Too Sadistic?

Would you consider making a sub/slave wait until they have a full enough rectum to give an enema that you require them to hold at least 15min too extreme? So the sub/slave was already full then you add more fullness and then require them to hold it before they eliminate. Anyone done or heard of that being done?

This is not too extreme. In fact they should be made to hold the enema and be spanked. If they leak or drip any on the floor or the spanker's hands, they need to clean the mess with their tongue. There is no escaping the punitive aspects of this enema.

No, that doesn't sound too extreme. While I've never done punishment enemas, there is a lot you can do with forced holding, embarrassing releasing, etc. The sub can be forced to get dressed and go walk outside, or to a store. Like Suzie says, a spanking or caning. Making them pleasure the Dom to orgasm in order to release. Doing anything so that they eventually leak causing embarrassment and humiliation. Having them expel in the tub facing the drain so they have to look at everything they are releasing as it drains. Making them wear or expel in a diaper... Lots of fun punishments to enjoy, and these are mild compared to real sadists out there!

Many of us have had accidents or have caused "accidents" to occur.

There was one time I posted about years ago where I gave my husband a highly concentrated glycerine and water enema prior to an S&M scene and later had him tied to the bed. He told me had to go to the bathroom, but I told him it was just gas since the enema was hours ago and he should fart it out. It wasn't gas and there was a mess and I made him stay in it for a while. A couple of years later, he got his comeuppance. He was giving me enemas, and for the second one, he laid me down and inserted a 48 French colon tube about 20 inches and taped it to my thigh so it would stay in. He stood me up in the bathroom with leg spreaders attached to my ankles and my wrists were secured to a hook in the ceiling so I couldn't move around. Then he gave me about two and a half quarts (my preferred volume) while standing. Since my legs were spread far apart, I could not clench my butt well and I ended up leaking viscous brown water down my legs. He made sure I got to stand in that for a while before releasing me to get cleaned up.

OH WOW! Well there you go. Thanks for chiming in guys.

My most recent session was typical of how I handle retention with subgirl. She was cuffed with her hands in front and a neck collar. I took her outside into her backyard and clipped her to a patio support post about four three feet off the ground. This put her into a bent over position at a level that was hard to hold except the post held her in that position. I hung her four quart bag from the patio beam above her head. I used a double balloon nozzle and inflated both bulbs to about the size of tennis balls....needless to say, she was sealed up tight. I use a spinning flow control to watch how fast she gets filled and let her take the bag very slowly.

It took her about ten minutes to get the whole bag, so she was feeling it as it slurped empty. She complained and was embarrassed, but the slow fill kept her from cramping until just before the end.

I let her hold the enema for a full fifteen minutes and then explained that she would be allowed to release AFTER she gave me her orgasm. She fretted and shifted her weight from one leg to the other and said she couldn't concentrate. I used a small vibrator and eased it up from behind and held it on her clit until she got her arousal high enough to concentrate. It took a good five minutes to get her edged up and finally get that first orgasm from her. All told, she retained her enema at least twenty minutes from after she was full. Later, she admitted that it was excrutiating to hold all that water, but also admitted that her orgasm was VERY intense. I think she now has love/hate feeling about the whole situation as I have hinted that we will do this again and she groaned...and sheepishly smiled at the same time.

@strictlyplayful I'd probably have the same response. Sounds deliciously cruel.

I think it sounds resonable but i enjoy the sadistic part to an extent. but must be resonable. very exciting to hear in your ear, hold it, just a bit longer, you must hold it or i will punish you. mmmmmm

I think so much depends upon the woman being made to hold her enema...if humiliation drives their arousal as is the case with this subgirl, when I have her in a situation like she was in in her backyard and in restraints, she knows full well that while she must endure taking and holding her enema, the real humiliation, the real arousal comes from knowing that as much as she wants to stop the cramps and stop the bloat, as much as she wants to get indoors and away from the chance of being seen, she knows that before she gets relief of any kind, she will have to expel her enema outdoors, in her yard, bound up , naked standing up and everything will be on display....knowing this drives her arousal intensely....her concentration level needed her to be really focused to give up her climax...but that was what she was doing this whole scene for in the first place....totally consensual and totally what she wanted. Indeed, her orgasm was fretful but very intense...her expulsion was embarrassing and left her very subdued...and thankful that she could trust me to navigate the whole scene for her. My soft verbal encouragements and stern replies of what I expected really drove her arousal. It was her being very submissive and getting off to it.

Toshe

I agree with your comment. In her predicament, she knew what was required of her. My standing next to her in a calm, relaxed way, as you mentioned, bending close to whisper in her ear....something about me being fully dressed and calm and in control and her being stressed to the max, uncomfortable, naked outside, bent over and knowing that while she was sealed up tight, she was not expelling, but her need to expel was intense, her anxiety was high because she knew she would be expelling without privacy or her control in any way. This was both vey humiliating and arousing for her. As I said, she had a love/hate feel about this session. Only someone that is truly submissive and into medfet could appreciate what she experienced.

In my experiences that is not only not too extreme but is a reasonable punishment for disobedience. The fear that it instills in the recipient is an important tool when teaching obedience. Strong reinforcement that the giver is truly stimulated and gets off on watching her writhe with cramps and struggle to retain and remain still makes her aware that it can happen again.

This sounds like fun to me. In the past I have waited till I was full by holding back using the bathroom for a while or by taking Imodium for a couple days. I think an Enema feels better when already full to begin with. Even just being full from eating increases the fun although wait a few hours or it may cause nausea.

A couple of the Mistresses who have punished me over the years not only really got off on starting an additional fill when I was begging and pleading for permission to go to the bathroom, but both of them used to like using a dildo-size nozzle connected to the hose and pushing it deeply into me and then pulling it back out as the pressure and cramps mounted. My ex used to take me outside into our private back yard and alternate caning with adding more enema - things like start with one pint, then ten hard cane-strokes, followed by another pint, then ten more strokes, and keep it up until I was filled with at least a gallon and able to hold it through all 80 cane-strokes. If I lost as much as a single drop she would start the game over again.