Adult Nursing Relationship

Hi, my wife and I are starting an adult nursing relationship and I was wondering if anyone had some pointers on this subject.

We are both new to this and not sure of everything like procedures and how to get her to lactation.

There used to be two websites that had directions and suggestions for inducing lactation. One was called the "Land of Milk and Honey" and the other "AnrSpace". Sadly, the owner of the "Land of Milk and Honey" sold it and it is not as good nor as helpful as it once was. "AnrSpace" got hacked almost a year ago and one could not access their own account, only others. owners took it down and it has yet to be put back up.

Happily, the owner of "Milk and Honey" has created a new site. It's not as easy to navigate but here's the link. I'll see if I can find the links on lactation induction and post them later.

I was seriously considering inducing with my last partner who was also into this but sadly, we broke up before being able to do so.

http://giftofmilk.com/

@Nilloc1

Here is one of the links on inducing lactation.

http://breastnotes.com/breastfeeding/Re-lactation%20Overview.htm

@Nilloc1

One more item. You need to learn how to "latch on" and properly nurse. You can practice dry nursing now.

The bond created nursing is beyond amazing. It's as if time slows way down. Your breathing slows, matches your partner.

I never got the chance to induce lactation with my partner due to the distance between us. I keep thinking if dry nursing was that otherworldly wonderful, wet nursing must be truly over the top.

I think that lactating and nursing will grow such a special bond between you. There are natural supplements like Milk Flow that are fenugreek and sometimes other herbs. They helped me when I was breastfeeding my children, and when I take them now (especially a few days before my period or ovulation) after a couple days I'll start to feel swollen breasts and I'll get drops of milk from my nipples with massage. Buying a breast milk pump and using that 15-20 minutes a couple of times/day ... Simulates the nursing feeling and while you're having your breasts pumped is great time to play (I get to feel mild uterine contractions during extended denial play... Yummy). Good luck!

I would love to have an adult nursing relationship - dry at my age but still fun.

I did help my wife out a few times after she had our children. One evening she was complaining of being full, but our son was sleeping and she was too tired to get out of bed. I relieved her pressure and enjoyed the intimacy of drinking from her. Unfortunately it was a rare time as our marriage was not doing very well at that point.

@Becca It IS possible to stimulate milk production even if you are dry now. But from what I’ve read it is not an easy process. It takes some serious dedication to massaging and stimulating the breast and taking herbal supplements, but it is possible. There are definitely online forums that love to help women make this happen - and some aren’t even kinky, as women who adopt newborns also have this need!

Its delicious being nursed whether dry or lactating

A friend recently brought her boyfriend over to my house and wanted to see two guys together. She is a nurse and had each of us strip to our white briefs, gave us an exam and gave each of us an enema - side by side. It was great to have a dom woman control us in a nursing role play.

Bithesea said

A friend recently brought her boyfriend over to my house and wanted to see two guys together. She is a nurse and had each of us strip to our white briefs, gave us an exam and gave each of us an enema - side by side. It was great to have a dom woman control us in a nursing role play.

NURSING in this context refers to breastfeeding/nursing/lactation--NOT being with a nurse giving you an enema or other type of nursing care.

I have done some adult nursing play with a female partner who was "mommy" for the session. It was dry nursing. I'd like to try adult wet nursing.

I would love it too!! Someone asked me once why men are so attracted to women's breasts. My best guess is that it's a kind of instinctive thing. I've always loved sucking a woman's breasts. I think it goes back to our childhoods.

I was born in ‘66, when mothers were put to sleep for childbirth and completely discouraged from using their breasts - the new ‘formula’ was better! I turned into an ASS man, instead of a breast man. Is that the reason? Who knows...

While preferring anything anal sexually, a woman producing milk and being sucked on by man or woman is VERY erotic to me. Its an acceptance and love for what a woman’s amazing body can do. Pregnancy and childbirth and breast feeding are quintessentially female, so given that I am attracted to and adore all things female, of course it is sexy! If I had a partner who had an interest in inducing lactation I would love to help in any way possible, firmly believing that it could be a significant bonding experience between us. So personal, so intimate, so sensual!! I would feel so honored and blessed to be with her on this quest, even though she’d be my submissive.

I can still get drops of milk, I know with a partner's consistent attentions and suckling... (Maybe some lactation bondage ?)... That I could make milk again... A girl can dream... ?

LOVE IT.. Most intimate part of our relationship.. My fiancé was able to jump start her milk production using pills and diet supplements, suckling by me and a breast pump. So tender and amazing. So erotic to be able to suckle milk from her.

Currently stopped as it takes a lot of effort to keep going (has to pump 3-4 times a day). Her breasts got amazing beautify and huge! .. We'll be restarting soon..

On the odd occasion my wife let me drink her milk, i really enjoy the act of drinking her milk from her breast. Very erotic and bonding! She is pregnant again so I am really hoping to have more nursing experiences soon!

Enjoy every moment of this process and experience. Being part of an adult nursing relationship is a huge fantasy of mine and wish i had a partner with whom I could share this intimate bonding act.

Nothing better than nursing as it really relaxes me from the days events plus actually tastes great

Girlfriend tells me today she’s restarting ... the production process with the pump and pills ! ... can’t wait so excited ..

The road to lactation, or relactation, for an adult, is exactly the same as it would be for an infant.

It takes a long time, a strict timetable, lots of dedication and patience, but is, possibly, the most wonderful feeling when it finally happens.

Back in the day, my wife was a milk machine, she could free flow into the sink with no problem. Unfortunately she advised me to keep my mouth from her 'operational equipment:'.

Hookajoe..

Unfortunately my fiancé and I are separated geography so it prevents us from working the milking process right now. We've decided that until we are together as much as we can.. we have have stopped the milk inducement process. To answer your question, we use some pills to jump start the process and between me suckling and her using pumps she's (she's 50) able to induce milk production within 3-4 weeks. The deal is you must keep it going or the production stops. What we have "settled" to is me suckling her ever morning as we wake and as we fall asleep when together.... It makes her wet and me HARD. Very sensual and brings us close together.

Its a time commitment... but will worth it to induce the milk production, but is great without too. my two cents...

Also, read some of the posts before posting blindly. In this context, "nursing" is breast feeding, not medical procedures.

As I am on this adventure I wonder what are comfortable nursing position? My little is having neck pain from nursing.

My fiancee is trying to re-lactate. She nursed her daughter for 3 years, but that was some time ago. I do love to dry nurse and we have been doing that for several years but 6 months ago she decided to attempt to make milk again. I don't want her to use drugs and she doesn't use the pill, so I bought her a pump, and I suckle from her nipples 4-5 times a day. So far she has produce small amount of clear liquid and we remain hopeful. My wife did nurse me when she had our kids and that was wonderful, but she didn't know about my diaper fetish. Now, I am diapered every time I dry nurse from my fiance.

@The_Goddess_Marie

To have your little nurse without any discomfort for either of you, try this.

Stretch out in bed, slightly on left side. Have pillows propping you up slightly. Then have your little lay on her right side and nurse from your left breast. Adjust pillows behind either of you as needed to make you both comfy. It's easiest when both of you slightly bend your legs and interlace them. In both of the instances where I had a partner who loved to nurse (dry, sadly) I opened my l legs and they put their top leg inside of mine. We could drift off this way if it was just relaxing dry nursing. I usually would stroke his cheek as he nursed. At some point, we'd switch either switch sides by turning over and switching sides. Or we'd add a lot of pillows behind his head elevating it so he could bring it even with my right breast and continue nursing on that side. Heavenly!!!

Once in a while, as we were sleeping, I'd awaken a bit to find he'd latched on in the night to nurse for a bit and then would fall back a sleep. He never remembered it the next morning and it felt so relaxing it never kept me up. I'd just fall back asleep all relaxed.

One other item you might want to try. My partner at that time could completely control my response to his nursing depending upon how he used his tongue on my nipples. If he used it one way, I'd immediately feel very loving and nurturing toward him due to the release of oxytocin. If he used it another way, it would immediately cause a sexual response. My nipple and clit were definitely wired together! We also found he could cause the reaction as if turning a switch and I could not block the feeling if I tried.

I'd love to tell exactly what he did to cause which response but he'd only tell me the two different techniques but NOT which technique was causing which response. Hee is what he did. Feel free to experiment and then share what happens here. I'd love to know. If he hardened his tongue and made it flatter, then rubbed it across the top of my nipple, it would cause one response. If he hardened his tongue and made it narrower, then rubbed it on the side of my nipple, it would cause an entirely different response. Mmmmmmm, I miss it so much!

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Make sure you learn to latch properly and suckle at regular intervals.

@Nixie

What do you think is the easiest way to teach someone (an adult) to latch?

I'm a sucker for a nice breast, never had a problem with “latching” on.

My first real life experience other than my mother I'd like to repeat here…. However id rather reserve this as a story.

There is a valid reason which I'll reveal in due course

@sweetkissestoo

This sounds lame but have them just read about it. Also making sure you are positioning the breast properly in the mouth. So many think it's just the nipple but you need their mouth open more around the breast though. I was lucky the first time I had a guy who knew what he was doing and after that I was pregnant and breastfeeding so I just kept my supply even after my kid weaned.