Moving from drugstore to specialized equipment

My wife was originally grossed out at the thought of an enema being sexual. So we started play with an open top combination drug store set-up for "medical" purposes. As she started to see the positive effects they had, she became much more tolerant, and we added a Higginson pump and the green flex nozzle that so many know. She determined that that bag and hose needed replacement after a few years, and we ordered a 3 quart bag and some more obviously sexual nozzles. This whole process took about 10 years, but was a lot of fun along the way, and worth it. She still only receives for medical reasons, but accepts that my needs are different. Is this typical for those whose spouses were new to the idea of sexual enemas and who now take part?

I guess that depends on the spouse. My wife hates all things anal and would rather have a root canal than an enema. It sounds like your wife is more tolerant. I'd try introducing a vibrator or other stimulation to just "Relax and take her mind off it". If you can get her to get her rocks off or even get close during an enema you've done all the work for having a jolly good time in the future. Good luck.

Moppys jalopy wrote: "I'd try introducing a vibrator or other stimulation to just "Relax and take her mind off it". If you can get her to get her rocks off or even get close during an enema you've done all the work for having a jolly good time in the future."

May I add my own person testimony on the topic as an enema novice? Stimulation via vibrator or some other method truly does in fact lay an excellent foundation for future enema play - a guarantee of pleasant associations works wonders!

I've found a LOT of inexperienced folks are worried about "accidents". The proper nozzle allows them to just relax without having to worry about that. Have found many newbies much more willing to take an enema after being assured that the nozzle will prevent an accident.

I got lucky there. When I was a teen I found several of Mom's old stashes of enema equipment, including a couple of large jewelry boxes full of nozzles.

Having had no idea which of them were used and which weren't, or where they had been before and since they were last used, I looked at what I was seriously interested in using and started trying to match them up with new products.

By my second year of college I had been to a couple of sex shops, and I had all the ones I had any interest in matched up. I now have both of those jewelry boxes stashed in a self-storage locker in a tote along with other stuff.

I was given enemas for medical reasons throughout my childhood but now I am in college and looking to buy more sexual equipment. I was able to buy and hide plugs at college but enema gear would’ve been much harder. I am living in an apartment next year as opposed to the dorms so hopefully it will be easier to order stuff like sexual nozzles and other delights. Any suggestions for products that I should pick up during this transformation?

Hello, pgculp.

I have two places where I buy my enema qeuipment. one is: Optimal Health Network (ohn), http://optimalhealthnetwork.com, they sell quality 3, 4, and 5 quart/liter silicone enema bags and also have a 2 qt stainless steel enema bucket. My most liked item is called a Silicone Smothe Flow Higginson & Hose Colon Cleaning System that you can find at ohn. It is a hose with a bulb in the middle that can give one a rush of solution simply by squeezing the bulb. The other company is called Silicone Nozzles (sn), https://www.siliconenozzles.com. SN manufactures many, many types of nozzles out of silicone. I own five different ones from them, and they all feel great going in and coming out. They are great for self amusement.

Hope this information is useful.

Frank

My wife gives me or takes, enemas for a medical reason only. No sexual aspect at all, just a procedure that relieves constipation. I ask for at least 2 enemas/month, for “health” reasons, and she is ok with that, but no more, dependency issues on her part. She has a lot of issues with constipation, takes a lot of stool softeners, senna, etc. When these don't work, and she feels bloated, she asks for an enema, no problem, just the last resort. I try to make the enema experience as comfortable as possible, and we have a process. It will never be more than “medical”, but I'm ok with that, and I love that she has no problem giving me an enema when I ask.