My ex always said she hated enemas, but one time she got in a lot of trouble, and I decided to punish her. I tied her up and gave her an enema. We ended up breaking up a few years later, because she is a train wreck. But we still talk every now and then, and a while back she told me that she loved her punishment session. She said it was the hottest thing she has ever experienced.
It's too late to do anything about it now, that ship has sailed in multiple ways at this point, but sometimes I think about how I should have done things differently. She didn't admit her perceptiveness until it was too late. But, sometimes I think about what I would have done.
I'm just recently coming to grasp with the idea of just doing things, and asserting dominance. I think it would be really hot to lay down some rules. This is what I was thinking:
- Each of us gets at least 2 enemas a week.
- There is a set enema day of the week, probably Sunday.
- On any day of the week, she is to prepare a bag of water, at any time of her choosing. Walk up to me, and announce "It's time for your enema." Or, maybe on a weekend morning, prepare a bag and wake me up to give it to me.
- At any day of the week, I can surprise her the same way. If I "forget", she needs to remind me before Sunday, and beg for her enema.
- If the regular Sunday enema time comes, and she has not given and/or received an enema yet, then she will receive extra enemas.
I think it would be a fun way to increase intimacy. It would be a nice way to add an element of surprise. You're minding your own business, and next thing you know, you're about to get an enema, whether you want it or not. Just like mom used to do. You can beg all you want. "Please, I don't want an enema!" Deep down, you really do want it, but it would be fun to play the role of the unwilling enema recipient. "I know what's best for you, and trust me, you need this."
It would be fun to occasionally "forget" to give her one, and have her remind me. "You still haven't given me an enema yet!" Play it off, like "yeah, I've been busy." And have her beg for it. "Please? I really need one. It's been too long since I had my last one, I need it!"
Or, one of us gets home from work, and the other one is standing there, with a bag full of warm water, ready to go. "Welcome home, it's time for your enema!"
I've also thought about how it would be fun to have her laying naked, the bag hanging above her. The nozzle is in her ass, she's waiting for it to start. Ask her "whose enema is this?" And she'd say "it's mine!" How much of it do you want? And she'd reply "I want all of it!" What do you say? "Please!" Please what? "Please give it to me!" Keep toying with her like this, asking for her to add words, until she finally says "please give me my enema!"
I've also seen a video on everything butt, where they get a girl all hooked up and ready to go, and then he makes her count down. She counts slowly, knowing that as soon she says "one", the clamp is going to open. The way she reluctantly says "one" is amazing.
So I was wondering if anyone here has ever established any kind of games like this. Or maybe people are looking for some ideas about how to make things more fun, and perhaps I'll give you some ideas. Anybody else have any good ideas to add to my list of rules? This could be a really fun way to add a bit of D/S to the bedroom, and even get your partner to start enjoying enemas, looking forward to them, and even begging for them.