Gyn Exams

A number of women I have talked to over the years have made the correlation of pelvic exams by their male doctors as having a bit of Dom/sub similarities... ie that the Doctor/patient relationship was often similar to a Dominant/submissive.

Anyone agree or disagree with that analogy?

Doc Geoff

Not the same at all.

Not even close.

No it is just not like that. I do not think there is any domination-submission thing with it.

It's a real examination, no games, strictly professional, and for a very real purpose with not even one thought of "games" at all.

I have experienced both sides of this argument: those who say gyn exams are and aren't D/s.

Here's my opinion: they aren't D/s.

D/s is all about power play. Giving up/ taking over power from one individual to another. But when I go to have an exam done (real or play), I as the patient maintain my right to say no or to stop play. I have the ability to not submit to the exam. I choose to allow my doctor to examine me and proceed with care deemed in my best interest. I also have the right to request a witness for my exam, pain control with a painful procedure, and appropriate draping/covering to maintain as much modesty as I can for any procedure or exam about to take place. I pay for a physician to be knowledgeable about the human body and provide high level, conscientious care. This is the gyn patient in a mutual agreement of what needs to be done for her health.

The idea that gyn exams are D/s would be a scenario where the gal walks in, is ordered to take off her clothes and be totally naked, have the doctors not care about her at all but instead use her and her body for the doctors pleasure and not considering her opinions or feelings or comfort, etc. Does this happen in play? Yes. But is real life like this? No.

This is obviously his fantasy.

Having never experienced a play exam, I cannot imagine any examination which would put the patient in any position that would be deemed distasteful. In real or play, the procedures should follow some sort of format to be agreeable to both parties.

I cannot imagine a real exam situation in which the doctor would try to dominate the patient. It would be completely unethical, and I suspect "the good doctor" would be up on charges before long! While I am sure some ladies will feel some embarrassment when undergoing a gyno exam, that is THEIR emotion, NOT the doctor's intent, and thus definitely NOT D/s. In play exams, some women do want a D/s relationship, but again, a realistic play exam will not have a D/s component.

In a real situation , no it is just a professional gyn exam. No bdsm. In play with a gyn exam it depends what the parties have agreed on but not at all related to a real gyn exam. I get no excitement from gyn in a real drs office, find it boring. But in play is a whole different scenario

I feel that being a patient, male or female, puts you in a sub situation. The doctor is in control and can pretty much do what they want to, within reason. Also being naked or partially naked and the doc fully clothed puts you in the sub class too.

Ok. In my psychology lessons we had striped gyno exam to parts which can be turn on both sides. And it was possible to being horny women which likes being dominated by doctor (but second side was more often but very hide and taboo topic).

A real exam has nothing like a dom sub feeling at all. As the patient in stirrups you are in charge and it feels it. The dr asks permission to examine you and i could close my legs and say no at any point.

In play then it can wonderful to have legs strapped down, the dr does not ask you but tells what they will do and ensures it tests your limits.

@rectal66 said

I feel that being a patient, male or female, puts you in a sub situation. The doctor is in control and can pretty much do what they want to, within reason. Also being naked or partially naked and the doc fully clothed puts you in the sub class too.

WRONG WRONG WRONG

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@Saraswitches said

A real exam has nothing like a dom sub feeling at all. As the patient in stirrups you are in charge and it feels it. The dr asks permission to examine you and i could close my legs and say no at any point.

In play then it can wonderful to have legs strapped down, the dr does not ask you but tells what they will do and ensures it tests your limits.

THANK YOU for explaining this to the people, especially the men who think a real exam is like those on PornHub and have ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA what a real exam is like.

I'm actually shocked that the men even had to ask.

It makes one wonder how much experience the men who claim to be experienced actually have. Very little I believe. Most are wannabes.

As long as the patient is conscious, the patient is in the "driver's seat"

I am keeping it real. I have had both scenarios. I have had totally professional exams by a male doctor, but on the other hand, I have had a doctor proposition me, but I turned him down.

I’ve got a fairly strong medical fetish and honestly I can’t think of anything less sexually exciting than going to an ACTUAL exam. I’m usually too concerned over there being something wrong. Play exams are another thing entirely.