Such a turn-on watching an erotic massage

I absolutely love watching erotic massage videos! It can be a man rubbing down a woman or the other way around, honestly I don't care. I wish I could get my wife interest....in giving or receiving.

I wish I could get my wife interest....in giving or receiving.

Wow I can't imagine anyone turning down a massage. Maybe if you offered to do her and didn't require reciprocation? I would also make sure to say that you are NOT doing this as a 'trick' to get her to have sex. And then don't - just do it for her pleasure and relaxation. If this happens a few times it might open up a physical connection between you two that could then lead to all the other things...

Good luck!

Two tips: Don't make it erotic at first, and learn what you're doing.

There are some things you need to know about anatomy and the process of massage to make it a good one.

Once she likes massage and relaxes you can ask her about making them more erotic. While you shouldn't pretend that there isn't an erotic component unless you're a legitimate doctor/physical therapist there are potential benefits for massaging the pelvic area, including the pelvic floor muscles, buttocks and anal area. Not to mention that orgasm is great for stress reduction and relaxation if you're in that kind of a relationship with your massagee (and if you're neither in an intimate relationship with your massagee nor a genuine PT/doctor your really shouldn't be doing pelvic work).

This goes both ways - you may benefit from some pelvic work as well, though for guys this does likely include anal penetration.

P.S. - the penis has no muscles, so don't try any BS about needing a "penile massage" - though I have occasionally let my wife know (in a way that we both knew was a joke) that I seemed to be a bit stiff in that area and might benefit from some manipulation 😜 .

I want to start out by saying that I love my wife more than life itself.I do have a couple of sexual interests that she will not comply so I frequent the services of a masseuse Sexually my first wife was a freak. and loved anal sex. As a prelude to the act we would give each other around the world tongue baths with a lot of time licking each others anuses [I find the smell intoxicating. My current wife is turned off by rimming and not much on deep kissing both things I adore. It is hard to find a lady to do both of these things surprisingly kissing is more of a deal breaker than rimming. About 10 years ago I found a perfect lady whom i see about every other month. The sessions go like this. When I show up we undress each other then we go into the bathroom and she washes my butt with a warm soapy rag to be sure I am clean. I then give her a full massage and lots of attention to her anus and clit. Then it is my turn. She starts to massage my back and neck [she is a licensed masseuse]. Next she gets out the scented oil and very lightly massages me with her finger tips and also her pendulous breasts [feels like 4 hands].It feels incredible on my anus,perneum, and scrotum. For the finale I turn over and grab my ankles and she proceeds to start to lick from the top of my crack over my anus spending a lot of time there and then on to my scrotum, and then up the shaft . I tell her she needs to stop and she takes me in her mouth until every drop has escaped.

Although this lady has full service clients I have never had intercourse with her. As Bill Clinton says I did not have sex with that lady

Have you brought up erotic massages with your wife? For most women, massages are a bonus, and you can frame it that way if you talk with her. I guess it depends on what you'd like to do or how deep you'd like to go, but I would think at least something would be workable.

Have you ever tried working light massage into foreplay? When my wife and I have sex, she'll lie down and I'll give her a massage, starting at her shoulders and moving my hands down to her legs, also with lots of kissing down her body her as we go . It's one of our favorite things for foreplay.

I am surprised women have not responded here. My husband started giving me massages and I don't mean a quick rub down. He set up a bench put an electric blanket on it and also a couple heat lamps overhead. He bought headphones so I can listen to music. It is so comfortable and with the music I just get lost in another world. And then the massage, I saw on the laptop he was visiting sites learning everything he could about massage, not porn but advice and teaching. He bought special lotions and some oils, even bought suction cups for cupping which didn't work so well but he tried. It is not uncommon for his massages to be an hour or more. I asked to give them to him which we do at times but when the massage topic comes up he would rather give and I'm not one to argue. I could write a short book on how some have led to other activities but most of the time there are no strings attached just an afternoon or evening in just total relaxation.

I recently went to my local Spa to get a massage, He asked me to strip to my panties and cover myself with a blanket.. When I turned over his hands moved up my thighs to the start of the silky panties I had on but that was as far as it went. He had my motor revving and I desperately wanted relief. I squirmed I moaned i even let the blanket slip down to expose my itty bittys. He remained professional and I left totally exasperated. Any one have a massage go further? My husband gets happy ending massages all the time. Women should also be able to leave completely relaxed.

He remained professional and I left totally exasperated. Any one have a massage go further? Women should also be able to leave completely relaxed.

@Moist Sorry to be a downer, but you are asking him to break the law (probably), break his professional code of ethics, open himself up for a lawsuit should he perform any inappropriate touching, and break his marriage vows or commitment to his partner (should he have one)!! I doubt any legitimate spa gives 'happy endings', but I'm sure there's a 'massage parlor' somewhere that you could be accommodated.

And couldnt your husband massage you, and vice versa? Maybe take some massage classes together. Could be fun!

He remained professional and I left totally exasperated. Any one have a massage go further? My husband gets happy ending massages all the time. Women should also be able to leave completely relaxed.

I've tried asking some of my lady friends about their experiences having a massage done. Most will admit to going to a massage parlor/establishment from time to time, but none have ever admitted to anything in the way of a happy ending for ladies.

Oddly they all do seem to think that is the norm when men get a massage, as if it is a given. When I say that some establishments will not do so, they (naturally) look at me with that typical condescending female look that says ever so clearly that they think I am lying. It's often with a smile, but I can see they do not believe me.

Though I haven't looked around extensively, all of the massage providers I know of are completely professional.

Except for one. That guy keeps trying to feel up my wife and get her to go a bit further than professional massage ethics permit pretty much all the time. Even has the massage table set up in the bedroom 😉 .

On a more serious note I'm trying to figure out the best way to transition a sensual massage to an erotic one. I have the progression from neck-shoulders down to top of hips, then face and scalp, then feet up to upper thigh, but I'm trying to figure out how to negotiate progression and movements to bring in breasts, genitals and buttocks/anus/perinial area.

I agree--I also love watching massage porn--of many combinations--female to male, female to female, male to female, even male to male...love it...and naked yoga...

I think received massage from gf or wife can make me get sexual pleasure and also give me ejaculate. It's REAL. But watching porn related massage make me crazy to masturbation myself. It's just FANTASY.

I like to massage my wife. Use an aromatic oil. I start with her prone and work from her feet graduallyup her legs, across buttocks, her back and then her arms and hands. Then, i have her turn over and again start at the feet, working up her body to her fingertips. Often, she is then very aroused, so i have her turn back on her stomach, and then work up to her buttocks. From there, a good perineal massage is in order. Things then progress from there

I enjoy erotic massages from either males or females providing anal stimulation is included., The intensity of the orgasm is multiplied many times over.

I love watching them too! Soo hot!

My wife and I both enjoyed erotic massage that always ended up as a butt/anal massage. As far as viewing erotic massage porn, I really enjoy lesbian massage that involves ass play. Not so much F2M or M2F massage.

Love watching erotic massages and experiencing them too. I would love to video my girlfriend giving me one of her special massages and posting it to Zity but she's totally against any public display of our sexual lives.

Related topic- I would like to read more women's opinions about this topic. Like a lot of these Zity posts, too bad there aren't more female respondants. It seems to usually be at least a majority male, even sometimes up to 90% male for a lot of topics on Zity.

I know some moderators have argued that there are many female Zity members and it's not mostly men, so either women aren't actively logging in to Zity or they are mostly lurkers. I'd be interested to know which discussion topics have the highest % of females responding. Because some topics are mainly just men posting with other men.

Example, I'm counting right now on my Discusscions>Recent Unseen of the 55 topics on my screen, the most recent posters: 7 are female, 48 male.

Like a lot of these Zity posts, too bad there aren't more female respondants. It seems to usually be at least a majority male, even sometimes up to 90% male for a lot of topics on Zity.

There are some threads here that are heavily dominated by some of our wonderful women- @Ms_lila @Gibby, @Dahnina, and others. They tend to be hotter and more descriptive than most men's posts.. Some men like @Cedar, @Night_Pilot also put out some very hot posts. but they are aligned and I suspect inspired by the women's posts. All are excellent and I hope they keep posting!! ?

I like to watch massage porn, mostly male to female but I've seen some hot female to male.. but I don't watch porn that often. I do love getting and giving a erotic massage, full body. When your warm hands run up and over every inch of skin.. definitely build the intimacy between two people, that's never a bad thing.

@gwhap

EXACTLY. Women’s post are much hotter, more erotic, which is why I’d like to read more of them.

There are some threads here that are heavily dominated by some of our wonderful women- @Ms_lila @Gibby, @Dahnina, and others. They tend to be hotter and more descriptive than most men's posts.. Some men like @Cedar, @Night_Pilot also put out some very hot posts. but they are aligned and I suspect inspired by the women's posts. All are excellent and I hope they keep posting!! ?

Ineed @Cedar and @Night_Pilot do 'put out some very hot posts.' 😈 And I am going to beat @Dahiana to this very obvious NEXT bit about the fact that those two wonderful men are rather, well, tardy or slow, to post or respond. 😁 😁 😁 But to give credit where credit is due, these two are very inspiring. 🌹 🌹 🌹

That is when they write. 😉

Yes, it is quite a turn-on watching erotic massages. This is especially true when the massage devolves into some anal or genital stimulation and/or penetration. While watching is a hoot, participation is the ultimate. Few things beat a good massage as an aspect of foreplay. As a strong advocate for "Enemassage", it would be heavenly if enemas and massages could be inextricably linked. While colon hydrotherapy and massage are often provided in "day spas", the more erotic combination of Enemassage is far more stimulating and satisfying. Providers are few and far between, but consenting adults should be able to enjoy the benefits, even if other more traditional LTR's aren't in the cards.

I do enjoy occasionally watching a good massage porn video. I only watch female massaging female or male massaging female.

My preference is, of coarse, giving a nice erotic massage to MrsFn. It's just one more way of getting my hands on her beautiful body. Also looking upon her is such a visual sensory feast for my eyes.

I lay a high thread count cotton sheet over the bed. It makes a silky smooth surface for her to lie on and keeps any massage oils from getting on our actual bedding.

She enters the room from the master bath, then disrobes. Already I can't take in the sight of her enough. Her creamy white skin, her gorgeous 40D breasts with their brownish pink areolas and nipples, (already perked up), her dark triangle bush between her legs, all make me instantly hard.

She has a couple of cherry moles on her breasts that just pop against her fair skin and her areolas have those beautiful little bumps that just say, "suck me".

She lays tummy down on the sheet draped bed and gets comfortable with a pillow.

I oil my hands up, with baby oil gel this time, and start her massage at her feet. I take her left foot first, raising it to my chest, having her bend her leg at the knee. I thoroughly massage her foot, paying special attention to her toes and soles. Then I work my way down her calf before switching to her right foot and doing the same thing.

Now moving up the back of her thighs, I massage each one thoroughly. Moving my hands back and forth, I work my way up her shapely thighs, letting my hands just barely brush the lips of her pussy.

Moving on up, I kneed and massage her bum cheeks, purposely spreading them every so often. I love the sight of the darker, brownish pink skin between her ass cheeks. The color contrasts with the creamy white tone of her cheeks and it's like a path, guiding you, inviting you even, into the sweet puckered hole of her bum. I don't spend too much time here, as I will return to this sweet hole later.

I keep massaging up her back and her shoulders. Her shoulders often ache, especially due to RA, so the more I can relax her here, the better for any other erotic massaging to come. I spend a good amount of time here before moving up her arms and hands.

Now I massage all the way back down her body, repeating my routine as I do so.

Once I'm at her feet, I massage back up her legs and bum. Now I pay even more attention to her ass cheeks, kneeding and squeezing them. I occasionally spread her cheeks to delight in the sight of her beautiful and tight puckered rosebud, lightly rubbing her hole with my fingers.

I can tell by her soft moans and her body demeanor that she is very relaxed and feeling good. This ass massaging has caused her to spread her legs a bit wider now, and it's time to introduce a surprise.

I pull the Magic Wand from under the bed and click it on low as I move it between her legs. Just the sound of it causes her to slightly lift her pelvis. She wants it on her clit as much as I do.

Just the lower end of her pussy slit is visible when she lifts her pelvis and the sight of her thick, brownish pink lips opening slightly is mesmerizing.

I place the massager under her and she lowers her pussy onto the head of the pulsating vibrations of the wand.

With the massager working on her clit and pussy, I go back to massaging her beautiful body with my hands. She let's out soft moans and oohs as she is being thoroughly relaxed and pleasured.

I'm already hard just having my hands on her, but now she is starting to slightly wiggle her ass as the massager works on her clit, and my cock is throbbing.

Her ass wiggling is getting more pronounced and she occasionally raises her pelvis to better position her clit and pussy on the head of the wand massager. Now she starts the clenching of her ass cheeks tightly together, holding them clenched, then relaxing them. This tells me it's time.

I grab hold of the Magic Wand handle and hold it tightly, pushing it down into the bedding. This effectively raises the head of the wand slightly, pushing it harder against her clit. I keep kneeding and massaging her cheeks, back, and shoulders with my right hand.

As she continues wiggling her lower body on the Magic Wand, I run my right hand down between her beautiful ass cheeks, letting my pinky finger just lightly graze her sweet rosebud. I do this a few times before pausing for a moment to grab some lube to put on my fingers.

Again I hold the Magic Wand while I slip my right hand between her cheeks once more. This time, I slightly penetrate her now lubed bum hole with my two smaller fingers. I can tell she likes it when she feels my fingers spread her wanton little hole and slip inside.

I withdraw my hand and fingers, then slip it once again between her cheeks and my two smaller fingers penetrating her tight hole. I keep repeating this action, each time, getting my fingers a bit deeper in her bum hole.

She is wiggling and moaning and I can tell she is very close when she clenches her ass tightly onto my hand between her cheeks. It's as if she is trying to keep my fingers in her bum hole, so I oblige, slowly moving them in a stroking motion. I love it when she releases in orgasmic bliss, letting out her moans of "Oooohh!!", "Oooohh!!", "Oooohh!!" Watching and hearing her as she cums at my hands is the most incredibly erotic experience.

She is now very relaxed and frankly spent from this erotic massage. I knew this would be the perfect thing for her after her day at work, so I helped her up and move to her side of the bed where I tucked her in for a good nights sleep.

This was just last night.

Sorry for the long post in this thread. I got a little carried away.

Fn

In response to an older Zity posting (dated 2020) regarding "a turn-on watching an erotic massage".

I have never had the opportunity to watch an erotic massage... but I did experience having someone watch me receive an erotic massage.

I had returned to a familiar local Asian massage place and the ma-mason (owner) asked if I would accept some old man watch me while my favorite female attendant provided me an erotic session. The old guy (viewer) was to sit quietly in a chair on the side of the room while the lady did her-thing on my-thing. My condition was that the boss lady provide a generous tip to the massuse ! Interesting session, nothing much to say about the observer except that he fell asleep mid-way thought the hour. As for me, I enjoyed the special attention of the lady's efforts!

Me too. There are some super erotic, beautifully shot ones from Scandanavia with flawless models, hetero, but really hot. long, with great music but I haven't found them lately. A lot of them are awesome though. The thrill of a hard cock or wet pussy getting all that attention is a major turn on.