Women (or men this applies to) how were you introduced to anal sex?

Just keep it simple-

Had you planned it, and used buttplugs or fingers, bought lube, and generally eased into it it?

or

Was it completely unplanned, and he just stuck his dick into you?

My coffee shop girls all said that it just happened. They were getting frisky, and decided to try anal. About half of them still do it. The other half say 'Ewww!'. There doesn't seem to be an in between.

I'm curious if, among the women (men) who planned it, and worked their butt to get ready for it, more of them stuck with it, and still do it.

Personally, I bent over, and he stuck it in. It hurt like hell, but I loved it, and couldn't wait to do it again.

For me and my husband it was not planned for a long time and one day it just happened really. I was about 17 or 18 and I think maybe it was about 18 months after I lost my virginity with him. We had talked about anal a bit but we had not done it. He was experienced at it with other girls and women so I was in really good hands.

I was in the doggy position and he had pushed 2 fingers already a bit earlier. I felt very aroused and I felt like I wanted more. I was relaxed as much as I could be, he pushed his penis in really nicely and gently and I loved it. He made me really enjoy it, it was not like I felt it was too rough like I have heard some men make it. I love it when he squirted back there too.

I think we do it about every 1 to 2 weeks, most times it is vaginal for us. I like doggy so much for vaginal, I have got to have it like that every day or I am not happy, and think it is best for anal too. Yes, doggy is really the only anal position for me.

Since single digit childhood years, I loved putting things in my rectum. First it was small candles, then bigger candles, then dildos. Finally, I would defile the boys I had sex with by fucking them in the ass with dildos to see how much I could get away with and as a pre-requisite to fucking me. My boyfriend at the time in high school (NOT my husband) was the first person I impaled and the first to impale me getting into my ass and pussy. He got my vagina first and a few weeks later, got my ass because I told him to do it to me.

He was the first guy to get into my pussy and ass and I was the first person to get into his ass.

Both episodes were lots of fun.

I suppose this will apply to me. When I was a kid I was given enemas by my mother and hated them or being given them. I also had my temperature taken rectally and I didn't mind that too much. I had trouble as a kid with my tonsils and had frequent fevers and I had my temperature taken rectally.

That got me started on the road to pencils, then two pencils, a brush handle, broom handle and other things. Then there were the enemas. That probably has to be counted as self anal stimulation. That got me to here at zity.

To me, I officially had anal sex when I was pegged by Lora a few months back. Maybe a year or more by now. We started out slow and she was very careful in how she got me prepared. I loved the whole experience with her and it is what I consider to be my first real anal sex. All of the other stuff I did before like the pencils and broom handles done by myself wasn't exactly sex. Being pegged is definitely anal sex.

I started with solo anal when I was around 10, using household objects, now I’m addicted to all types of anal.

My early childhood frequent suppository insertion actually paved the way for my anal sex pleasure. During the early ages I never liked the suppository, but after 12 (at the onset of puberty) first it became liking and eventually now it has an obsession for me.

THE FIST TIME WAS WHEN I WAS 12 HEWAS 14 .wE PLAT AROUND ALOT TOGETHER AND THIS TIME AFTER I GOT THRU SUCKING HIM HE ASKED TO PUT IN MY BUTT WE DID AN ENEMA AND AFTER EXPELLING AND A LITTLE WHILE HE LUBE ME AND ENTERED ME IT FELT SO GOOD . lATER I TRYED HIM BUT FOUND OUT I WAS A BOTTOM AND STILL ARE