The diaper abuse question

Ok kids DREAMER put up a video that struck alot of us in diffrent ways about achild who was abused and humiliated by her mother for bedwetting and other things. now this question is for all the true bedwetters out there. i dont want to hear your fantasys wrong question for that this is about true bedwetting and the way parents punish them for it!!!! now i know a few of you have been thru this in life from reading all the posts so i know a few can answer truthfully. ahem!!! how did your parents treat you when you wet the bed and please be truthfull here no fantasy stuff please pretty please. did they abuse you like the girl in the video or was it more of a loving thing of you need diapers at night and you dont have a choice type thing. either way its sad but the later is at least out of concern and love and not abuse by them. the video is a sad thing to watch and i know it happens in real life also so it makes it even sadder to watch. so your answers would be apreciated here on this because i have never seen a video that has affected me quite like the way that one did realy struck a chord with me. i tahnkfully never had that happen when i was young thank god.

It also resonated with me. I was born with spina bifida that caused my incontinence. But the birth defect wasn't diagnosed until I was 13. Growing up there was no answer for why little Mo wasn't potty training. My mother was under the delusion that I was doing this, wetting and messing my pants, as a personal afront to her.

Her method for forcing me to train (which wasn't in my physical capacity) was to humiliate me every chance she could. I was in diapers and plastic panties 24/7 and she never missed a chance to point this fact up to anyone, her friends, relatives, strangers, etc. Other "baby" treatments included public changes and diaper checks, making me sleep in a crib until I physically didn't fit anymore, sending me out to play in the yard with nothing more than a diaper and a t-shirt on and making me tote an infant's diaper bag everywhere we went.

The other unfortunate thing was the medical community (I was a victim of military doctors) who constantly reinforced the idea that this was somehow all my fault. One Army psychiatrist actually told my mother, in front of me (I was about 7 at the time I think), that my toileting behavior was a little boy's revenge and I was mentally ill.

Even after the diagnosis (thanks to a new fangled invention at the time, the CAT Scan), my mother never forgave me for what I did to her. I divorced my parents in my mid-20s and not talked to them since.

Sad but true... but, hey, some one had to live my life and I guess it was my turn. No regrets, it is what it is.

Wow sorry mo you had to thru with that stuff in life.but your safe now and we will be your new family here so we wont let nobody do that to one of our own!!!! there now dont you feel a little better LOL. you have a whole diaper gang backing you up now

Hey I could relate to u. I have Muscular Dystrophy and have been in diapers since birth because of it as well. My parents tried potty training me but I would just make in my underwear that lasted for about 2 years then they just put me back in diapers. I have a nanny that helps with my bathing, dressing, and diaper changing. Good luck with everything. Us physically disabled individuals have to stick together.

Well I was on a totally differant level. I didn't have any real health issues. And I really feel for those who did, and endured. I just had some normal type bedwetting for a short while. But this is not to say it didn't leave a mark on me. I don't really feel I have a right to complain. But, it's important to me, because it happened to me. No, I was in no way abused for my bedwetting, aside from maybe some teasing from my sister. The thing for me though was, I had a plastic sheet to take care of this problem. So when it happened I wet the bed, I was wet all over and the top sheet also. This meant I had to get up out of my sleep, and go tell my sleeping mother. Here's the rub, I always felt this to be such a bad thing, bad vibes came down on me, as if it was such a burden for my mother. The whole thing was done so matter of fact, pulling off the sheets, covers, my clothes. And then the reverse to put the new sheet on and my clothes too(PJ's). Now believe me, it wasn't a big deal to me mentally, or was it? I have this part of me that feels bad, that the whole matter didn't have much love or forgiveness for me. Here your beds dry, get in, night. And I can understand my mom's point of view too. Here it is middle of the night, and she has to clean up a wet bed half asleep, oh what fun! As I said before, this may not seem like much to someone else, but it happened to me, and is important to me, and I carry bad feelings from this time. I also remember sometimes not calling my mother, and just pulling the sheets off myself, changing my underwear and getting back onto the plastic sheet. Well that's my little story, no horrors, but still some tough dealings for me.

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Well scotty and mo i am sorry to hear about your ailments in life. but it makes who you are not waht you are. as we all now everthing happens for a reason i never ask god why did it happen to me. well not all the time but its out of fustration and he knows that. and luvs its hard when your a kid and a bedwetter even if your mom is cool about it like your was its thier job and they do what thay do for love of course. but for abuse of a child like that video is uncalled for and worng look at ( mo ) hes a adult now and still harbors bad feelings about it !!!! its something we cant shake in life its traumatic to us when young and we carry that to adult hood weather we want to or not.

I was a very bad bet wetter and my mother was not that hard on me but she'd make me wash and hang out the sheets after. There was one time when I was about 7-8 we went on hols for a week and i was made to wear nappies and plastic pants then

Hey Wearinganappy, when this happened, you mean you only wore them for bed times, right? You didn't have to wear them the whole time did you? I know people who have done this, but it was with younger children only just out of diapers. They thought it would be better, or easier to just keep the kids in their diapers the whole time. With bed wetting, visiting parks, long times in the car, I guess it would be best.

In my family, bedwetting was common for us. It was not punishment, but we had to wear diapers. It was a practical thing. One accident and it was overlooked, but if we had several within a week or so, we had to wear diapers for 2 months before we could go to bed without wearing diapers. Same thing with daytime wetting, it was over looked if it was one time. Twice in a short period, we wore either diapers or pull ups for a week after the last wetting, just to make sure. On trips, my brother and sisters were usually diapered up until we were 10. My youngest sister was an exception after she reached 7 because she never had accidents.

We were never made to feel like it was punishment to be put back into diapers. I wore diapers to bed until I was 8, because I needed them. When I started wetting the bed again at 12, I was put back into diapers because I needed them. When I started to have daytime accidents I needed them. I did not always like wearing diapers (I now have accepted them and enjoy them), but I always preferred them over a wet bed or pants.

Well as many of you that have read my posts will know i am a bed wetter although the fact that i didnt say in all my posts is that although my mum was very supportive and respected on who i would allow to tell about my secret. My dad was quite the opposite, maybe because he didnt understand my problems, but he always used to tell me stories which really scared and offended me, like just saying to me that i needed to stop, as if could magically just suddenly stop over night.

Dave has been my best friend since we were 8 years old.I met him through my mother's diaper business.His mother would diaper him at night for his bed wetting,and never make a big deal about it.I was never a bed wetter but when ever Dave came over for a sleep over mom would diaper both of us so Dave would not feel bad.Hell he didn't care he liked to wear diapers just like me.We would run around the house in shirts and diapers with back then rubberpants.Mom allways was checking us to see how her diaper products were working.She even had us wet them intentionally to see how they worked.It was the same at Dave's place his mother would diaper him and ask me if I wanted one as well.Silly lady having to ask me that.Dave had a sister Ann she was pretty and a lot older than us and thought we were crazy.She had a bunch of her friends sneak into the house to catch us in diapers and then dragged us outside to show everyone of her friends who gathered around us in the front yard.Dave was so upset he peed his diapers in front of everyone.Ann moved away and didn't torment him anymore and Dave kept on with the diapers.In university we roomed together and kept quite a selection of diapers and baby clothes.It took a few years but we did find the odd girl to play with.Dave is married to Cathy a girl who loves to waer dispossable diapers and loves to baby him.They have a full nursery in their house,and the both have a lot of fun.

Boy, that part about Dave's sister and her friends taking you guys outside to make fun of you, must have been really bad. What is it with older sisters? That sounds like something my own sister would have done. Don't tell her I said that either, she might still do something like that to me 😮

Same here but they would just talk to me like i was a baby, eventhough it might be ok in fantacy but at that age it was really offencive to me

No I was not diaper abused just the opposite. My mom if she found my secret stash of my brothers' plastic pants would Riiiippppp them up in front of me telling me that was filthy and disgusting or she made put the plastic pants on them she would pull on the leg band or the waist band till she riiippped them off.The Punishments for bedwetting were bieng thrown into the shower and an ice cold shower or beaten with a belt. or having to wear my wet underpants around my neck

I have seen this film the mother blamed her daughter for her husbans death. That is when her daughter started wetting the bed. The mother instead of trying to reach out to her daughter about how she felt she took out her anger on her daughter and her bedwetting to punish and humiliate her by making her wear diapers. In the end the child got a hold of her mother's gun and blew her away. But you can see in the film that the diaper she was wearing as an adult was her way of punishing herself for things that went wrong in her life. To punish a child in this fashion is wrong you can address problems in a more constructive manner. I would not do this to my child.

I grew up a chronic nightly bedwetter. My Mother used to give me a lot of stick over it. Regular spankings and having my face rubbed in my wet sheets was normal. I was often made to sleep in the same unchanged bed for several nights in a row.