Baring

Skirt pulled up, knickers pulled down. My dom does it in this manner and I get really turned on, as I do when she takes my temperature rectally

It’s definitely more of a turn-on if the spanker has to pull down my pants and underwear as I’m struggling. I would like it to be a challenge for the spanker and to make my punishment even worse.

Growing up when my stepdad first started to spank me he would push my panties down to just past my butt after I was already over his lap. Then it was down to my thighs, my knees, my ankles and then completely off. Then he started to where he would pull my panties down before taking me over his knees or when I was bent over a chair or table. Then as I got older he would instruct me to take them off myself and get ready to be spanked. As I got older the feelings of embarrassment and excitement would start as soon as I knew that I was going to be exposed and then spanked.

I had to take my trousers and underpants down myself and then get into position bending over the bed.

So many arousing experiences here omg. When it happens to me one day, maybe soon?, I know that I will follow her instructions precisely. I think having her pull them down to bare my bottom would be more deliciously embarrassing 🥹 but also it depends on my body position as I know I will be anxious about what else might be on view 😮☺️

Hmm idk it depends. Both have different qualities to them but I don’t know that I prefer one over the other. Baring my own bottom is a sign of submission and acceptance, but having it bared for me demonstrates more of the power exchange. In our DD arrangement both happen. Sometimes I will ask for a punishment, and there have been a couple of times that I’ve done this just by baring myself and bending over next to my girlfriend on the couch or wherever.

I strongly prefer for my spanker to take my pants and undies down. Of course I will do as told if they instruct me to do it. However, it feels so much more authentic and normal for them to do it. It immediately establishes their power. That they can put their hands on me and literally strip away all my protection and dignity. Very much puts me in the headspace of a helpless boy, which is exactly what I want.

Spanker, for sure. It makes me feel more little and submissive. I do like the idea of being made to cooperate by changing into a special outfit that I know is going to be removed, like pajamas with or without cute undies.

Spanker, for sure. It makes me feel more little and submissive. I do like the idea of being made to cooperate by changing into a special outfit that I know is going to be removed, like pajamas with or without cute undies.

We've experimented with the "punishment panties" idea before. Its nice if you know you're going to be around the house the rest of the day after the punishment, and you have to just walk around in them. Outside the house it doesn't do anything for me, we swapped them out for a buttplug in this scenario. I feel like I'd want to get some that had a custom print on the butt and maybe the front too. The ones that say things like "bad girl" in a sexy font don't feel serious enough to me and take away some of the humiliation aspect. Not sure if you could find any for guys, would probably have to get those customized too.

I like being bared nothing like being laid over the knee and feeling my T shirt being raised or tights coming down . The anticipation makes me giddy.

When the rope sometimes goes around my waist and puled tight between my legs spreading my cheeks is extacey.

I like being snuggled and undressed for sex as well.I wear a onesie or pj's with panties ,bra and sox just to be undressed in bed.

Having an outfit to wear chosen for me. Being dressed like a doll. It is really kind of shameful.

@PutMeInTheCorner what sort of print would you get on your punishment panties? I have looked at some sellers on Etsy that make underwear for littles since age regression and discipline go hand in hand for me. I bet it wouldn’t be hard to get custom pairs made.

@PutMeInTheCorner what sort of print would you get on your punishment panties?

Hmm I’m not entirely sure. I mean I’d kinda want them to be degrading but not sexy. I guess I always envisioned just like a black pair of bikini briefs that had in white letters something like “I am being punished” in a straight bold font of some sort. I haven’t thought all that hard about it which is kinda strange cause this is the sort of thing I live for lol.

As I've said in other threads, it's not for the spankee to express a preference - it should always be a decision for the spanker.

That said, it is - for me at least - more shaming to be bared by my spanker, especially if I am standing before them at the time rather than already being in position for the punishment.

Mom would mostly pull my pants and underwear down and pull me across her lap except for once when I was older she told me to lower my pants and underwear down and lay accross her bed, which I discovered I liked because I was having to submit to the spanking which was a different feeling.

Same thing when I was spanked by my aunt, I liked the feeling of submitting.

Now a days with my wife doing the spanking I really enjoy both of us being completely naked.

Eman445: out of curiosity did it take you a while to get to like it that way? I had to give my dad my hand and he spanked me over my pajamas bottoms with his belt, so there was a small element of submission I appreciate now.

I have both being bare and me baring my bottom to go over his knees for a spanking by my husband.

I prefer my husband to pull down my panties for a spanking because I like to feel the authority that he have over me.

But unfortunately most of the times I have to stand in front of him to take down my panties and bare my bottom for the spanking. Even though I have been naked in front of him so many times I still feel embarrassed when I have to bare myself to be spanked like a little naughty girl.