Solo vs mate

I, very thankfully now, have gotten my wife into enemas, plugs, just about anything anal. We've been together now for 10 years, married 3. When we first started dating, after the first kiss but before a homerun, we were talking AIM (yes, i know, hush, i'm 44) and decided to pop the question...

How do you feel enemas? I was 34 and didnt want another life inside the bathroom closet. When i hit enter, i was just 'Crap, there goes that relationship' and 'At least it was early.' Ber response: "idk, never had one. Id try it though" WINNER WINNER CHICKEN DINNER". 10 years later, here we are with a rather well stocked toy chest (had to use 2 duffel bags). She is just as bad as me now but with a twist.

Sometimes, i feel like i am cheating on her with myself. She obviously likes giving me a bag, probably as much if not more the other way around. And i'm not talking about her saying she likes it. We have always agreed that if it was a NEED situation, we can do that solo because that t going to be an erotic enema and you're not too ill to handle it yourself. Just goes back to you know your body better than anyone else, and if it's a bad enema (uncomfortable, nasty cramps, etc) and we already agreed to divide the too between need and want, just to keep the sexy time special.

It all boils down to this: I know how much she enjoys giving (and that happens about 2 series a week) and i don't want to deprive her lf that enjoyment. Ive been txting her while on here at the same time, and her response? "Just makes you ready for another 3qt and then playtime". YAY!

Sorry, given how much effort I've already put into this post, so its still going up (hehehe, i made a pun). Maybe it will be the spark a great relationship of giving and receiving. P.S. i had already turned her to the bag side well before we got married.

Now remember, we are both into enemas hardcore even though i am 10 years her senior. She is easily embarrased and that shows in her face BIG TIME. I emailed our wedding officiant and had him amend the vows. We had already omitted 'obey', so i asked him to include "to give and receive". If the glare could have killed, but she turning beet red and trying to act pissed amd laughing her ass off at the same time, but she knew what she couldnt do and shouldnt do, laughing her ass off of smacking me at the altar...I'm 98% sure no one else there caught that

The other thing, we are both sci-fi geeks. While i was at the alter with her (and remember yall, i knew what was coming in about 5 hours cause i packed the bags for the honeymoon (lol, another pun) when he said "to give and to receive", all i could think about was the scene from 'Dune' where Usal took Paul down to the water stores, he said "your water shall now mingle with our water." Yup, i came a nanometer away from laughing MY ass off!

That's awesome man. So many here would LOVE to find an enemate. After many years, I finally have one myself, and I LOVE it.

Stay Wet My Friends ©

Still waiting for the enemate. Not sure I’d even know how to start.

@xfinity, I've read too many "sad posts" here to say anything but this: tell her. Be honest. Say exactly what you want. Then make sure she means it.