Anesthetic lubricants for the rectum

What do you suggest a semi-anesthetizing lubricating gel for anal intercourse for you do you know someone?

You can use Anethaine which is an anal anesthetic cream. But it won't work as lubricant, so you'll have to add K-Y to the mix. Bad idea, though, because pain is your body's regulating mechanism to prevent you from taking things too far and into the damage zone.

Yep I agree with fiburst58- pain is a sign the object you are penetrating with is too wide.

If anal intercourse is painful, then there are lots of things you can do to help make the person being penetrated able to accept a penis/dildo/toy without pain- within reason. The bottom line is, if you are trying to put something in your ass that has more width than the person can take, then it is gonna hurt and could cause damage. There are lots of threads on how do anal penetration without pain here on zity, and tons of info on the Internet. The person taking the penetration may need to practice first with smaller toys and work up to taking the man's penis without pain.

Forcing something into your anus can cause tears and do damage- you never want to go down that road.

DANGER WILL ROBINSON!

THIS IS NOT A GOOD IDEA.

You could injure yourself and not know it which could make the injury worse.

Pain is your body telling you something is wrong.

DON'T.

Step away from the topicals!

Move slowly, learn to relax, and learn to trust your partner. Even if your partner is you. Go slow enough that there isn't pain, otherwise you'll set yourself back.