Examination In Lieu Of Sex

I have previously stated that physical examinations bear all the hallmarks of a sexual encounter. There is nudity and touching of intimate areas. Many of us began to indulge in MedFet prior to our first sexual encounter. Is it possible that we subconsciously substituted physical examinations for the sex that was absent in that stage of life?

Or the sex that is absent from our current stage in life?

Interesting observation....

The feelings I remember from my first real medical exams in my teens are shame, embarrassment and loss of control. Despite the very occasional accidental erection ( which only served to increase the shame and embarrassment ) there was nothing about those exams that felt remotely sexual at the time.

Even at the time however, remembering them back, discussing them or hearing them discussed would be sexually arousing both physically and to some degree mentally. I guess that is how it became fetishised for me.

Still now in play exams I prefer to pretend that the exam is in no way sexual. The doc should try and avoid any signs of enjoyment or arousal at all, and if the patient can remain flaccid then that makes the need to become erect for examination ( this is a play exam remember ) all the more embarrassing.

As such for me MedFet is seperate from sex. It can be a substitute or a supplement depending on my other circumstances, but one does not preclude the other.

My first exam was scary to me with a lot of apprehension in the run up to it , not helped by scare stories from my class mates. Because I was younger than them my exam at age 15 was one year later than them. In fact there were two of us being examined . I was interested but scared during the exam. No way could I describe it as a substitute for sex . However as Andrew says after the exam looking back on it , it was exciting . Watching the other guy have his pants removed , seeing his ass as the Doctor did some procedure in front of him . It was the control exaercised as well as the naked ness and examination of a guys most private parts that was a real turn on . I still get excited by the vision today.

On Medfet sessions I seldom get to examine a flaccid penis and while I try to make it as clinical as possible , it depends what the guy wants, it usually ends up in sex and me masturbating him . So it is sexual, but agree it is different from a normal sex session . To me it’s an enhancement not a substitute to sex

A Munro and Andrew Wood sum up a lot of the points pretty well. Certainly when I was 13, I was sexually inexperienced in many ways (probably like many young teens in the early 1960s). Plus, the whole 'social climate' of sexual mores in the Industrialised East Midlands was incredibly repressive. Apart from smutty talking (maybe masturbating*) with your closest peers....sexual matters were strictly taboo.

* Contrast my ultra - strict, selective Grammar School with today's educational establishments. We were frequently told during RE lessons that 'beastliness' (!!!...viz: wanking) was a filthy, disgusting, sinful activity. Indeed I shall never forget 2 boys who were caught masturbating in the school grounds. They were caned in front of the entire school and then expelled. Is it any wonder we were so sexually repressed??

But...to return to medicals. No, inherently (as the other posters have stated so eloquently ) there was nothing sexual about the experience. Yet....inevitably reflecting on it....I / we had to take ALL of our clothes off in front of the doctor / nurse etc.

And, yes, in those days...they did examine, touch, feel (etc) your genitalia very thoroughly. As I have described in other posts...when Iwas 13, I was examined by a female doctor. She was very professional. But...as a gawky, nervous, teen boy. Oh my.....standing there totally naked with a woman (professionally) 'feeling me up'. I was mortified to begin to get erect. So, not inherently sexual...but there was inevitable erotic tension...which I would subsequently fantasise about.

Is it possible that we subconsciously substituted physical examinations for the sex that was absent in that stage of life?

I'd say yes, that's certainly possible. For those of us with a medical fetish, those physical exams were likely very exciting for us. And at least part of that excitement was that we were doing something that under other conditions would have been considered naughty or taboo. Think about it. We were willingly going into a little exam room, removing all or most of our clothing, and allowing a strange man or woman to touch our body, including our genitals and perhaps even our anus.

Where else, outside of a medical exam, would that be considered normal and accepted practice? Yet we were allowed to do that, or if still a child, ordered to do that by our parents. That concept of turning "naughty" or "taboo" behavior into something normal and accepted was always fascinating to me. And you can apply the same concept to other aspects of life too. Changing in front of others in the locker room? Showering with other boys in P.E. class?

For those of us with a medical fetish, those physical exams were likely very exciting for us. And at least part of that excitement was that we were doing something that under other conditions would have been considered naughty or taboo.

Completely agree with this. And for me, I sought out this form of play because it was a sexual outlet that played on a number of turn-ons (exhibitionism, submission, a little kink) with next to no risk to my personal health and well being. (I live in an area with fairly high STI transmission rates, so catching something--especially something irreversible--was always a big concern.)

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I have previously stated that physical examinations bear all the hallmarks of a sexual encounter. There is nudity and touching of intimate areas. Many of us began to indulge in MedFet prior to our first sexual encounter. Is it possible that we subconsciously substituted physical examinations for the sex that was absent in that stage of life?

Sounds like very sound reasoning. Playing doctor would certainly fall into that category as well as parents being (usually) absolutely horrified when they discover their kids playing doctor. Almost as bad as the proverbial teenage daughter caught with her panties down around her knees in her boyfriend's car.

Being a chair user. People are fascinated with my body. Disablity schools in the 70’s were run like hospitals. No abuse, but a lot of assments. I remember a math teacher who used to take every student’s vitals at the beginning of class.

Speech therapists used to check breathing. Students were given baths by our school nurse,