Spanking and Masturbation.

@Pecan_nutjob She spanked us all on our bare bottoms with a leather strap.

I was 13 when I first masturbated after a spanking, and after that I used to masturbate after a spanking as soon as I could, I wanted to do it while my bottom felt like it was on fire.

I was 13 when I first masturbated after a spanking, and after that I used to masturbate after a spanking as soon as I could, I wanted to do it while my bottom felt like it was on fire.

Didn't your parents ever catch on?

No, because I did it in the privacy of my bedroom after they'd finished spanking me and gone back downstairs. Since they never returned to my room to catch me in the act, I can safely say they didn't suspect me of it.

I was 13 when I first masturbated after a spanking, and after that I used to masturbate after a spanking as soon as I could, I wanted to do it while my bottom felt like it was on fire.

I suspect a lot of us can identify with this, Andrew. Not just while the fire was burning. Also later when memories of that fire evoked the same response.

You said in the next post “after they finished spanking me and gone back downstairs.” Were both your parents usually present for a spanking? Was it just your dad, or did your mother spank you as well?

Never got spanked for masturbating but mom used to skold me for doing it because she found my “cum rag” under my mattress!

Both my parents spanked me at various times but dad was the main spanker. Usually only the one who was about to spank me would come into my room to spank me. Whichever parent spanked me at the time, they would go back downstairs when they'd finished dealing with my bottom while I had to stay in my room until they said I could come down. That, of course, was when I used to pleasure myself.

No, because I did it in the privacy of my bedroom after they'd finished spanking me and gone back downstairs. Since they never returned to my room to catch me in the act, I can safely say they didn't suspect me of it.

Sounds like they must have been very naive and not all that knowledgeable about the ways of the world in this regard. I don't know how many accounts there are here of members masturbating after a spanking. It sounds like both go together like the proverbial horse and carriage.

And surely if either of them had been spanked when young, your parents must have had an inkling of what might very well happen afterwards.

Sometimes I can't help but find so many contradictions in the intended outcomes of spanking. It is supposed to hurt and deter certain behavior, but it seems to enable and encourage masturbatory behavior afterwards, something quite pleasurable to say the least. Sounds like sending mixed signals. And I cannot help but wonder if parents were truly ignorant of this.

Surely such a large percentage of parents couldn't have been that unknowing.

Being one of 12, my dad would never have had the privacy to masturbate even if he felt like it after getting the belt or whatever. I couldn't see him being the type to enjoy being spanked though. My dad was a natural born spanker (like his own dad) while I'm a natural born spankee.

@Andrew_Finklehouse Sound like you were spanked often? Memory of things that become a fetish are tricky, from all I've written here it might sound like I was getting allot of enemas; but truth be told, I honestly don't know…

I was spanked most often between the ages of 9 and 12. I started to get aroused by it at 11. It carried on up to age 16, although less frequently than before.

*sheepishly raises hand* not exactly masturbating but for being caught. A few times especially when I was first playing with myself I was stupid and would leave my door unlocked and be very loud or do it on the couch and forget mom was coming home because I was doing it a long time.

I think it happened like 3 times? The first I got a relatively like mild spanking a a scolding about like that’s a private thing she doesn’t wanna see lock the door or do it in the bathroom and be quiet etc and it was super embarrassing.

The others were much more intense for it being a repeat thing. But also I think those contributed a lot to my spanking kink because like cmon lol I’m already horny and halfway to an orgasm and then suddenly going over the lap and having my butt touched some wires were crossed lol

@emmaspankedgirl Interesting post.

You said,

But also I think those contributed a lot to my spanking kink because like cmon lol I’m already horny and halfway to an orgasm and then suddenly going over the lap and having my butt touched some wires were crossed lol

Perceptive observation. I think my kinks, wife's too, were much tied to a heightened state of excitement from dread or pleasurable anticipation of some intimate, private event like a spanking, enema, suppository, rectal temp and then the event ratcheting up the level to the point I was in need of a release, orgasm, as soon as it might be pulled off --- and, yes, I am aware of the pun.

Your theory of being caught masturbating, being in a heightened state to start with and then the spanking further "exciting" the nerves in the same area seems to me to be bang on. (Ouch, is that another pun?)

It sounds like all these masturbatory spankings were administered by your mom. Did your dad spank as well? Aside from a passing swat when it was spanking time for me it was mother/son time.

I started masturbating at the age of 13. Many a times after a spanking I masturbated.

Especially an over the knee spanking for some naughty things I have done. At times when I feel horny I will act up and get mom to spank me. After when she left the room I will close my bedroom door and masturbate. Surprisingly I was never caught masturbating but then you never know?

I never received a spanking from my mom. She was a sole parent as my father died of cancer when I was 7. I was actually a good kid and didn't get into trouble very often. I did masturbate 3 or 4 times a day (still do!) but never got caught doing it. How many others on here, male and female, enjoy the pleasures of masturbating? Do you enjoy doing it with a partner?