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Hi. I have recently become interested in anal and prostate and want a orgasm or three. How can I know if my prostate is gradually being awakened.

Hi. I have recently become interested in anal and prostate and want a orgasm or three. How can I know if my prostate is gradually being awakened.

Rub and massage it.

If it turns you on, it is awake.

DON'T expect an orgasm without penile stimulation.

If penile stimulation isn't possible you could try an anal dildo or anal dildo that vibrates. They work.

Don't worry about it. Just experiment and see what feels good. You might need to allow yourself to enjoy things or learn to enjoy them, but let your body be your guide and don't get too goal oriented or checkbox focused.

I will say that being at a high state of arousal makes it easier to find what you like.

Having a an orgasm from just anal/prostate stimulation alone is difficult to do. Yes, you can Google it and lots of videos appear of guys doing it, but I feel it is still hard to achieve and you may not be able to get a hands free anal orgasm with massage/toys/dildos.

The good news is once you are able to find and zero in on your prostate with whatever works, you can do lots of stimulation and not cum. Yes not cumming, can be a good thing. The intense pleasure you get from prostate stimulation is very pleasurable and can be done for as long as you want. Once you are ready to cum, just add some penile stimulation and you will erupt into a fantastic orgasm.

Learning to stimulate your prostate is huge plus for guys.

It's best to have your girlfriend or wife massage your prostate with her finger. It feels so damn good. A lot of couples use toys on the prostate, but there's really no substitute for the pad of a well placed index or middle finger....or both. If she uses a finger, and knows what she's feeling for, she can control the pressure and come hither motion directly against the gland through the rectal wall for maximum sensitivity. The first time you have your prostate stimulated, you'll probably feel like you need to piss until you get use to how intense it feels. Most women who are creative and open minded to providing ultimate arousal for their man will know how to give a prostate massage quite well. I wouldn't miss a prostate massage from my wife for anything else on this green Earth. It feels that amazing.

It's best to have your girlfriend or wife massage your prostate with her finger. It feels so damn good. A lot of couples use toys on the prostate, but there's really no substitute for the pad of a well placed index or middle finger..... . . . .

OR FIST !