Height differences in pegging

I truly like pegging my husband on occasion - but our stature difference makes this a bit difficult. (He's around 9 inches taller). Does anyone else have this issue? If so how do you overcome it. So far the best solution we've found is using lots of pillows and raising the foot of the bed. Thanks!

Have you considered missionary, husband on the bottom, for me, there is an added sense of togetherness when done this way. Another position husband on back, legs up (diaper position). you can push on his legs to get the angle needed for penetration. This works better on a hard/firm surface vs. a soft bed. Hope this helps...

On the bed face to face he is on his back and you between his legs this is how my mistress take me

Love it

And height difference do not get in the way

When horizontal, everyone is the same height.

@ Buttwoman - Yeah, but I prefer bent over the end of the bed with my legs spread wide.

@ Buttwoman - Yeah, but I prefer bent over the end of the bed with my legs spread wide.

My other half does too.

Nurse Ruby, if you and your hubby must stand when you fuck him with your strap on, here are some ideas: (1) build a wooden platform for you to stand on; (2) wear adjustable stilts, (like painters use to paint ceilngs); (3) wear heals as high as Buttwoman's 'fuck me heals' that she likes to wear, (often while wearing very little else.)

If you really want to get adventurous, buckle yourself into a climbing harness, hang from the ceiling, and make your hubby wear a wide leather belt with handles on his hips that you can grab to get good horizontal velocity.

I don't want to make you jealous, but my honey and I are really lucky when it comes to standing sex. Our legs are exactly the same length. We steal each other's pants to wear all the time. I almost look better in her size 14-M stretch jeans than she does. When she stands and bends over, she's perfectly positioned for me to fuck her from behind. When she dons her strap-on and I get in front and bend over, my ass is exactly where it needs to be for her to fuck me silly.

The missionary position can work if you elevate his butt under some pillows so his anus is up and able to be penetrated. Thrusting and making out is great just like when a man is on top.

Spooning could be another possibility. Height differences really don't matter because you line up with your strap on right on his ass and you can fuck him from behind which makes grabbing / stoking his cock possible as well. He won't last long in this position before he has a huge orgasm.

While this is all from imagination, while horizontal positions should work various positions have different "feels"

Horizontal positions are great for intimacy. My wife over me in missionary, we're holding each other and kissing as she fucks my ass. My wife behind me spooning, lots of body contact. Slow, intimate lovemaking.

Bent over positions have a more raw, dominant feel. Bent over a chair/bed or just standing bent over has the quickie "stick that ass out I can't wait to fuck it" feel. Doggie is a bit more staged, but I'm still bending over and presenting my ass to her and she's looming above me as she thrusts. I want to have both in my repertoire, but we'd probably also be a couple that would have to work to make the more vertical positions work.

An interesting intermediate might be me lying on my front with my ass propped up over a pillow or wedge. A bit horizontal, but can be done with more raw thrusting and less body contact.

Lying on the side of the bed on my back with my legs thrown over her shoulders also is an intermediate position, good for hard thrusting and with the option of eye contact (or else use a blindfold). You can prop the guy's ass up on pillows or a wedge here to get things to line up.

Overall my husband is 3-inches taller than me, but there is only about a half inch difference in our legs from knees to hips which makes for a good lineup and fit. When he's Knee chest it spreads his hips wider. It also enables me to reach around and masturbate him.

Missionary can be uncomfortable for him when he's erect which is most of the time.

Spooning is the most intimate for us going either way.

When I'm knee chest I have the best of both worlds, penetration by the strap-on and also having "him" in me vaginally. When both are in rather than long strokes it's short strokes by both in a sort of rocking motion, it also gives him opportunity to pleasure me with breast play.

Marlene

Ladies who are pegging your lover/partner I would like to ask you what your prefered way to offer a pegging session to him/her ?

Using a strapon

Using a harness free dildo ( like a "Feeldoe" )

Holding the toy with your hand

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Do you have pleasure to do this ?

What is offering you the strongest pleasure/arrousal

the fact to offer a intense pleasure leading to the edge, or to the orgasm ?

or

the fact to live (seeing and doing) your lover's penetration ?

As ACTIVE My biggest arrousals are to feel my finger (or two fingers) inside her anus, and when I am sodomizing her very slowly, with lot of lube, when I feel herr ass and bottom pushing to me to " swallow " my penis like a hungry lover, feeling in my head that she really enjoy and is on the same way of pleasures as me.

As PASSIVE it is to feel me penetrated by her toy choice, hoping I will be enough relaxed and arroused to beg her to give some juice, or start a fist, whatever she prefer, it is so good to be her "property" and knowing she will make me cum when she decide.

I am not BI, and not SUBMISSIVE, but simply EPICURIAN, this allows me to enjoy all options of humans simple pleasures.

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@arthur We use both a strapless and a harness style for pegging in rotation. My other half prefers the Feeldoe while i prefer the traditional strap on. I also like to wear a plug during these sessions at times.

Personally for me i enjoy the visual of the ass being stretched, the presure feeldoe on my gspot (as well as tbe vibration), and being a switch - the submission. I also love hearing the pleasure he gets from the direct prostate stimulation.

Like you can read in some of my post it is very arrousing for me to slide one or two fake chicken eggs, the feels are close so strong as a fisting party.

You might check out the Liberator Wedge. Expensive, but opens all sorts of possibilities for this and all sorts of other fun!

It is not a big deal to built a DIY Liberator Wedge with foam and wood panel, using a large towel as foam protection.

And homemade (@Arthur is likely right... it's not that complicated) or store bought, once you have a wedge it puts the bottom high and exposed for all sorts of things in addition to anal sex (paddling, dilation, rimming, you name it!) As noted earlier, I have a Wedge and recommend it.

@Nurse_Ruby... are you actually able to successfully peg using a Feeldoe and no harness? While I see a lot of appeal in that, I have heard others say that it can't be done and we haven't purchased one because of those tales.

@Nurse_Ruby... are you actually able to successfully peg using a Feeldoe and no harness?.

Yes. But it is quite difficult. Helps to take the vibration out. Im not sure if this just helps me focus or just stops excess mositure. I still like the traditional strap on better.

There is a simple harness, sportsheets “bare as you dare” that works well with the feeldoe. It’s just enough to give a little stability and support so you can keep your hands free for other things. You still need to use your pelvic floor but you can relax between contractions and not worry that it will fall out. The ring is held in place by snaps so you can swap in a different ring to hold different dildoes if the original one doesn’t work. I can get the red feeldoe (more) into the standard ring with a little lube and some patience.

As for height, I’m a good 8 inches shorter so husband sitting on the couch with his bottom at the edge of the seat, with me kneeling in front with a pillow or folded blanket under my knees works well. It’s much lower than the bed. Him in knee chest on the floor and me behind. I can have him splay his knees out more or less to get the right height. Or me flat on my back with him on top, cowgirl style, with his weight on his feet or knees.

A quick post to remind you that knee protections exist like that ones the tile installer is using. ~~ https://www.zity.biz/gallery/image/74904 ~~ https://www.zity.biz/gallery/image/74893 ~~ and followings

As for height, I’m a good 8 inches shorter so husband sitting on the couch with his bottom at the edge of the seats.[/quote]

Tried this today. Worked perfectly.

Tried this today. Worked perfectly.

Glad it worked!

A quick post to remind you that knee protections exist

That’s a brilliant idea as well! Pillows and stacks of towels shift, and carpet is uncomfortable on knees!

I love Pam to fuck me silly with her strap on. My favorite position is on my back at the edge of our bed with my feet over Pam's shoulders as she stands at the edge of the bed. Our bed just happens to be the right height to make this work perfectly for the length of Pam's legs. My legs could be any length when we do it this way.

I like Peachfuzz's method. I think we'll try that too.

We've tried me kneeling on the floor (on a towel) and resting on the couch. She will sit on the edge of a chair behind me and we line up perfectly. That first push is always intense!