Baring

Ok so who whats the preference baring yourself or being bared for a spanking.

Definitely having the spanker bare me is far more humiliating and adds to the whole activity.

Having my husband bare my behind, after taking down (or off) my pants and undies, adds space to me spanking- and what happens right after!!!

Its always my spanker Who take down my panties..

My wife makes me take off my pants and underpants, and retrieve the brush and hand it to her! I wish she would be holding my spanking brush and take my pants off!

I love taking her undies off , I would take my time to admire her bare bottom before I start spanking her without talking . I always feel her anticipation building up .

Being slowly undressed and bared by him or by his directions and then bent over his knee with his hands massaging in a deliberately anticipatory manner would do much to build the mood and would make minutes seems like hours of waiting for what I knew was inevitably going to happen to me. I hope there would be some tender aftercare also even after the spanking. I really am such a soft hearted girl that I hate displeasing him and that he has to spank me sometimes for my sassiness. I am sincerely sorry, but just can't help myself sometimes.

Definately being bared by my disciplinarian it’s a little more humiliating especially if I was being scolded at the same time or being told how I will be punished

The spanked baring that behind. I feel it adds to the anticipation and embarrassment.

It's more disempowering having your bottom bared by the spanker. When I get a girl to spank me, I always protest that she mustn't bare my bottom for it and the girl often replies that it is more painful and embarrassing for me and more fun for her, the she goes ahead and pulls my pants and underwear down!)

It's more disempowering having your bottom bared by the spanker.

In prisons that's how it is when MEN are strip searched. It is more humiliating to men when their clothes are stripped off them by another man.

For WOMEN is it usually more humiliating to make them do it herself.

For men to force is to emasculate forcing a female to strip themselves is to force to submit.

I like making her drop her pants then get over my knee for a bare handed warm up. I like to pull down the panties myself and that in itself can be very embarrassing Not too hard on the hand spanking, just a real good warm up alternating back and forth in all 4 quadrants to make for a nicely tanned bottom glowing red. After that might be a rectal temp just for fun.

Petal was always earning more than the hand but she liked a hot ass. I would use a leather paddle, a flogger, a crop or sometimes a cane that we stole out of a display in a Marriott lobby. She never ever wore panties though so when her pants came off we were down to bedrock.

I much prefer that my husband be totally in control leading up to my spankings. That includes slowly undressing me (sometimes completely) and baring my poor bottom prior to a good and proper spanking almost always over his knee. I can feel is strong arousement against my stomach and a spanking almost always is followed up with very tender but also very passionate love making after my spanking.

MMmmm lovely contribution

When I got it coming no argument about the necessity of the paddling--we both know its got to happen i take a shower and immediately out of shower bend over and take my bare paddling---so i guess there is no thought given to who takes pants off----When a bare paddling has to take place i just want to get it asap and get it over with

I prefer the spanker to bare my backside for a spanking . Progressing by first taking down my pants then lowering my briefs before being taken over the knee for a sound spanking .

I still consider myself fairly new to spanking, although I am building up my resume quickly. 😃

But I've discovered that the most important part of getting spanked for me is exhibitionism and humiliation -- not the pain of the spanking itself. So to maximize those feelings, I prefer that the spanker be the one to strip me (gradually) of my remaining clothing. And extra points if I'm completely restrained while they do that (preferably strung up by my hands).

In response to baring a bottom in preparation for a spanking,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,no matter if giving or receiving, stated directly the removal of any & all garments from the waist down is simply the very best method! Personally I do not prefer to direct them to disrobe for I believe the slow and methodical process of removing their clothing and then gently directing them across my lap all "adds" to the overall experience-sharing & intimacy. Spanking is a very age old practice and has been recorded as far back as history is known to exist. This pretty much verifies that bottoms should in fact be bared for a spanking and as to how it is done...............well that is profoundly a personal preference! However,,,,,,,,,,,,,"bared is best!"

I like to have her take down her pants then get over my lap. I then pull down her panties while discussing why she is getting this spanking. Sometimes I would do a rectal temp just because I like the look of it poking out, sometimes not. Since Petal liked a hot ass I would start with a bare bottomed warmup to all 4 quadrants, alternating the direction until I got a nice cherry red. Then I would use a leather paddle and make it even hotter. If she had done something between meetings that required a correction I would then use my belt or a cane for 30 or so more. Her ass at that point was red hot. She really hated corner time after that the most. 5 minutes seemed like an hour to her. By the next morning after some lotion there was usually not even a mark on her bottom.

I like it when the spanker undresses me, and pulls my knickers down once I'm over his lap. Also like him to pull them back up afterwards.

In almost all my adult spankings I undressed myself. It's embarrassing but I still feel some level of control.

A few weeks ago I visited a pro domme. She undressed me and I felt helpless. It started with my shirt, then pants, and finally boxers. To make it worse she then opened the door and had me follow her down the hallway to another room. Now I was undressed and separated from my clothes.

I have spanked men and women. Most of them were allowed to undress themselves. A couple of women could/would not undress and required help.

I recently received 7 birthday spankings, plus 2 belated ones. my undies were pulled down except for 2 of them.

Being bared... that powerless feeling. Having no choice and you're gonna get it. The embarrassment of your crack exposed and so vulnerable.

Being bared for spanking

I "request" that my sub disrobe (I like to make him do the work while I watch) and have him get into position for his spanking. I usually tie him down, spread eagle, on our bed for his spankings.

Spankings are not his thing, but he knows I like spanking him, alot. So he hates to see the bed made up for his restraint, but he's a good boy and does what he is told.

After my spankings, when i hope she is finished, i ask " May i please put my underpants on and come to bed"!

Honestly like it both ways. Both shows the dominance and assertiveness over me and both ways turn me on

Having to bare myself or being bared by another are exciting and show my submission to the spanker. I don't really care which is required because both lead to being spanked.

I think my preference is for the spanker to do the baring. Then a short lecture before going over her lap. The alternative to that would be for me to be completely naked for the lecture.