

Glad all is well...

Congrats @GyneDoll , grandchildren are awesome ! ?

Congrats @GyneDoll , grandchildren are awesome ! ?

Yes, and at the end of the day, THEY GO HOME. 😁

Congratulations! Enjoy the new addition.

Thank all of you very much. I'll tell you what, it's been a few busy days but to look at our daughter hold her first baby is beautiful. And with Cell Phones it's easy to take pictures and share them. I watched my husband as he held the baby in his hands. The little one was sleeping and my husband stroked his cheek with his finger and the baby smiled. That's the first time my husband has cried in a long time.

I'll stick to Old Kinksters now!

@GyneDoll Congratulations to all of you! All the best and a speedy recovery for mom. Good health and happiness to you all. Sincerely,Megan

Thank You Megan! Everyone is doing great!

@GyneDoll You are most welcome!