Rough Sex with your Spouse or Partner

My husband came home tonight around 6 pm, spun me around and grabbed me from behind as he walked in the door. He put his hands over my mouth, slapped handcuffs on my wrists and said “go with it.”

He pulled me upstairs to the bedroom where he pushed me backwards onto the bed straddled my pelvis, slapped my face and ripped open my shirt. He pulled my bra above my breasts and then climbed off me to pull off my panties. He lowered his pants and slapped me again on my face and a couple of times on each breast. It stung. He lifted my skirt and forcefully spread my legs with his knees and entered me before I could even get wet. After a couple of thrusts, I started to lubricate and he just kept pumping me harder and deeper until he came. Then he gave me a kiss, said “thank you dear, where’s dinner?”

As he was leaving the bedroom with me wet and slimy he said “clean yourself up and come down stairs. The handcuff keys are where they always are in my night stand.” He closed the door behind him. After a few minutes I masturbated and got cleaned up. Before going down stairs I took out a deerskin flogger for a bit of turnabout. He was in the den waiting for dinner watching TV with a drink on the coffee table in front of him. He said he didn’t smell anything cooking. (That’s because I was cooking sous vide.) I took a good swing at him with the flogger and I said “go with it.” I grabbed his belt and pulled him into the kitchen, I jumped up on the kitchen table and laid back on it. I lifted my skirt and said “make me cum because you aren’t getting dinner until I do.” I love oral. We play rough sometimes.

We kept smirking at each other as we had a wonderful quiet dinner and a good shiraz.

Thank you for sharing your experience with us. I think that every partnership should be able to make love together as well as having pure instinctive sex. Just because you are in love dosen't mean you have to suppress your animal instincts.

Wow sounds exciting . Wish my wife would Go With It like that. very arousing !

My Darlin' wife is very playful. I was standing at the kitchen sink in my underwear and she gave me a good swat on my ass. I said if you're going to do it do it right. She pulled my panties down to my ankles had me lean over the counter and started to redden my cheeks. I turned around sporting a nice erection. "What's this?" and gave it a playful slap. I showed her that she could do it harder and indeed she started smacking that thing around. She would grab my cock and roughly pull on it so hard the head was getting sore. She altered between these two actions until she made me cum on the floor. My dick was sore all evening.

We never did a repeat but do talk about it now and again.

My husband came home tonight around 6 pm, spun me around and grabbed me from behind as he walked in the door. He put his hands over my mouth, slapped handcuffs on my wrists and said “go with it.”

The beginning of yet another dull evening at the @SwitchableSusie household...maybe you two should take up Cribbage or something.

Rough sex? How about just SEX with your spouse or partner. I'd be happy with anything. Tame, rough, whatever.

The beginning of yet another dull evening at the @SwitchableSusie household...maybe you two should take up Cribbage or something.

As I recall, after dinner and hugging, he went into his music room to listen to some Bach fugues and I listened to an Asia album in the living room before we finally went to sleep. Not dull, but calming, nevertheless.

Damn Susie! That got me “ moist” 😉 lol

@bridgette moist lol 😁

That could *almost* convince me to become a switch. Almost. Kinda the best of both worlds....

But no. I like me...just the way I am.

That could *almost* convince me to become a switch. Almost. Kinda the best of both worlds....

Not "kinda", IT IS the best of both worlds.

Wow, there was an opportunity missed. The least he could have done was flog you to Toccata and Fugue in D Minor. I mean seriously, the complacency here on his part...I'm going to guess Alpha, or their eponymous debut album (and arguably their best). Am I close?

I posted earlier that it was AURA--actually my favorite if I had to pick one.

I'd have been happy with just you for dinner

My wife loves rough sex, but not ll the time. One problem we have I me, I'm more sub than dom. The workaround is her boyfriend Donald. He totally dominates her and brings her to sexual ecstasy. I can not do that, but I love watching it.

The workaround is her boyfriend Donald. . . . I can not do that, but I love watching it.

@bagman925 Wow! That is certainly something that not many couples could ever do! But if all three of you are happy with that arrangement, that's great that you found each other. I commend your honesty and openness.

As for myself with rough sex, I can be as rough or gentle as my partner wants. If she likes spanking and hard forceful and dominating sex, that works for me! If she's into something more soft and sensual, then that's good too! Although now I look for a gf/partner who already has kinky interests. I can't go back to strictly vanilla sex. There is too much kink to share and enjoy!!

I am definitely not dominant nor a switch but I do like the best of both worlds as in sometimes I like it rough. Throw me down on the bed, bend me over or push me against a wall, yank all my clothes off or just enough to get at me, grab my hair, pin my hands and smack my ass, have your way with me, make me yours !

Other times I like sweet and sensual, slowly devour me, make love to me, take your time and linger.

Most of the time I want a little of both, I want us to explore each other, make each other moan, enjoy the moment, share the way only two people can give to each other and damn ....make each other cum as much as humanly possible !

@bridgette Depends on the mood. I agree!

Yeah, now that you mention it I did see this on You tube. Your husband didn't mention he was recording it?

Well my ex sub of course loved rough sex, choking too... but normally It was all well controlled.

We often spoke about 3 somes and other couples but one time we had been on vacation together and I dont know what put her off when I brought up the subject but she got very emotional and possessive.. We had a fight about it and it took all my efforts to keep her from walking out into a rough downtown neighborhood in another country.

When we got back home we talked about it and how upsetting it was to me... it really drained me..

So I told her she can never do that again and had to be punished... It was the first and only time that I had gotten very very emotional about it and was extremely rough with her, (shes only 4ft10 , half my weight) she ended up crying in my arms after, But OMG we both agreed after that it was the best sex ever.

One of us is on the road about 3-4 days a week, so atleast once a month, she'll tell me to fuck her hard so it lasts. It started when I told her I was going to spank her ass so hard she'd twitch all day as she sat down..

The next trip, she said she wanted the same "pain" on her pussy. So I did as she asked, and desired. The next day she texted me telling me that she was literally torn, ... I felt so bad.. When I got home I apologized and told I'd be careful next time.. She said "NO you won't" I loved it that hard.. So now before each trip.. she'll til me to make it last.. now we are perfecting the pain/soreness to last of the length of the trip..

Sounds awesome!

Yes, pull my hair, throw me on the bed, hold my hands so i cannot move them or restrain me, but dont slap my face, slap anywhere else and give me hard sex, ill keep up with you, this is a very wet subject

I like rough sex. In fact, as a gay submissive bottom, I prefer a man be very dominant, very rough and I love and enjoy being told what to do, spanked, smacked, tied up, choked, fucked hard, humiliated, etc. I can't explain it, I just do. Always have. I prefer bto submit to him, love being on my knees, love pleasing him.

The only sex I have nowadays is Hall sex. We pass each other in the hall and say "Fuck You"