Anyone Else Have Mom With Them?

Just curious how many of us had mom in the room for our first pelvic exam?

I was 19, a virgin, and my mom had been nagging me to go for a year or so and she ended up making an appointment for me... I was so terrified I was shaking. She didn't really ask me if it was ok but I didn't say no when she followed me into the room. Looking back it's a feeling of releaf that she held my hand, otherwise I'd probably had cried, mixed with real embarrassment.

My mother took me to her OB-GYN who she had been seeing for many years. In fact, he delivered me!

I went to the appointment with my mother but she stayed in the waiting room. There was no need or reason for her to be in the room during the exam.

I had been having lots of sex using condoms with numerous boys in high school so it was no big deal to spread my legs for the doctor. I wanted to be fitted for a diaphragm and a few months later I got an Rx for birth control pills. That was my plan. Get the diaphragm first, then a long refillable prescription for the pill. That way I could decide on my own what I wanted to use. For some reason I was never keen on the IUD.

It was actually a pretty short, simple exam.

No my mother never went with me for that type of appointment. Only my sister. I have friends whos mothers went with them.

Never had my mom go with me

This is one of my favorite topics. On the surface it makes me laugh. “lol your mom saw you naked”. However, deep down inside I get it. The speculum looks like a Medieval torture device. Of course your mom being there would make you feel better.

With my real feelings out of the way, the thought also turns me on. I had a friend that had her mother in the room until she was like 25. I masturbated so many times imagining how that exam goes.

I wish I knew why it turned me on so much. I think it’s the added awkwardness.

My mom wasn’t with me at my first gyn exam, but she was with me until I was 17. She saw lots. Just not me splayed open but a speculum.

I had my mom at first gynecology exam. I was 15 years old. I was embarrassed that she is there. She see me many times nude, but never so exposed at this vunerable position.

Yeah I did but my first was not a routine exam, I was in pain and still legally a child. I 100% wanted her with me.

Yes mom was physically present in the room first time but up at the "boring" end and she was not there for the 2nd time.

My mom came with me for my first pelvic exam. I was 21. She had set me up with her gynecologist a few years before so I could get on the pill but he decided since I was a virgin he didn’t need to do a full pelvic until I turned 21. I was so nervous I was glad she went with me. Sometimes a girl just needs her mom.

My mom was present in the room the first time I had a pelvic exam. It was not at a gynecologists so really I was not particularly well prepared and obviously in view of my age this was long before you could look things up online.

I saw my regular family dr growing up who just sort of bolted it on to the end of what up to that point had been a routine physical.

Had it been modern day, when you had them at certain age or if clinical reason and I knew about it I might have decided not to have her there.

Saraswitches: What did this first exam consist in? Do you know why it was added to the ordinary physical?

Performed a digital examination and a speculum exam.

No I do not really think it was needed just was common at the time.

Saraswitched: Were you a virgin then ?

Saraswitched: Were you a virgin then ?

Yes i was

Saraswitches: Speculum exam on a virgin??? for no specific reason??? ew... Wasn't that painful ?

It was not the highlight of the day but he was slow kind in approach and made it tolerable. Uncomfortable but not like being in terrible pain at all.

I did have my mom present in the exam room, I posted about the exam itself under another topic thread but I was young, embarrassed and truth be told a little nervous.

Moms presence was not a concern for me I had no issue her seeing me undressed and was comforted by her presence

She was present for my very first pelvic exam but none since then. Going full circle I was present when my own had their first (naturally had the choice completely down to the).

My mother was with me for all my pediatric exams, which included a visual exam of my genitalia, until I was 17. I had my first gyn exam in college and went to that alone.

I have two daughters and so joined them both for their first pelvic exams. Afterwards they went alone but I felt for the first one it’s good to support them if they are a bit scared