Making me say "I am getting a spanking"

I love when my wife tells me " I can't wait until I get you home!" Then she asks me " What is going to happen when we get home?" I have to (very meekly) tell her " I am going to be spanked"

"Good boy" is her response!

Yes! I love that too.

I also love when I am told I am going to be spanked and whine that I have been good, her answer is yes you have, but I am going to spank you because I can and because I want to! I submissively hand her "My" spanking bath brush!

My partner tells me; "Jonathon you've just earned yourself a spanking"! The tingle of excitement I get when I hear those words I cannot describe! If we are out somewhere I have that mixture of sexual excitement and nervous apprehension with me until we get home. Once home the feeling in the run up to the spanking is just incredible! Often culminating in me admitting my 'wrongdoing' and proclaiming; "I both deserve and need a DAMN GOOD SPANKING"! And woe betide me if I hesitate or backtrack! Not that I do of course! LOL

One time, we were in Wal-mart early in the morning when all of the people were restocking the shelves, my wife and I got into a discussion, she said an argument, when she said "I've had enough of you, it's time to take you down a peg or 2, you know what that means don't you?". No, I'm sorry. "Too late, we're leaving. When we get home I'm taking you to the woodshed. You know what that means don't you"? yes... "What"? a bare bottomed spanking... "That's right, now put those things back in the right place, we don't want to give anyone more work to do by putting things back, now let's go". When we came around the end of the isle, 3 middle-aged women were stocking the shelves & smiled at us when we saw each other & made eye contact, as I turned beet red & followed my wife out.

My wife called me over phone yesterday when I was in office. She told that I should be ready for the spankings again when I get home as she found porn in my PC. I knew I was going to be over her lap that evening and getting a hand spanking I deserve. When I reached home she was waiting for me. She sat on the armless chair and removed my trousers and put me over her lap. She lectured me and spanked me with her slightly cupped palms on my thin underpants. I have to hold my legs in air and not bring it down. After about 200 swats my underpants are removed and then again over her lap for bare ass spankings with about 500 swats. Hiding my erections after the spankings is not possible as corner time follows with hands over head and getting another few dozen swats in standing position. After that bending over dining table and getting spanked till the butt cheeks are red and her hands get tired about 600 swats. Next day feeling stinging sensation on butt whole day.

We have agreed on that when I getting a spanking I have to ask for it.

It would be something like this “I have been missing behave badly (here I need to tell him I did wrong and misbehaved to deserve the punishment) can you please spank me so that I learn my lesson and never to do it again.

For maintenance spanking it would be “ can you please spank me to keep me from misbehaving in future and a reminder not to repeat my mistakes again. Please spank me.

Asking for a spanking is important as many a times we do not know or understand why we are punished for.

When we asked we know what the spanking was for and try not to repeat it again. It also to acknowledge that what I did was wrong and deserved the spanking