Foley catheter fetish

Sean,

Thanks for the long educational reply to my question. Very interesting. I've never heard about how it really feels before. And part of my curiosity was because I wasn't convinced that the lube would travel down your penis and urethra instead of just squirting or leaking out the tip because of resistance to forward flow. If I wasn't concerned with UTI risk I'd like to try it as your description makes it sound interesting, perhaps even pleasant or erotic. And remember, even if you're a urologist you can do everything apparently "right" and still get a UTI. Sounds like you've had a good track record. One of the boldest, best most experienced surgeons I ever knew once looked at me after one of our patients had a sudden unexpected complication and said with a serious straight face "Shit happens."

I'm glad you and others can enjoy your urethral eroticism. Wish I could join you.

Eric

To have a foley catheter being inserted into my urethra is something that I want to try since a very long time, but still haven`t find a play partner who is experienced into that.

If you really want to try a Foley catheter, you don't need someone to insert it into you. In fact, if you are not absolutely certain that the person knows exactly what they are doing, a Registered Nurse for example, you may be better off self inserting it.

The reason is that you can feel pain if there is any problem you can stop instantly. By pain I mean ANYTHING more than a bit of discomfort. Also, you must resist the impulse to push just a little bit. A catheter should go in slowly and easily with no more than a bit of irritation.

Always use a prepackaged Foley catheterizing kit. It should be new and fully sterile, with an undamaged, unopened package, and in-date. Don't take chances.

There are some good videos on insertion on YouTube. ere is one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VaTDB-Uq_Rw

A couple of hints:

If you don't know what size you need, a good starting point for an adult is Fr 14. Catheters come in many sizes. For most adults something in the range of Fr 12, Fr 14, Fr 16, or Fr 18. The Fr (French Scale) size is about 3x the catheter diameter in mm; a Fr 14 is about 4.7mm OD.

Foley catheters are mostly made of Latex (amber color) or Silicone (clear/white color). Generally silicone are a bit more expensive, but last longer. The Latex are generally a bit softer and can be more comfortable. Now there are also siliconized Latex too.

The catheter needs to be well lubricated with sterile jel. I prefer the kits with the lube in a syringe and inject the lube into the urethra before insertion. This is a personal choice.

If you have trouble getting the sterile gloves on and accidentally touch something non-sterile, you can wipe the gloves carefully with Betadine.

After a while, the catheter my irritate the entrance to your urethra a bit. If so, carefully clean the area and apply a bit of antibiotic ointment to lube the area.

Sleeping with a Foley in is a very nice experience. You can get a full night's sleep without waking, even once, to pee. It's likely there will be 1000ml or more in your pee bag in the morning.

In summary:

Be sterile

Be gentle

Don't continue if you have any pain

If in doubt.. STOP.

Enjoy

I am a man, a diver from Asia, I use foley catheter since 25 years ago when got a motorcycle accident. I had to use catheter and diaper for 2 months. Of course, the first time is not good feeling. I had been insert the catheter when unconscious, after woke up, the feel come, and feel hurt.

But very funny, after 2 weeks, a male nurse change my catheter and comfort me (because I am really struggle at the moment), I feel like a slave and my bladder out of control.... I start to love this feeling. The catheter removed after 2 months and no need to use again. But I miss the feeling.

Few months later after discharge from hospital, I found a commercial diver from a forum who use indwelling catheter with urine bag in his drysuit for diving. We share and discuss, and I try after that.

Now the catheter on and off, I mean insert for few days to 1 week and off for a week and cath again. But I plan to have it full time. I have already cath for 21 days and will going to change after few days. I am using silicon catheter 16fr. And also with urine bag and diaper.

Could anyone give me some comment and share? I just like to know, as a so-call healthy man like me, is that a problem? If I don't mind to lost control later.

I do like to have some male friend into same practice to keep connect and share, support.

One more thing, If I move to UK later, is that easy to buy the catheter with doctor's prescription?

I have just removed my in and out 14 intermittent catheter and I just cleared the last of my uti. i inserted little resistance as usual except when it enters prostate. No pain in or out. Best described by the enema reassurance that it may feel odd.

Btw I gave myself a250 cc enema using my Twenty foley As a nozzle with 30 cc balloon, worked great. Awaiting privacy tomorrow for a regular course of 2l with dr bonners. Followed by 2 3 qt rinse.

Catheters, especially in and out Self cath I find actually convenient . Before bed, before we go out for the evening

The foley in the dry suit was a great idea.

The thoughts of peeing in s wet suit sets my mind off more pressing matters

If there's one fetish I wish I could have it would be this one. For some reason I have a very intense aversion to anything going up my penis. Stick things up my butt, no problem.. Large needles to give blood, no problem. Getting and injection in my eye ever few months, no problem. But just the thought of a catheter going up my penis - I shudder and feel horrible in ways I can't describe! Had to have done twice while in the hospital a few years back, and was hoping that would less my aversion, but nope. With my BPH problems, I fear it's a problem waiting for me. Wonder how if others have had and gotten over this intense fear.

I am a man, a diver from Asia, I use foley catheter since 25 years ago when got a motorcycle accident. I had to use catheter and diaper for 2 months. Of course, the first time is not good feeling. I had been insert the catheter when unconscious, after woke up, the feel come, and feel hurt.

But very funny, after 2 weeks, a male nurse change my catheter and comfort me (because I am really struggle at the moment), I feel like a slave and my bladder out of control.... I start to love this feeling. The catheter removed after 2 months and no need to use again. But I miss the feeling.

Few months later after discharge from hospital, I found a commercial diver from a forum who use indwelling catheter with urine bag in his drysuit for diving. We share and discuss, and I try after that.

Now the catheter on and off, I mean insert for few days to 1 week and off for a week and cath again. But I plan to have it full time. I have already cath for 21 days and will going to change after few days. I am using silicon catheter 16fr. And also with urine bag and diaper.

Could anyone give me some comment and share? I just like to know, as a so-call healthy man like me, is that a problem? If I don't mind to lost control later.

I do like to have some male friend into same practice to keep connect and share, support.

One more thing, If I move to UK later, is that easy to buy the catheter with doctor's prescription?

RubberDiver,

I'm a former SCUBA diver and Instructor in the US. Have you ever talked to or looked at DUI, Inc. in San Diego? They have a built-in or add-on device to allow you to urinate while wearing your dry suit. I have one of their suits. They are at :

divedui.com.

Good luck. Post or PM me back with any questions.

Eric

@reddevil

I had the same concerns a few years ago. Then I had to have surgery under General Anesthetic and when I woke up, I felt the need to pee, but could not.

Post-op I was not allowed out of bed. The nurse brought me a urinal, but try as I might, there was simply no go. After several more hours, I was in quite a bit of pain so a Bladder Scan was ordered which showed almost 1000ml.

The doctor said post-op urinary retention (POUR) was common and I'd have to be catheterized. I was really concerned but was also in pain. A few minutes later, the nurse came in and put in a Fr 14 Foley catheter. She didn't use a lot of lube, so it was a bit ouchie, but peeing was a great relief. That first pee largely filled the bag hanging bedside, and the catheter stayed in for perhaps 8 hours.

Since then, I've been cathed a number of times, both by a nurse and self-cathed, and once you get over the initial reticence it's not bad, done carefully.

The absolutely vital thing is sterile equipment and procedures. If you are careless, likely you'll get a UTI.

The nice things about having a Foley catheter in you is there is no need to get up at night to pee, no matter how much you've drunk before bedtime. A 2000ml bed bag will easily hold 4x 12 Oz cans of soda; a 1000ml belly bag will hold 2. Also, the mild irritation of the catheter may well keep you somewhat erect overnight with the attendant feelings.

@Sean thanks for advice. Wish it would be like it was for you for me, but having had it done twice in the hospital and making no difference.. Also, I'm very prone to UTI's - and got a really bad one after the second time I was cath'ed...

If there's one fetish I wish I could have it would be this one. For some reason I have a very intense aversion to anything going up my penis. Stick things up my butt, no problem.. Large needles to give blood, no problem. Getting and injection in my eye ever few months, no problem. But just the thought of a catheter going up my penis - I shudder and feel horrible in ways I can't describe! Had to have done twice while in the hospital a few years back, and was hoping that would less my aversion, but nope. With my BPH problems, I fear it's a problem waiting for me. Wonder how if others have had and gotten over this intense fear.

RedDevil,

I'm an enema lover and always wanted to try having a Foley latex catheter in my penis and bladder especially during an enema simply because it sounded like it might be at least interesting if not very erotic. The only reason I haven't is from UTI risk. I think it might sting somewhat putting it in and out the first time or two, but I'm not afraid of that. I have serious ED and an old history of chronic prostatitis, so as much as I'd like to try it, at 68+ I don't want to add any other potentially serious GU problems to the mix. I'll just have to fantasize about the Foley plus enema scenario unless something occurs to change my mind. To those of you amateur urethra catheterizers, continued good luck with your fun and avoiding a UTI.

ERIC

UTIs can be quite problematic. Most clear up with a program of antibiotics, but not all. Even if you take the full course of prescribed meds, it is possible that the infection will not be fully wiped out and the UTI will re-appear in a more virulent form.

Then there are the problems that antibiotics cause. Many will kill off some or all of your gut bacteria. Many people don't realize that gut microcritters are absolutely essential to controlled poo. If they are killed off, you'll poo soup very urgently many times a day or worse you'll be in diapers for need, not fun. There is a continuous war going on in every ones' colon- good microcritters v. bad microcritters (like C Diff). If all the good are killed off, the bad bloom. C Diff is very nasty at best and utterly miserable and possibly life-threatening at worst.

I don't know if one can get a UTI even if the sterile insertion technique is perfect, but suspect one can. An infection from the outside world (ie: everywhere) probable can travel up the interface between a person's urethra and the catheter causing infections. In a woman, this passage is short, in a man it's about 8" long.

Worse, in a guy the penis alternates between erect and flaccid, causing a Foley to be more or less exposed at various times. When flaccid, the exposed part of the catheter can get contaminated from the surroundings, and this contamination is drawn into the urethra when erect. Putting Vaseline or an antibiotic cream on the entry point helps, but, likely as not, if you have a Foley in for a week or more, a UTI is highly likely.

Bottom line is if you simply cannot pee, there is a catheter in your very near future. Period. It's not a lot of fun or an intensely erotic experience and can be very humiliating. With a catheter you have zero control of peeing. Zero.

You may be sore for several days, but that goes away. A catheter should NEVER really hurt or bleed.

UTIs can be quite problematic. Most clear up with a program of antibiotics, but not all. Even if you take the full course of prescribed meds, it is possible that the infection will not be fully wiped out and the UTI will re-appear in a more virulent form.

Sean,

I'm a retired doc, and the quote from your post above, among other reasons you cite in your posts, is one of the major reasons I haven't succumbed to my curiosity and desire to experiment with how a Foley feels, especially combined with an enema. I'd really love to try it, but I have enough GU issues already, aside from my age, that keep me from taking the risk of a UTI just for sexual enjoyment. Since you are speaking from a lot of experience, I wish you continued good luck with your urinary entertainment without ever contracting a UTI.

Fortunately for me, enemas are not prone to this sort of infection risk, so I'll keep enjoying them plus my other kinks for as long as I'm healthy.

All the best,

Eric

As you may know I have been self cathing for 4or 5 years. I have had lidicane inserted by a 5ml luer lock syringe. It felt strange and hurt a bit. I then procede to a cysto where the ddoc could not get the 14fr scope through my urinary spincter (sp?). I thought he was rougher than he needed to be. Passed the test but ended with me later having aUTI of enormous proportions, up to and including bladder spasms. I assure you that they hurt like hell.

So when I started fooling with lube inserted, I was apprehensive to say the least.

I shot lube right out of the tube via a large catheter tip syringe. I could certainly could feel it, but it helped during inserting.

Being who I am I got curious about rectal use. I drew up a goodly gob out of the tube and shot it in my rectum. It felt cool and squishy but I I liked the sensation. Then inserted my 1.5 inch plug a squirt of lube on the plug. When up my ass in a flash.

I will definitely squirt on my next insertion be it solid or liquid. I loved the feeling of that gob of lube in my rectum. I will experiment more but I worry about cost of the lube.

I am lying here post small twe feeling good, front and back.

@ericmacson

The issue of the GI side effects of antibiotics seems not to be common knowledge, until someone actually gets it. Furthermore, some treatment strategies seem to be misguided.

In summary, antibiotics kill microcritters in a person's GI tract. Without the "good" varieties, the bad can get out of hand. So more antibiotics are given to preferentially kill the "bad"... and the circle continues.

It seems a better solution is to give "good" bacteria with and/or after a course of antibiotics, but this doesn't always work. I suspect it's because the supplements only give some of thye needed varieties, not all.

There is a solution, but it's rarely discussed:

https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/gastroenterology_hepatology/clinical_services/advanced_endoscopy/fecal_transplantation.html

This has a very high "Yukk" factor and many other problems, like the transfer of disease, but in the abstract makes a lot more sense. Essentially, it repopulated the area with the indigenous population.

Fundamentally, it's little different than getting a pro-biotic retention enema as are given up high rectally by some colon hydrotherapists at the end of a session, but still. In my personal experience, these pro-biotic enemas work! For several weeks after getting one, pooing is easier, more regular, and better in every way. IMO, they are far more effective than the same stuff given orally.

Currently on day 3 wearing a 16fr 30cc inflated to 45cc. Purely for pleasure. No issues or complications in the past with my cath play and I’m very cautious about being sterile. I love clamping the tube off and letting my bladder fill up until I can’t take it anymore. Once released, it takes up to 30 seconds to completely drain and feels amazing the whole time. Anyone else like bladder control?

Currently on day 3 wearing a 16fr 30cc inflated to 45cc. Purely for pleasure. No issues or complications in the past with my cath play and I’m very cautious about being sterile. I love clamping the tube off and letting my bladder fill up until I can’t take it anymore. Once released, it takes up to 30 seconds to completely drain and feels amazing the whole time. Anyone else like bladder control?

Hi!

Im on my second day wearing a 22Fr silicone foley with 30ml balloon. I plug the catheter daytime to let my bladder work like for real. Of course, I let it so full every time... 😉

I had cum twice. Imagine how fast is the 22Fr pees... I only use bed bag for night. I love to sleep cathed and pee free all night.

I don't know when I was the last time without a catheter. I love to wear catheters.