After seeing a much more recent thread about women seeing a penis for the first time, it struck me how wild and strange it was to touch a woman there for the first time.
But I looked … and found no current threads, and this is the earliest one I came across!l, and only 2 replies…
So let’s try again, because this is curious to me.
When I put two fingers at her opening, she nodded, and they slid in easily. I fumbled around, trying to masturbate her, but she said, "Just exploring, for now.”
@Parker How lovely for her to have taken a little bit of charge to ease you into her anatomy. There can be so many pressures then, and fears - to have had a bit of a guide, and then to reduce expectations, would’ve been a life saver.
My first time was with a longer term girlfriend, after a date, on the floor at her parent’s house. Just kissing and petting until I reached down, snd … she didn’t stop me. She leaned into it.
Oh. Fuck.
Now I know what the dog chasing the car feels like when he catches it — WTF do I do now???
She felt warm, soft, and I felt her pubic hair, and then that magical, moist slit, and … ?? My hand was down her pants - I couldn’t see what I was up against. And none of the pictures I ever see really taught me how to negotiate one of these beasts by braille. There was this hard thing right above her vulva … yeah, her pelvic bone. It seemed like it was … in the way?
Man, all I wanted was to rip her pants off and … explore. Figure things out. Experiment a bit. But there was a girl attached to this vulva, and she had expectations of her own, but … what were they? Did she expect me to get her off? Did she want me to try? Did she think I was clumsy? Crap! Why don’t they teach us about THIS in sex ed!
All that we know as adults about peer pressure, pressure to perform, being judged… it was all there, and I didn’t anticipate ANY of it.
In the end, my analytical mind felt it was a great breakthrough, but a lost opportunity - and, sadly, it would be quite a while before I got to try again. Turns out, with my medical fetish, I was great with the book learning - but a lousy practical student.
-TYD