Long-distance submission

Hey guys, this is the first time I've ever posted on here. I've been lurking for a while but I'm still a little shy about talking to other people. That said, I decided that it was finally time to officially join the community.

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I'm a switch but I typically Domme my boyfriend. He enjoys submitting more than he enjoys dominating. The problem is he recently had to move for work and he can only commute back on the weekends. I'm trying to think of good examples of tasks for him to do at home/ work to keep him busy that remind him of his place. Stuff he can do without actually having me present.

Neither of us are really into public humiliation but things like wearing a butt plug under his clothing would be okay. Something like giving him a pair of my panties or a dildo I have used to suck on while he jacks off or forcing him to edge himself repeatedly and then not actually letting him orgasm.

Any ideas you have would be appreciated!

Interesting problem. You want to dominate him from a distance by ordering him to do something that will remind him of you and demonstrate his submission.

I have to think that some kind of orgasm denial would be the most memorable task for him to perform. If you commanded him to get himself hard and jack off but without a release, he would certainly remember that. Just have him do that over and over again every day. And then when he does return to you, he'll be extremely horny and ready for anything that you want him to do.

And to help keep him on edge throughout the day, combine a few things. Yes, by all means have him insert a butt plug and wear it all day long while he's at work. That should provide a little bit of stimulation that will remind him of you. And you could add a cock ring or strap. Give him a nice leather cock strap and order him to wear it all day long. That will help keep him hard and thinking of you. Personally, I'd have him always wear a jockstrap instead of regular underwear, too. The ass-less feeling of the jock will just add to the sensations that he's feeling.

And each night when he's ordered to stroke himself and bring himself to the edge, make sure he uses some lubricant. No dry stroking allowed for him. He needs to get nice and slippery so that it's even more difficult to keep from ejaculating. Of course if he does ejaculate, there are consequences waiting for him at home.

Good luck. Let us know what you decided to do. 😃

Chastity. Wearing a chastity device that only You have the key to. You could send him pictures or fantasies of things You know he likes, but of course You are in complete control of. When he leaves home to go back to work, send him with Your laundry to wash by hand, especially intimate apparel describing the care he needs to take to wash and remove any stains without damaging the material.

A thing me and my Domme/GF do is we have tumblr accounts and both send each other things we'd love to do to each other and make a list of new things to try the next time we get to see each other. Also not letting him orgasm is a great way to keep him horny and wanting to give you all the attention. I usually am not allowed to orgasm the week before I see my GF. That keeps me very on edge and willing to obey her every word. Another good way to do things is have a task or a few everyday and he has to do it when he gets the time to and send you pics/video proof.

Each time he comes to visit you should confiscate all of his boxers, and then send him away with pairs of your panties instead. Eventually he will learn how to pack his suitcase properly.

Several young ladies and I have indulged in our fetish for buttock injections by giving each other cyber shots via this and other Internet sites. The doctor or nurse is always very strict and dominant while the patient must be subservient.

Send him a text with a short word in quotes and a time frame, such as

“HOT” 20 min

The countdown timer has started. Before 20 minutes has passed he must find some privacy and get his cock hard, then write the word HOT on his shaft, take a picture of it, and text the picture to you. He never knows when the request will arrive, or how often.

Not only do you both have a record of his naughty moment, but he will certainly see the writing on his skin later and think of you.

If you wish you could select a favorite poem or sonet and, in random order, request each word from it. Eventually you can print them all out and frame them as erotic art poetry.

My Mistress and I have a 'game' going where she will request a picture of the underwear I'm wearing. The rules are:

-I have to send a picture ASAP when I see her text (if I'm busy, I must make an excuse to go somewhere private for a few moments)

-Each hour I keep her waiting counts as 1 point. Points accumulate until the next time I see her, and they represent how many spanks/lashings/etc I am to receive

Last time I saw her I had 27 points. Currently I am at 33 :'0