Cramping & Orgasm

Do others feel the connection between cramping and orgasm? I enjoy 3 quart enemas as well as regular 1 hour sessions on my home-built colonic device. Orgasms do not come as easily to me now as they once did, but that moment when I am working through a significant release is when cramping usually becomes inevitable. I have noticed that during that cramp is when my wand massager applied to my frenulum can usually bring me off very reliably. There is definitely a correlation for me with cramping and sexual release. Any others notice the correlation?

While I'm not sure I'm willing to chalk it up to cramping, I have noticed that 1) very large, very soapy enemas lead (both for me and my partners) to astonishing, indescribable, unachievable in other ways orgasms; and 2) large, very soapy enemas sometimes lead to some cramping. Not sure it's the cramping, but, wow!

I think it enhances the intensity and if cramping is your thing it can lead to very satisfying endings

A certain amount of cramping enhances the orgasm. But certainly too much or too intense of cramping is definitely a mood-killer. That's why I prefer an enema that is more than 2L. About 2 1/2 L is perfect. That ensures there will be a level of distress/cramping that taking a 2L enema doesn't usually achieve.

For me there does not seem to be any really clear connection between cramping and orgasm. They seem to be mostly independent of each other Hard to tell when you are focused on just holding it in!

I try to avoid cramps but when I do a 3 quart enema I do usually start to get some cramps towards the end of that last quart. But I have not tried to masturbate at this time because I am so full and usually headed to the toilet soon after that wonderful last gurgle sound when the last drop of enema drains into me. That said I have masturbated with smaller enemas while holding a fill and that did intensify the orgasm. My anus was pulsating trying to hold the enema, which is similar the contractions that result when I orgasm. So I can see how cramping might add to the sensation and intensity of an orgasm.

For us enema enthusiasts, it's so much fun experimenting with all these erotic sensations.

I most assuredly connect cramping and expulsion with orgasms (and have since I was a teenager being given enemas). The times I have had an un-assisted orgasm have been during cramping and expelling. Not nearly as much as they used to, but they are so intense!!! Sometimes, my hubby is right in front of me while I'm cramping and expelling and "encourages" an orgasm with his fingers and other objects. It's noisy, it's smelly and he sees my face in discomfort when I'm pushing. He tells me how much he loves me and "Yes, the cramps hurt now but I'll feel better later." (The cramps are a huge part of the entire process.) He encourages me to LET EVERYTHING GO. I love this time of intimacy with him!!!

Yeah I can relate to moms egirl, although uncomfortable I have felt very stimulated with expelling and cramping and with very little in the way of a helping hand can have very satisfying orgasm. I don't think I would ever liken expelling to the same level of pushing as labour though

And that, @LisaK, is why a retention nozzle is a must! Focusing on holding it in takes away from all the fun!

I don't usually have cramps with enemas, but I do often have something similar: intensely pleasurable, explosive expulsions with very strong, almost violent, rhythmic contractions of my colon and abdominal muscles that can expel an entire gallon almost completely in a few seconds. When one of these starts, it's completely involuntary. I can't stop it, and I wouldn't want to because it feels so good, almost like a different kind of orgasm. I grunt involuntarily too, probably from my convulsing colon pushing up on my diaphragm. My whole body seems to convulse along with my colon. This doesn't work well for toilet expulsions, which is one reason I prefer bathtub expulsions on my back, (with a good clean up with bleach after the fun.)

I've got an extreme homemade enema rig that reliably produces these intensely pleasurable, explosive expulsions. I connected a one-inch diameter vinyl hose to a 5-gallon camp shower bag. I drilled a one inch hole through a 2.5" butt plug to make a retention nozzle for the other end of the hose, and I put a 1" hose valve in the middle. After I'm cleaned out, I fill the bag with water as hot as I can stand, open the valve, and inject a gallon of hot water to fill my colon in seconds. The shock of this almost always triggers a instant convulsive, explosive expulsion. These are so pleasurable that I sometimes can't help doing as many as 20 of these back to back. With the super-fast flow rate, and only needing to refill the bag every 5th enema, 20 intense expulsions don't take long.

After a series of convulsive expulsions, I experience amazing anal relaxation, an intense anal homeyness, and a deep hunger for extreme anal toys that makes anally-induced orgasm certain. I have a big toy ready on the side of the tub. Lately it's been a fairly stiff, 2.75-inch-diameter, 24-inch-long double dong. I pin one end of it down at the front of the tub with a 30-lb dumbell (also placed next to the tub.) I lube my anus, my entire butt, and the other end of the huge dong. I center my anus over the end of the dildo and push off the back of the tub with my hands to drive my butt forward. The fat dildo easily slides 6 or 7 inches into me up to my inner sphincter. I push a little harder, and the dildo penetrates my inner sphincter and goes in 6 or 7 more inches into my sigmoid. Then I start pushing off with my hands and feet to slide my slippery butt up and down the tub to fuck myself with a full 12 to 14 inches of dildo. I can't describe how good this feels. A mind-blowing, anally-induced orgasm is certain in the next few minutes. If I can control myself and keep both hands on the back or the tub, it can be totally hands free.

You should try it.

My girlfriend definitely orgasms from soapy, crampy enemas and her first orgasms were from receiving enemas given her by her mom, I have had orgasms from receiving enemas but less often.

I think a certain amount of cramping and/or urgency is necessary for enemas to be sexually stimulating. If you can take the entire enema with no problem whatsoever, then what's the point? However, if it induces some cramping and/or threat of loss of control (not actual loss of control), then it's a real-turn on.

I love to get really crampy enemas and make myself cum while holding it all in.

I think a certain amount of cramping and/or urgency is necessary for enemas to be sexually stimulating. If you can take the entire enema with no problem whatsoever, then what's the point? However, if it induces some cramping and/or threat of loss of control (not actual loss of control), then it's a real-turn on.

That's YOUR experience.

There is also such a things as a nice relaxing enema where pressure gently builds as I luxuriate and masturbate to several orgasms while instilling and holding my moderately sized enema.

Of course in an S & M scene, I can make an enema very crampy, hard to hold and unpleasant if I desire.

That's YOUR experience.

There is also such a things as a nice relaxing enema where pressure gently builds as I luxuriate and masturbate to several orgasms while instilling and holding my moderately sized enema.

I am with you Susie. That has always been my approach to enemas. I am in it for pure pleasure.

@WildBill2... Interesting response!

My colonic rig also uses 1" vinyl tubing but in a different arrangement. I use a 12 foot section of hose with a homemade speculum/nozzle with a Y connector attached to a faucet water supply (with an additional flow valve) on the business end. The nozzle is firmly strapped to the edge of a 2X4' piece of sturdy plywood that spans the bathroom vanity and a sturdy barstool. This board is covered with a towel and disposable pads and a firm pillow. This serves as my treatment table where I have easy access to the water controls.

The other end of the hose is firmly clamped to the inside edge of the nearby toilet using woodworking clamps and heavy duty zip ties. The center of the hose is suspended from an eye bolt in the ceiling from a section of lightweight rope. You can imagine that 12 feet of this large tubing actually holds quite a bit of water. I control the flow by raising and lowering the center of the hose with the rope effectively creating a loop. The higher the loop and the quicker it is raised, the faster the water enters. When the loop is lowered below the level of the table, the hose (and me) drain into the toilet. This interestingly is all portable and easily packed away in the garage avoiding questions from family and visitors. It is those brown water expulsions I observe going thru the loop where the cramps I have described happen quite dependably.

I try to be careful about the rate of flow into my body but once really cleaned out, that quick fill you describe is comfortable and quite a nice. Yes, I have experienced that rush that you describe. Once completely clean at the end of the session, I similarly enjoy fucking myself as you described on the nozzle.

@Flushky, it sounds like your rig lets you do any number of rapid fills and expulsions without ever needing to remove your enema nozzle! I'm guessing that your speculum/nozzle lets the nozzle penetrate your inner sphincter and go several inches into your colon. Fills and expulsions with a one-inch pipeline directly into the colon must feel amazing and provide the fastest total clean out possible. I've got to try this.

I can see how expulsions unimpeded by either sphincter could cause cramping and convulsions. If I get crampy expulsions too, I'll put a vibrator on my frenulum and let you know what happens.

@SwitchableSusie and @ProV1, it's possible to combine both worlds. I find that a series of rapid hot fills producing, several of those convulsive, explosive expulsions always puts me in a very relaxed, almost euphoric state of mind, as well as making me very horny.

Sometimes, instead of fucking myself in the tub with my big dildo, I have a relaxing enema orgasm instead. I fill up my five gallon bag with a pleasantly warm water, sit back in the tub, and do a series of several very slow fills through my 2.5" retention nozzle with both hands free to slowly edge myself to orgasm. I love this too.

Even better is a series of slow, warm fills while my wife uses her hands to edge me to orgasm.

@SwitchableSusie and @ProV1, it's possible to combine both worlds. I find that a series of rapid hot fills producing, several of those convulsive, explosive expulsions always puts me in a very relaxed, almost euphoric state of mind, as well as making me very horny.

Thank the both of you for this information. I've experienced fantastic earth shaking orgasms while expelling my enemas. When I stimulate my belly button with my finger tip that makes my orgasms more intense also. I really like the words, explosive expulsions and euphoric state of mind!

Have A Great Day!