Other than getting spanked and paddled as a child, I've never been spanked as an adult. But the thought of it is exciting to me, and I have a potential opportunity to act on those thoughts in a couple of weeks. Near where I live we have a members-only BDSM dungeon. I've always wanted to check it out but have never had the opportunity (or courage) to do so. But in a couple of weeks they have their regularly scheduled male-only spanking party at the dungeon. I was thinking that this might be an opportunity for me to go see the place and also see what male-to-male spanking is all about.
I'm assuming that worst case, I'll simply watch the other guys. They said the party is relaxed and no pressure, and concentrates on spanking, paddling, strapping and caning. But in a best-case scenario (if I'm brave or horny enough), I might decide to join in, probably being on the receiving end of a spanking.
I'm looking for information or advice from anyone that has experience with an event like this. For starters, can someone fill me in on the relative pain or marking of the various methods (spanking vs strapping, etc)?
Thanks.