Please Analyze Me

I'm curious to hear what people think my pornography preferences say about me, and more generally what anyone's porn choices say about them.

I take multiple layers of precautions to keep my porn habits a secret to anyone I know in real life, but I do wonder what they would think if they found my favorite porn pages or got a look at my browsing history.

I know people here are very accepting of each other's desires, preferences, fetishes, etc. and I know a lot of people here share some of mine.

I've never felt judged here, but I am curious what people outside of this echo chamber would think if they knew. Below are links to my favorites pages on a few big porn sites. If you have a few minutes to look at them and maybe watch a few of the videos or look at some of the pictures, I would be very curious to know how it makes you regard me and my sexuality, more pointedly, how do you think other people would regard me if they knew. I have a thick skin and I am comfortable referring to myself as a chronically masturbating pervert with an exhibitionism and medical fetish, so don't be shy, you won't hurt my feelings.

My faves:

https://xhamster.com/users/CL_79/favorites/videos

https://www.xtube.com/profile/cumlover1979-24040202#favorite-videos

https://www.pornhub.com/users/cumslave_1979/videos/favorites

The different sites tend to have different focuses, look at a few of them to get a well-rounded picture of my likes.

Thanks,

Ed

Looks like you have a broad set of interests and likes. None of it appears illegal (except perhaps the public j/o sessions ?). More power to you. Far be it from anyone here to judge. Far be it from anyone outside of here to judge either. So long as you are happy and your interests do others no harm, then carry on.

What’s to analyze... you are bisexual as you like watching men and women. You like when they masturbate. And medfet interests you. Nothing earth shattering or even actually kinky.

The only possible issue in a relationship with a woman might be your bisexuality. Some women are very accepting, some would not be. You might not want to reveal that on a first date, but most people, especially in your age group, wouldn’t be shocked or horrified. It might not be for them, but that’s what you need to know before continuing any relationship!

Everything everyone has said it pretty much true, Thanks for the input, I appreciate you all taking the time. Honestly I was hoping someone would look at that stuff and tell me they thought I was some sort of mega-pervert. I'm glad that I am not, but it kinda would have turned me on if it had happened. The exhibitionist in me gets off knowing that other people know about my masturbation likes and habits.

I'm far to cautious to ever risk true public exposure, and I don't have many avenues to explore my exhibitionism with consenting people here where I live, so I've been wanting to "expose" myself to people on line. I can do pictures and videos, or webcam shows, etc. but that isn't really what this site is about. I thought I'd try a more introspective type of exposure here and the Psychology forum seemed like a good place to try.

If you're a mega-pervert, I have no idea what I am. I'm not into guys masturbating; but, I promise you I love watching women swallowing a guy's load. Most of the other stuff I saw isn't really all that odd. Carry on and enjoy your sexual preferences.

I'd probably d/l a lot of the favorites you listed here. I don't see much of anything really out of the ordinary. A really true vanilla goody-goody person might not care for your choice, but then again, porn and erotica is so individualistic. Everyone has a special niche they like which may seem odd to others. But I'm sure there are things you don't care for either so it all evens out in the end.

Just have fun and enjoy yourself.

I don't think you can analyze much from a persons porn preferences. I think a person (just an example) could watch gay porn all their lives, without ever wanting to try it. So, does that make one gay, or a gay voyeur? You are who you are, and you like what you like.

If someone were to check my browser they would conclude- Anal fixated bisexual woman. They may raise an eyebrow at me watching gay male porn. They may turn white, and gag a little at some of the anal fisting/object stuff.

I think I'm perfectly normal. A garden variety pervert. Hold on...a really exceptional pervert.

@CumSlave, you are totally sick, a menace to society.

Not really. Your porno-type is fairly normal. We like some of the same things. I like too like to watch both sexes masturbate and fuck in every combination. I like public nudity, public masturbation, and public sex.

If you saw my porn links and libraries, you might think I'm pretty sick. In addition to what you like, I love public humiliation, public nudity, body painting, sexy costumes, sex shows in front of an audience, domination, (espeially femdom), fisting, anal sex, and BDSM, (especially masturbation of a bound person, or sex with a bound person, but not extreme pain.)

I think we enjoy porn for these reasons,

1. It's sexually arousing and fun to masturbate to while watching.

2. It's something we just enjoy watching, like two women bringing each other to orgasm with dildos, fists, or orally.

3. It's something we want to do with a partner, like having sex on the beach with hundreds watching.

4. It's something we want to do to a partner, like binding a woman spread eagle and totally immobilized, and then bringing her to orgasm by fucking her, (or fisting her, or fucking her with a dildo.)

5. It's something we want done to us, like having an audience watch as a woman binds me to a rack spread eagle and butt out, and then fucks my ass with a long, fat dildo.

In short, the porn you like says what visually makes you horny, and it may indicate things you want to do and have done to you.

My favorite porn femdom on male slave.

Forced by by a female and anything with a female nurse or female Dr.

I love being taken by a female with a strap on

I'm gay?

Nope, I know I'm not.

Nothing crazy with your porn, relax.

This is garden variety stuff. Porn that millions of people watch every day. You have a sex drive and you like to watch porn like the majority of the planet's population who have an Internet connection.

You are very normal horny person who likes to watch sex on the Internet, which is about as revealing as someone who likes eating Big Macs.

Don't over think your own personality. Just JO like every other guy out there and concentrate on the important things in your daily life.

Your are NORMAL.

I think you have had a lot of great advice here.

The psychology of the way we live our lives and kinks is a subject of great discussion.

We are what we are and just need to be happy in our own skin.

Take care and continue to have lots and lots of fun.

Peace.

Caz.

I lead a "normal" adult life, good job, respected, hold public office, family, etc. I watch porn, perhaps not as much as younger people, but I watch. My wife does not. I find your tastes wonderful. sad that society teaches that sex is bad, a sin, evil, sick, whatever. let's be honest--we are all sexual creatures, and as long as it does not hurt anyone, all is good! Every one of us has fantasies, secret sexual interests and more--we all live in a secret sexual world!

My favorites? I consider myself heterosexual, I prefer women, but I am open and curious. I love watching hand jobs--probably because that is all my wife will do sexually for the last ten years or so. I do love seeing a guy cum--even though i practice semen retention and do not ejaculate often myself. I love watching beautiful women do almost anything, lesbian, masturbate, give hand jobs, do yoga...

We should celebrate our sexuality. I love tantra for that reason! sadly, I must live a secret tantra life!! Violence and harming others is OK, but sex is not? Should be the other way around!! Celebrate our sexuality!! Hey, doing long tantra masturbation sessions, I have said out loud, "I love my penis" as it gives me unbelievable pleasure!! celebrate pleasure and orgasms!! Enjoy!! Do not feel shame...

If I were a Freudian, I'd have you pegged for being stuck in the phallic stage. The usernames "CumSlave" and "cumlover" certainly point down that path. The PornHub clips and XHamster clips seem pretty standard fare for someone with a medical fetish, a fact that in itself doesn't reveal much psychologically.

The most interesting thing to me is that you've watched less than 400 videos on PornHub despite having been a member for 4 years. Perhaps you spend more time on the other two sites? Or not logged in? I would be curious to know if you watch the moves in their entirety and to completion each and every time? Perhaps this would account for the low number -- personally I tend to skip around (especially now that they have previews in the fast-forward function) to the parts that interest me.

@DoctorsDelight, Thank you for your post. I appreciate your insights and would be curious to hear any others.

I have trouble logging in to PornHub on one of the computers I browse porn from. I have recently switched browsers and the problem is gone. During the period when I couldn't log in I probably did use Xhamster and Xtube more often, but not as much as the stats imply. I have recently started using PornHub a lot, partially because I was getting bored of the others.

I rarely watch an entire video from beginning to end, but not never.