Spanking for taking off Diapers

My wife has been very strict when it comes to not allowing me to take my diaper off and she is the only one who take take off my diaper and change me. Every time that I have a accident and start to take my diaper off and she catches me she first gives me a spanking. If it continues to happen then in addition to the spanking I will get a enema.

Others have their partner be the only ones that change their diapers.

Silly, then you should learn your lesson, and not touch your diapers. If you get punished for it, you deserve it. If your wife has taken up caring for you, and you diaper needs, then this is good. She has taken charge, and expects you to allow her to do for you. Now let her do her job, and don't be naughty. You want to be naughty? Then, you need to get punished. Maybe you need to have thick mittens locked on your handies, so she won't have to worry about you being all touchy with those diapers. I think she would like that idea?

You're lucky your wife didn't walk you outside so you could tell the neighbor ladies what a bay boy you've been...

I would love that to happen to me! But my wife is not happy about me being an AB/DL. She did take to spanking me like a "Duck to Water" 46 years ago, happily still getting spankings from her!

Yeah I would get a spanking for that. After moving back home we sort of fell back into old parent and child routines. If I need to be changed I can tell mom and she'll check. Otherwise she decides when to check and change me. I'm not really allowed to do it myself anymore.

@Jenny_M

Being in diapers is supposed to be a punishment. You don't decide when your time-out is over, or when your corner time is over, or when you are no longer grounded. You are the child, another is the adult. They decide, you obey.

In exactly the same way and for the same reason when you are put in a diaper, you don't take it off yourself. Period. You don't even touch it. It doesn't matter whether nice and dry, or soaked with pee, or full of poo. You keep it on unless or until it is taken off you.

If you're caught taking your diaper off, you deserve a thorough bare-bottom spanking followed by an application of something like Ben Gay and being put back in a diaper and given a powerful laxative and a big glass of juice and put to bed, there to remain for at least 12 hours. Every hour, you must drink another glass of fluid, like Gatorade. You may struggle to keep your diaper clean and dry, but you will fail completely, sooner or later. If you don't learn the first time, the wait for a change will be a lot longer.

@Sean Diapers aren't punishment, I deal with incontinence.

@Jenny_M

My bad. I was responding to OP. Sorry

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I did not mention that sometimes if I went to take my diaper off. I would be given a suppository or enema. Also a pacifier was placed in my mouth for the next hour.

I did get spanked for that, and it only happened 1 time, and I never did it again. My mom was pretty stricked, and I did respect her. My mom made it a point that her and my sister would be the only ones who check and change my diaper. I lost the privallage of telling my mom a couple of times I was wet, and wanted to be changed. When she went to change me she said your not all that wet. She said from now on your diaper will be changed when I say it needs to.

At 21 yrs old I moved out with my girlfriend and was still diapered up to that point by my mom. My girlfriend has contnued where my mom left off. I'm still not able to remove my diaper or tell her I'm wet and need to be changed.

Anyone who needs diapers and is not responsible enough to maintain same ,needs to be in restraint clothing to prevent meaningfully tampering with them,in this day and age that can be anything from a long leg onesie to an actual locking secure anti strip jumpsuit, no access no tampering no need for punishment or behavioural correction.

Diapers are meant to do a job ,managing risk, people should not have the opportunity to interfere with that ,

My wife is also very stern no wetting on things.

When I was in a dumb sub relationship if I took my diaper off or I wouldn't put it on I got swats with a belt or a riding crop