Messing Females

First, there always seems to be more males than females posting about wearing and using diapers. That said, regarding using, most women who do post will claim to only wear and not use or just wet. Yet, most males seem to admit to both. Would be curious to know if this is the observation of others and hear from women as well. Do in fact women prefer not to mess pants / diapers or are they less inclined to admit to enjoying messing ?

How about finding the answer with a poll.

https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=polls;ox=showpoll;id=656

I think the risk of infection is a lot greater for females if they mess - that may be a factor.

I am male but I rarely mess as it really isn't worth the huge cleanup effort. I would be great to be able to be able to poop my diapers as I have IBS but they have to stay as emergency protection (and for peeing)

I am male but I rarely mess as it really isn't worth the huge cleanup effort. I would be great to be able to be able to poop my diapers as I have IBS but they have to stay as emergency protection (and for peeing)

I tend to take mine off in the shower and straight into a garbage bag. Then a quick shower and done. Not much work at all 😃

I think more men are comfortable messing either alone or with a partner, women maybe aren't as comfortable messing when they are alone.

I've messed several times and I love it, but I only do it when I have a partner that I know it turns on. When I'm by myself, I don't know it's boring, plus no one to help with the clean up. Being changed out of a messy diaper by a Daddy is hot af though

I am a female and I do wear diapers. I love both wetting and messing my diaper and often my daddy gives me different enemas, suppositories and laxatives to give me really bad diarrhea, and I love it. I do think that most females dont as it gets in more areas then men (which can be pretty tough to clean) but I thoroughly enjoy it and think it’s a great experience

Me and GF both loves wetting and messing and since I have the biggest load I sometimes shit in Gfs diaper, and we both loves it. Now and then we also use an open buttplug to get the feeling of having no controle.

Regarding women and the risk of infection....simple solution.....take a tampon and use astroglide or KY on it to lube and insert. It’s important to lube when not on a period due to toxic shock. A drytampon can create abrasions and increased your chance of TSS.

Once inserted play and mess away. The tampon is a block to things getting inside the vagina. Lessons the risk substantially of an infection.

Seems some females that are Masochists or ones that love desperation and holding accidents or are submissive by nature enjoy messing themselves in the presence of a partner... especially a loving partner.

I hate messing myself but I have had occasional accidents and hate the inevitable clean up

At one time my AB wife would have messed her diapers for me regularly, but she developed some near serious IBS symptoms so now that is out of the question. Before the symptoms she messed a few times during our role play that I helped induce. I will share more on this in time.

I am female and loved to be forced to mess such a good feeling off being so submissive

I'm a female and I do like to mess my diaper. My mommy has no problem changing a messy diaper.

I love the way fresh poo feels when it comes out. Nothing beats that feeling.

I have very little control of my bowels so it's a surprise sometimes. I dont have to put any effort into it. It just slides out sometimes. Every night i have an enema to clean me out and reduce the pooping accidents but the still happen. The rock hard ones are my favorite because as i am sitting there in it, it doesn't break apart and end up in my vagina as much.

I wouldn't say I like it but I definitely don't mind it. I usually know it's coming so it feels good to get it over with and not have to hold it.

@Jenny_M

You write "I usually know it's coming...". Can you please explain?

Do you mean you know because you've had a laxative or suppository? Or do you just feel a poo coming on naturally when you are diapered?

@Sean

I deal with incontinence. I wear a regular diaper at night and usually Goodnites during the day. But sometimes it’s safer to wear a diaper when I’m out. That’s when I might end up feeling it but still using the diaper anyway.

@Jenny_M

I don't want to intrude upon your medical issues, but you might find the Attain device helpful to strengthen muscles and improve control. It is fairly new to the market.

https://www.incontrolmedical.com/attain-device/?

While it is promoted for female bladder control, it is also approved to strengthen anal muscles in both women and men.

And it works. It's just not 'nice' to advertise that function.

In use, the probe is lubed with a special conductive jel and inserted rectally. After insertion, the probe is inflated for a good fit and the e-stim session started.

Each stim pulse train caused your anal muscles to contract and squeeze the probe for a few seconds, then relax. The stim intensity is adjustable from mild to very intense The device essentially takes control of your anus gives your anal muscles a workout by making them repeatedly clench and release.

It is suggested that you pee and poo before a session, but the device does not have a laxative effect. Sessions take about 10 minutes and are not messy, except for some lube. The device works on AA batteries and is easy to clean.

Also, there are meds to firm up poo and reduce urges, but I presume you know about those.

If I need to wear one for some reason like after an oil enema or dont want to go to the toilet to pee during an event I dont mind the felling sort of like the pee in the diaper feeling . I do get off a llittle peeing in them. Pooping not so much it feels grose but not so bad. I do get a feeling of shynes knowing I am siting in a pile of my own crap as it greases me . Now I am wearing this foul thing doing my everyday things. If I were to wear one all the time I would just get used to it and not realy care I supose.

I always potty in my diapers and rubber pants and wait until they are fairly soggy before I am changed. Occasionally I also mess in my diapers and when I do I take my time and enjoy myself before I am changed. I don't know any girls who wear diapers. My sister wet her bed and wore diapers until she was 12 but not as an adult.

It seems that I am pooping in my diaper a lot more lately. I cant control it. I am already urinary incontinent ant it looks like what little control I had left is slipping away.

@MissPuffyButt

Your incontinence issues might be caused by poor pelvic muscle tone. You might want to look into the Attain estim device. It electrically stimulated various pelvic muscles and improves their tone It can be used either rectally, for poo, or vaginally, for pee. The device us used for about 15 minutes a day and is basically effortless exercise….. the device periodically takes comlete control and stimulates your muscles to contract strongly, exercising them.

@MissPuffyButt

Your incontinence issues might be caused by poor pelvic muscle tone. You might want to look into the Attain estim device. It electrically stimulated various pelvic muscles and improves their tone It can be used either rectally, for poo, or vaginally, for pee. The device us used for about 15 minutes a day and is basically effortless exercise….. the device periodically takes comlete control and stimulates your muscles to contract strongly, exercising them.

First, the my incontinence is cause from a back surgery I had. I was perfectly fine, went in for surgery one morning, came out with a catheter, discovered that I could no longer hold my bladder any at all and I could only hold my bowels part of the time. It was a risk but had I not had the surgery, I would be unable to walk within a few months. Now, I can walk and do anything I want besides hold my pee and poo. Now, I have to wear diapers all the time, but I do have a life.

So the pelvic floor thing is out.

Then, we considered a lot of different options as far as estim and stuff like that. My cardiologist has strongly recommended against it because of my heart condition. Right now, my pacemaker is keeping me alive. It is better to wear diapers than to even take a chance of having anything mess with my pacemaker and be dead.

These decisions are some that my husband, myself and my doctors have had to make. They were crappy decisions to have to make but it is what it is.

@MissPuffyButt a worse decision and conversation was just recently the subject of CME when do you and how do you talk to your patient about turning off pacemakers and different life sustaining / prolonging hardware .

needing diapers is a small price to pay . And I can say that with authority from my diapered ass in my power wheelchair .

there was recently a question on Qoura , it was to the effect of “does trump actually wear them “ and although it occurred in one of the not a fan of trump sections, that individual caught grief why does it matter , diapers aren’t up for making fun of or questioning its none of there damn business or concern . It was refreshing to see that in these polarized times that even those who have no taste for the man would shut that down as something not up for debate , if he does need them it’s none of your business, if he doesn’t need them it’s still none of your business , a Persons use of diapers is not a joke or need to be raised in public , if they want to tell you about then it’s your business .

I make no secret in my life of needing them and will go and give a parent grief when there child asks about wheelchairs or diapers and they get dragged away being told to hush , it’s teachable moment for that child especially with a open Honest age appropriate discussion with the person they are asking about ,where not monsters !

I know I have to be careful because of a possible UTI. I think that is a consideration for a lot of women.

@Nixie

Your concern about UTIs is well founded That's part of the reason I've written about various options for making someone poo in a diaper.

IMO, enemas are really not practical. They produce far too much sloppy poo hat goes everywhere.

Suppositories or a couple of ounces of liquid glycerin are a far better option

The liquid glycerin, given preferably with a colon tube inserted well up high (8 to 10 inches) will make someone poo just as powerfully as a bag of soapy water It just takes a few minutes longer, which is a plus because there is more time to get into the diaper. And the poo is usually formed so doesn't go everywhere.

Laxatives, properly chosen, work well too. Something like Epsom Salt or Milk of Magnesia produces a sloppy mess. Senna just makes you push out formed poo. Of course, laxatives take variable times to work.

Im a female who enjoys pooping my diapers but it’s something I do occasionally because of the clean up, I think the big difference is women won’t sit in it for hours because of the infection risk yet a lot of pooping posts are how long have you been sitting in a messy diaper for. Its that occasion tonight though and I’ve stuffed a few marshmallow up my butt to get the action going!

Further to the above, 40 minutes later I’ve messed, cleaned up and changed 😃