The best sex you EVER had.

What was the reason that after any kind of sex or kink play, you just lay there and said 'Holy fuck! That was incredable'?

What was the difference that time, and the ordinary?

- The 'honeymoon' of a new partner.

- Fullfilling a long time fantasy.

- Finding/trying something new.

Can you re-create that OMG moment, or was it a one-off?

If you want- What was the worst? The one you say 'Never again'.

Me- I had had anal sex with teenage boys, who were both quick on the trigger, and a bit clumsy. I always came, but I'm just built that way. The first time with a grownup, who was loving and caring, and could go for 45 minutes. I came, and came, and we tried all kinds of positions, and went slow, and fast, gentle, and rough. I never wanted it to end.

There's no such thing as bad anal sex, but I've never come close to that time.

I have had so many times that I have thought I just had the best sex ever. When I first met my husband and it was my first time, it was just so wonderful that I will never forget it. I was 16 and when I felt him squirting inside me it was when I changed from a girl to a woman really. I was thinking about it so much for hours after and I could not wait to go back for more. 😃

When we were on honeymoon it was some of the hottest sex ever in different places, it was not just in our hotel bedroom. We had some great sex on empty beaches then. It was a bit like this summer when we were away in Spain and we had sex in the doggy position in a little hidden cove at the beach. It was wonderful and I lost count of the orgasms I had there.

I really loved the sex we had the first time my husband gave me a play exam with a speculum. That was just so hot and I was half way to having an orgasm before we really got going. I think we can always recreate this and often other things we do too.

For me, one of the best times was the second time I had sex with my first gf/later wife. We had the house to ourselves, my parents and sibling were away and we had the luxury of a huge double bed. It was the first time we both undressed completely and we didn't do anything under the sheets. All on top, no hiding from each other. I think we played around for 2 hours or more, both of us also getting our first instance of oral sex.

Maybe another instance was with a lady friend, my one 'unfaithful' partner. We were in the Ardennes, in a cabin on the Bastogne battlefield all snowed up, on a winter's night. There was a special thrill to it, not least in the overstepping of conventions. She was enthusiastic and we were very compatible it turned out and spent a few hours having a wonderful time, very memorable.

Another memorable time my wife and I had sex, was in a camping grounds in the south of France, during the day. It was midday in the summer and hot inside and we were surrounded by other campers - some very attractive girls in their 20s. I suppose they could hear us which seemed to add to my wife's pleasure. There was something mildly exhibitionist about that time which made it memorable.

Two times in my life. As a sophmore in college I had found my love, one weekend my roomie had gone home for the weekend and I could sneak him in and he was mine for the entire weekend. We bought 6 protections, stayed naked, came up for air, and used them all. Did go out for pizza and McDonalds, plus a beer run, was it a fun weekend

Amethyst: ...vous avez fait l'amour à la plage; pas de voyeurs?

You made love on the beach; no voyeurs?

Amethyst: ...vous avez fait l'amour à la plage; pas de voyeurs?

No, my husband was sure there were no voyeurs. We were not seen.

Non, mon mari était sûr, qu'il n’y a aucun voyeurs. Nous n’avons pas vu.

Maybe another instance was with a lady friend, my one 'unfaithful' partner. We were in the Ardennes, in a cabin on the Bastogne battlefield all snowed up, on a winter's night. There was a special thrill to it, not least in the overstepping of conventions.

Awesome story.

On a related note, my grandfather spent a cold, snowy winter in the Ardennes a few years ago. This would have been around '44-'45. Don't think he was having very much sex, though....

I had sex with the woman who is now my wife, I had lusted her for years and now we were both divorced and going out, it was our first date. I t was a fantasy that was coming true for me and little did I know but for her also

- The 'honeymoon' of a new partner.

Yes a new and exciting woman who had excited me for years while we were both married to other partners, I never made a move on her always afraid to lose her as a friend

- Fullfilling a long time fantasy.

This love making was a fantasy of mine for almost 8 years

- Finding/trying something new.

Can you re-create that OMG moment, or was it a one-off?

We have recreated that night many times, it is something that neither of us will ever forget, it was amazing and she still is the best there is...

If you want- What was the worst? The one you say 'Never again'.

Was on vacation in Florida hooked up with a woman woke up in a water bed, had no idea how I got there but left real quick, she was ugly as sin...as so was the house and bed...showered for two days to get the smell off of me...

The worst I've ever had was wonderful, so it's hard to determine the best

After I backpacked 1000 miles on the Appalachian Trail in 2004, my wife and I had been apart for 3 months, and neither of us had sex the whole time.

My wife couldn't take it anymore, so she drove from Florida up to northern Virginia to meet me. Pam picked me up at a prearranged road crossing on the trail, and drove me straight to a motel room she'd rented and stocked with food. She immediately stripped off my very stinky clothes and ran outside to lock them in the trunk. She came back with a big smile. "You won't be needing any clothes for two or three days." she said while admiring my naked body. "You look amazing!" I was amazed myself when I looked in the mirror. I had had dropped almost 30 pounds while backpacking 1000 miles over mountains. My body was all muscle. Also, the long trek dramatically affected my libido. I had been waking up rock hard every morning for weeks with no way to relieve myself in the crowded trail shelters. As I watched Pam eagerly strip out of her clothes, I was instantly hard again. Pam grabbed my erect cock and used it like a handle to pull me over to our bed. She fell backward into bed while pulling me down on top of her.

We immediately fucked like crazed animals that first time. I tried to hold back, but it was impossible. I was done in two or three minutes--truly great for me, but not so much for Pam. We took a short break for showers and a sandwiches. Then we started to fuck again.

This second time we fucked was just as passionate. I was able to last long enough for Pam to have several really strong orgasms, and we came together at the end. It was truly great for us both--a perfect fuck. Then I fell into a deep sleep. I woke up an hour or two later with Pam's hand squeezing my dick into another hard erection.

The third time we fucked started out well, but I started to run out of gas. After 15 minutes, I found myself having to force things. I was feeling pretty drained physically and sexually, and I began to wonder if had a third orgasm in me. Pam sensed something was wrong, and she made me stop. She had a solution. Pam took out some sex toys she'd packed for her trip.

Pam lubed up a large butt plug and worked it into my ass. That perked me up. We started fucking again, slowly at first. I was starting to feel like I might be able to cum three times in one day.

Then Pam caught me by surprise as she started swatting my butt with a little whip as we fucked. She loves to give me a light whipping when we fuck, and I usually love to receive one. This time the whipping ended up anything but light. With the first little swat, I involuntarily lunged forward with the sting of the whip on my butt. The sting instantly produced far greater pleasure as my pubes bumped hard into Pam's, she gasped a little, and she reflexively thrusted back into me. As Pam continued swatting my backside lightly every few seconds, I almost involuntarily started fucking her faster. This time Pam knew I needed to fuck really fast to cum, so she skillfully increased the force and frequency of her swats slowly so I wouldn't feel the increasing pain. Her swats became very hard and fast. Soon I was fucking her at a very rapid clip. Then she only needed one hard swat every ten seconds or so to keep me going for a while. When I started to slow down, she gave me a rapid series of hard swats to get me back up to speed again. She was really enjoying it. She was having screaming orgasm after screaming orgasm, as I fucked her feverishly for another 15 minutes. I whole time I was right on the edge, but I couldn't quite get there.

Then I became too exhausted to continue fucking Pam and I was giving up, but she wouldn't let me stop and she went crazy with her whip. She started whipping my backside much harder and faster than she ever had before. The sound of her whip on my butt was alarmingly loud, but I felt no pain, just pleasure. Completely involuntarily now, despite my exhaustion, I began fucking Pam at furious pace, as fast as my hips could possibly move. Her pelvis shook violently under mine. I felt my orgasm welling up. Pam kept on whipping me as hard and fast as she could. Her arms were giving out and she was having to switch between her left and right arms. I couldn't believe how long our frenzy lasted. Neither one of us could stop. It was incredible. I felt like I had a two or three minute orgasm that got stuck in its early stages. We were both screaming at the top of our lungs and shaking the walls that whole time. Finally it ended in an insanely intense, utterly satisfying way, and we both collapsed. We both said later it was the most powerful, complete release we've ever experienced.

I woke up the next morning with Pam squeezing my dick again. I had a big erection, but my whole body ached and my butt was really sore. . "Ready to play?", Pam asked.

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The best:

Age 20 (of course) and my second girlfriend who was 32 at the time. Kind of a Mrs. Robinson thing, a waitress and single mother of two who worked at the restaurant where I washed dishes while home from college over the summer. Sexy lean body, Mediterranean ancestry so always tan, and she was the tightest juiciest snatch I've ever been in before or since, bar none. Even she said we fit well together. The best part: she'd had a hysterectomy so I was in condom free hog heaven. The first time we fucked we came at the same time together. It was always the same location and time - the back seat of the family station wagon parked behind the restaurant after closing, typically around 2AM. I knocked the bottom out of that ass the whole summer.

The best-worst:

Make-up sex with another ex that resulted in her becoming pregnant. This was deep into our 40s. She still looked great - pretty face, about a 7/8, huge rack, big beautiful derriere (I like that , not sure why) and she knew how to dress right, another weakness of mine. We did the traditional mutually respectful classy dinner date, you know "to talk over things." Coat and tie, nice steak dinner at an old school club, couple of drinks, then back to my place, again to "talk." She had been rubbing up against me the whole night, sitting next to me with no air gap, touching me on the arm, the textbook run of womanly wiles. By the time we sat down on my couch I was rock hard - that kind of occasional hardness that is so hard, it's actually painful. The proverbial blue-veiner (side topic: is there a female equivalent to this?). No Viagra involved either. An all-natural female induced boner.

We kissed. She noticed the Washington Monument in my pants and actually used the famous Mae West line, "Is that a gun in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?" Game on. To the bedroom, strip, dive into bed, oral on her to climax, then missionary and I came in about 45 seconds. No condom, she'd been on the pill for years.

I had viewed it as more of a hook-up than a reconciliation and she got a little pissed the next morning. I knew I didn't want to date her, and I admitted I just wanted to fuck her - and potentially become friends with benefits - because well, she was a fantastic lay. That didn't go over well.

Six weeks later, I got the "phone call." Of course, knowing she was kind of a 'popular girl' and had more than one male acquaintance at the time, I immediately lawyered up. Thankfully, six weeks after that I got the other phone call, where she told me she'd had a miscarriage (expected by her doctor, given her age and fibroids, so she said).

False pregnancy mind fuck as pay-back for using her (trust me, the using was waaay more deserved than the pay-back)? Possibly. Friends advised me as much. But maybe not. Anyway, that was six weeks of hell I never, ever want to relive. Great sex for 45 seconds, then a potential lifetime of regret, and certain financial ruin. All at the hands of a cunty, spiteful woman.

Be forewarned boys: Act in haste, repent at leisure. Wrap it up (and flush it afterward), or get a vasectomy. And never fuck a Catholic woman you don't wish to knock up. Be in charge, be in control. Always.

Honorable mention: handjob from a certain masseuse with a Mt. Rushmore size rack. Somehow this gal would incorporate those fun bags into The Finish and I would spout a geyser I never thought possible. Thanks Rhonda!

The best sex I've ever had was with a guy I once dated. We connected so well mentally, emotionally, sexually. He was very open minded and liked to play doctor. The sex was phenomenal.

See my "ultimate fantasy" posed 11-30-17. That was the most memorable because I knew right then, 37 and a half years ago, that I had my dream girl who would always love anal sex as much as I did. And we still do. Sunday, it was still the best ever.

I almost don't want to make this post because I don't want it to sound so cliche.

In 1984, when we were 15, I convinced my parents to let me attend the two weekend est seminar training in NYC. After my parents were convinced, my best friend (NOT really boyfriend but now husband) and I convinced his parents to allow him to attend the seminar. Being that we were only 15, we didn't get a hotel room to share. Our parents took turns driving us from our homes to the NYC hotel where the trainings were held.

My parents thought or hoped the est training would make me more empathetic, which it did in dealing with some people, but it mostly made me more driven, and when discussing the experience with my parents several times during the following year, my mother said I actually became difficult to live with because I strictly adopted Werner Erhard's style of dealing with people, and the "tough love", "deal with it philosophy" and other personality characteristics including my big mouth which were amplified after the seminars. This also, no doubt contributed significantly to my DOMME persona that became present in every day life. My husband, then best friend but not boyfriend, was not as influenced as I was and I think that also contributed to his relative submissiveness with me, but not to other mere mortals where he was still close to top dog. But still in his teen years he could not really control me.

Fast forward to high school graduation and college. In 1990 I suggested that we attend Werner Erhard's "The Forum" which was a slightly watered down, kinder, gentler version of est, but I wanted to do it because now we were 21 years old, juniors in college and young adults. The closing ceremonies were very emotional for both of us, especially for me because I now had great strength and determination that nothing was going to stop me from getting what I wanted. I became extremely driven. I know you are probably wondering how this has anything to do with the best sex I ever had, but bear with me.

Unlike when we were 15 doing est, now we were young adults and he booked a reservation at the hotel where The Forum was held. His parents paid for it and it was expensive. The night The Forum completed, my husband, then boyfriend and I had one of the best nights of sex we ever had. We didn't do anything as wild as we had done before, but the physical caressing and extreme emotional closeness we shared was as good as a experiencing a Vulcan Mind Meld, (the Star Trek technique for the psychic fusion of two or more minds, permitting unrestricted communication or deep understanding) and it was one of the critical events in our relationship where we recognized that we should be together and get married after we finished graduate school.

Was with my now Husband. We were dating and just starting to really be ourselves sexually. I was tied up at the time and he was going down on me, it may have been one of the first times we were having bondage sex, anyway he was doing all the right things and it was feeling amazing and he stopped, he started to kiss someplace else and I assumed he was done and was going to just fuck me and I did something uncharacteristic for me, I said, “Oh please not just yet, can you do that some more?” He looked at me and laughed and said, “Princess, we’re just getting started.” And he meant it. I had never been edged before, never had anyone focused on playing my body like an instrument. The sex was great, but honestly we have had as good and even better since that time - hell my most vanilla quickie with him is better than most of the sex I had before him - but I can point to that moment as knowing he was the One.

That being said, last night was pretty fucking awesome too. I’m hoarse this morning from screaming, but that’s not unusual (yes I’m bragging).

Well, I can not determine the best sex I ever had. It depends on my mood on what I think the best sex was. There were so many great times, and some not so great.

But one memorable event I would like to share here.

It was with my first girlfriend. We tried to anal sex for some time, but I never inserted my dick in her butt. At least no for a long time. I was scared that it will hurt her and she will loose interest.

I used to play many times with my tongue and my fingers. Even with a small dildo. This all worked perfectly. Even two fingers were no problem. From time to time I placed my penis at her rear entry and pushed a bit. But I did not enter.

Finally one time she was ready. My dick was not the hardest that time. As I gave her a long oral treatment on her clit in missionary until she flipped into doggy style. I started to lick her ass and play with her hole for some minutes. As this all went on so long, my dick was no longer super hard, but still hard enough. So I mounted a condom and used some lube on it.

Like many times before, I placed my penis right on her hole. Gently I pushed, but this time there was no resistance. My dick went in half way without any problem.

Man it was so tight. I was even shocked a bit, that it was soo easy. She was relaxed enough for my half erect penis.

It was so warm and comfortable, I was super excited. Some seconds after I was in I started to notice her heartbeat on her tight anus. I could feel any heartbeat trough her anus on my dick. It was soo awsome, never felt something like that again.

Getting more and more turned on by that, my dick started to harden. Each heartbeat of her got more intense. I did not even penetrate her, I was just happy with half my dick in her nice butthole. I leaned over her (not very comfortable tough) and grabbed her clitors and felt how that little clit got bigger and bigger. Her heartrate accelerated. I never have felt such a big clitoris ever again. I cloud swear it got the size of my tumb. at least it felt like that.

Feeling her clitoris grow and her pulse raising my dick got super hard. Without any movement I came.

Slowly I took out my dick, flipped her over again and started to lick her until she finished as well.

I've two "bests", one coupling and one giving.

In the mid Eighties my then play partner was relocating to another state. We met up for one last weekend together in Maryland. The night before she was to leave we had sex continuously for hours. I came five times from all the PIV action. My penis was rubbed raw from the constant friction. Over the intervening years we hooked up a few times for memorable sex, but not like it was on this occasion.

The best giving memory was with my first wife. We were at a beach condo on SPI. The air conditioner wasn't working well and it was sultry in the apartment. I had had an enema with an orgasm that morning and I was still horny from it hours later. I suggested we get naked. There was a canvas sling back chair that allowed my wife to comfortably slouch in with her legs spread. By kneeling between her legs I was able to go down on her without straining my neck. I licked, tongued and sucked her pussy and clit for over an hour while she had orgasm after orgasm. By the time we quit that canvas was soaking wet from my efforts and her cums.

It was my second year of college and had a sort of girl friend. Joanie was attractive enough, but no beauty. Blond with small boobs, but after a few weeks we decided to do a road trip to Lime Rock, Connecticut to watch a car race. It was far enough that it justified getting a motel room. After the race we got something to eat and then checked in. We made out for a while, I got her bra off and sucked on her boobs but then let my hands roam. There was a string hanging out of her vagina and I gave it a little pull, but she said, "Wow, your something else, but maybe I better do that. Besides it's my last day" and went into the bathroom. A couple of minutes later we resumed what we were doing and I began fingering her. Not long after that I got to fuck her and I still remember how deliciously tight she was. A month or two later we broke up and headed different ways.

The best sex I ever had was when I had sex with a woman that sat on my orange sex chair I used to have.

I'm working on a new one for future play examinations to any lady who want me to perform one on them.

The best for the time I was with her { the early 70's } a certain young lady that rocked my world and at that time and place she was my one and only . But I guess I wasn't enough , she left me for Lennard Lake , yes I was tossed aside for a real life killer . Maybe I wasn't kinky enough ??

1 st was when my GF / fiancee sat down on the couch that I was lying down on, put my head in her lap, then lifted my head to suckle on her breast, while giving me a hand job.OMG when I ejaculated it was like NONE I ever had before, to this day I have never produced as much semen as that time in one ejaculation.

2 after she left me I met my future wife, GREAT sex for 47 years and counting, when she wrapped her legs locking them behind my back!!!!!! When she said OH MY CERVIX !!!, When she was on top of me making me feel like I was the one being TAKEN by her, & sucking alternately on each of her breasts to our orgasm, When she found how hard I get when she SPANKS me, and how wet she gets from spanking me, every time that when I was about to climax and pulled down HARD on her shoulders to make sure that I was as deep as possible in her, and when she always talks dirty to me making me admit ....................................................................................................................!!!, and when...............................................................................................!!!!!

What an interesting question. I have been reflecting back on it for a while now. The odd thing is every female I have ever had sex with had something that I was attracted to, and I am into enough things that I really found all of my encounters exciting in some way. I think back on many of them now that I am older in fact. It really would be hard to pick one as the best. I had a truly stunningly beautiful red headed girlfriend with long hair and green eyes. She was special, but so was the amazing blond I hooked up with at the rainbow gathering and we sent the night screwing by the file light like animals in heat. Even the drunk college sex, or even more fun, after getting waking up and saying we should never do this again, saying what the fuck and doing it one or two or a a weeks worth of last times. Really I think as you get older you see all of them as special and fun.

I think the worst sex has been with a regular partner after it starts to get rote or they are doing it just to get you off and they don't do a very good job of masking it, or they are just distracted etc. Let's face it, first time sex is always more exciting. New territory to explore and you are always the prim focus of each others minds. After 20+ years you start to get that can you move your leg so I can see the TV while I finish this mentality. Thankfully not all the time but I would be a liar if I said it did not happen occasionally.

Alright I’ve been thinking about this for a while now and I think the best sex I ever had, as in the single best single experience of sex, was when I was 32. I was working at a huge company. We’d had a crisis at work and I spent almost 90 hours stuck at the office until it was fixed. (In those days I was masturbating once or twice a day so I was pretty backed up by the end of it l. That will be relevant in a minute.)

Unrelatedly, I was on the dating apps and had met a girl the weekend before who, to my great surprise, was upfront in telling me she just wanted sex. Nothing else. For where I was and what was doing at the time that was just fine with me. We’d had a date Sunday night but I was stuck at the office until sometime Wednesday, so we kept postponing.

Finally, we fixed the crisis and Wednesday afternoon I left work around 3. “N” came over around 6. She brought Greek carry out but we didn’t even eat. We stripped each other down and she laid on my bed with her legs and feet hanging off. I stood at the edge of the bed with the hard-on of a teenager and we fucked each other’s brains out. If I hadn’t used a condom I wouldn’t have believed how much I came. It was truly mind-blowing and probably the best single instance of sex I’ve had, from my perspective. Then I fingered her until she came twice and then she blew me and we fucked again. It was quite a night. A few nights later she messaged me to say she was a drug addict in recovery and her sponsor didn’t think she should have any physical attachments at the time (this was later confirmed on fb to be true).

The next morning I went straight to the clinic to get tested and I ran into a secretary from work at the std clinic (#awkward). Totally worth it.