Anal Eroticism - When did it start for you?

Hello everyone,

I would have posted this topic under anal eroticism but there was no category for it. I'm doing some research on anal eroticism for an exercise on article writing (I'll ultimately publish it here on zity as a personal blog entry). I would love to hear from all of you, both male and female in terms of:

- what your definition of anal erotic is

- how old you were when you became anal erotic

- what specific event(s) transformed you

Here are some examples:

Laura became anal erotic as a young girl, after being administered suppositories whenever she was ill during her childhood. It was not only the suppository insertion that was pleasurable but rather the fact of seeing her father apply Vaseline to his finger as well as him hugging her after insertion. Because of this, Laura enjoys age play fantasies with men willing to play the role of father.

Jay became anal erotic at the age of 6 during a hospital stay. He had his first DREs during this experience as well as multiple RTs and an enema so his anus was subject to all sorts of constant insertions. His most intense memory during this time was when he had a DRE from a female doctor. Her finger was warm and slender, a pleasurable feeling but also had an unexplained sense of connection with her.

So I'm curious to hear your theories and experiences on the subject of the beginning of erotic pleasures of your anus!

Anal eroticism? I guess that that woud be finding anal stimulation to be pleasurable and erotic on a high percentage of encounters and/or seeking out anal stimulation as a component for a not-insignificant proportion of your sexual experiences.

How old? Well, it developed along with my general sexuality during adolescence.

Specific events? Can't think of any. Ongoing constipation issues meant that there was lots of attention focused on my butt from myself and some from others, I imagine that helped significantly. Did get enemas and suppositories to deal with constipation as necessary, but don't remember enjoying them much, though the seed may have been planted.

I believe I was about 13. My friend and I would camp out. We began playing with each others balls and cock naked. At one time he had me lay flat face down and rolled on top of me and began pumping his hard-on against my butt. He then laid beside me. Spit on his finger and pushed it slowly into my rectum. Felt nice. We never penetrated each other with our cocks but would hump each other. One time I ejaculated in his butt crack with the head of my cock right against his anus, he flinched as I shot it and said ,” dang that is hot”! He said it felt good and quickly masterbated. The semen ran all over his balls.

When? Age 12, very pubescent, lying facedown on the pediatrician exam table as the doctor curled his fingers inside the waistband of my underwear and pulled them down, fully exposing my bottom, then spreading my cheeks with his soft warm hands and then examining me, to my shock, embarrassment, excitement, shame, joy.

I believe that I am anal erotic from receiving enemas and rectal thermometers inserted as a child. I always fought my mother when she wanted to give me an enema, yet when I was in my early teens I began using the white porcelain enamel container to give myself enemas. I would become aroused from the thought of giving myself an enema, and always masturbated et the end of every session. I am still aroused at the thought of giving and receiving enemas but have not given a man or woman an enema for many years. I have a homemade enema nozzle that screws on the end of the shower hose and use this to clean out my colon frequently. I still hope to bring enemas into the conversations with my lady friend and to add them to our sexual sessions when she is ready.

I think I was born anal erotic. I never had enemas or suppositories growing up. I never had a rectal temperature growing up that I remember. My mom always took my temperature under my armpit. If I was constipated, it was always oral laxatIves. There were no outside forces that influenced my anal erotic behavior. When I was in elementary school, I was fascinated by my anal area. I would play show your butt with one of the neighborhood boys. We would go into the bushes and show each other’s butt hole. I would love to use my finger and rub the outside of my butt hole because it felt so good. I also loved that musty smell of a butthole. As I got into my teenage years, I would insert a pencil with the eraser going into my butthole and it felt so good. I didn’t do it too much because I had a fear that it might get stuck or break off. In my late teenage years, I wanted my boyfriend to stick his penis in my ass but it never happened. When I was 20, I had to go to the hospital. I got my first suppository ever. Even though I was sick, it felt good going in. In my mid 20’s, I had my first ever rectal exam. I enjoyed feeling the doctor’s finger going into my butt. It felt so wonderful. Later in my 20’s, I met a guy who inserted his finger and eventually a dildo in my butt. This was the best feeling ever. Then at the age of 30 I met my husband and he opened a whole world of anal play to me. I think we are born anal erotic. I had no influence from rectal temperatures, enemas, suppositories, or etc. growing up. I think if you had this growing up, it just build on your anal erotic behavior that you were already born with. I wish that I could have nurtured my anal erotic behavior with enemas and suppositories growing up. This my experience with anal erotic behavior that I was just born with it. I wish I had internet back then to learn more about anal play.