Moving in with Mistress

My Mistress and i are moving in together this month and i am filled with anxiety. there have been months of very exciting and erotic experiences leading up to this but i am now wondering what it will be like 24/7 as Her servant and sex slave. anyone else has been through this and any advice?

You lucky bugger is all I can say!

Let go of your expectations, and see how it goes. If the two of you have been honest with each other about who you are, and aren't playing rolls when you're together, you'll be fine. Be yourselves. Relax.

It'll be easier than you thought it would be if you just be yourself.

I agree with docinny45.

In addition, don't be surprised if moving in together changes the dynamics of your relationship.

In all seriousness though, it would be great if you could keep us updated on how things go.

Chances are there will be times when it just isn't practical to be in full sex slave mode and you'll need to figure out how much of the lifestyle you want to live. Will you always be the sub, with this being strictly enforced, or are there times when you will be allowed to be 'out of character', for want of a better term?

Enjoy it. I am insanely jealous that you are in this position. Of those with a sub side I suspect there are more who never get to experience this than those who do, so just roll with it, work hard to make it work and enjoy being tied up, used, abused and ravaged by your Mistress!

Little things like jobs and going to work and family activities often make being en role full time, difficult.

Thanks so much for the valuable insight all. So far so good. I mean in that She has not expected me to finish my 9-5 job and come home and work as a maid for the rest of my waking life.

I agree that there will be changes but I am really falling in love with Her and know She feels the same, so even if we transcend the bdsm stuff altogether I would be ok. Just kidding - I'd be devastated. This is the culmination of a lifelong yearning to be a slave to a beautiful, highly intelligent, imaginative dominant Female. And yes I feel extremely lucky.

I am in a somewhat similar relationship. We got married 7 years ago and decided that it would be a Female Led Relationship. She was always dominant in our 2 years of dating both in and out of the bedroom. It started off relatively simple with her making all the decisions and has steadily progressed. I do all the chores both inside and outside the house. If I want to go out with the guys, I need her permission and always have a curfew. She does not tolerate any insubordination and promptly corrects my behavior with more than once a week spankings. When we are out we are a normal couple for the most part and there are only a few people that know about our lifestyle. However at home I am 100 percent submissive to her. She knew of my bed wetting before we married, but early on she decided to keep my in diapers 24/7. I would please her at least every other day and she would telll me to save my orgasm for later. After a number of times being caught playing with myself, she bought a chasity cage and locked me in it and now i am only allowed a weekly release. So over time things have changed...But WE are both happy and in love, so my advise is to go with the flow and see where the journey takes you.....

Getting ready for my punishment session with Her. SHE then plans to use me until she has had several orgasms then placing me back into my steel chastity device. i have been very relieved that She has been caring and nurturing during this first week.

Tonight she wants to begin my prostate milking as my only form of release...

Sounds like it's going brilliantly! So there is no more hope of orgasms for you then? I hope she spends a lot of time with you restrained whilst your cage is removed, edging you but denying you release. Then she can lock you back up in your cock cage before releasing you from the restraints.

Do you have to wear any particular clothing whilst in her service?

How are things progressing with your new living arrangements? Please keep us updated. I'm sure I'm not the only one who wants to hear what it's like to be living a fantasy.

Its going well! Thank you for your interest 😉

She has me in and out of chastity at Her whim. Today is strap-on shopping and initiation day. Very nervous because anal even plugs are a little new to me... She is very enthusiastic about wanting me to have Her cock inside me while I'm in chastity though.

That sounds incredible. You are so lucky. The only girl who came close to getting a strap on to use on me suggested we get one at least as big, if not bigger than my own cock.

A little further update:

We are now buying a home together and making one of the rooms into a play space. I will be starting a new thread related to this (if there isn't one already).

Couple new things we've been experimenting with:

Bathroom play - she's bought an enema kit with multiple nozzles. HER piss may go in the solution that will fill the bag. She's very interested in pissing on me and using my mouth as Her "urinal" as well...

Masking - she ordered a full latex head mask for me with dildo protruding outward from the mouth cover...

More to come!