Diaper changes

For the past few months, my wife has taken the lead on the times of when and where I get changed into a new diaper. It is normally when she is free for 5-10 minutes and not related to when I really need to be changed. Sometimes when I have not been changed in a few hours my wife will place some chopped up prunes into one one of snacks or drinks without my knowing it. In addition to having to be changed at her commend. She requires during changing time that she speak to me in baby talk. I then need to talk back in baby talk back to her. If I do not I get a spanking and a baby bottle and pacifier .

My mum or aunt change me i am never allowed to change myself as they say a responsible adult has to change me no matter where i am

When I am home and need a diaper change my wife/mommy changes my diaper and always prepares me for bed. During the time I am home she usually lets me go for 3 or 4 hours and then asks me if I wet my diaper. Sometimes I will admit it or other times she will come check me to see if I am wet. Also when I make messy in my diaper if she does not smell the poopy she will check the back of my diaper and if I lie she will give me a spanking and give me a paci and make me stay longer in dirty diaper before getting changed. At work I will change my own diaper but will never mess diaper at work.

I love it when my wife/mummy changes my nappy and tells me what a big baby I am for needing nappies at my age. She spanks me if I forget to tell her my nappy is wet and I have leaked

I love the diaper changes I get from my friend. When she is over I always go around in just a diaper. She always feels the front of the diaper and will also slid her fingers inside around the legs to see how wet I am. Then she will let me know if it is time to be changed.

Then I'm taken into the bedroom to be changed. Most of the time when I'm changed I get a juice bottle, or a pacifier put in my mouth.

I don't usually get diaper changes by my wife or mommy... Usually I find that I can diaper myself better than others can. Though, I'd love to get it to where my wife knows how to diaper me perfectly, but that might take a fair bit of time. Ah well 😜

My girlfriend changes me when we are together, usually 4 days and nights a week. Her rule is I am not allowed to change myself when she is with me because she is much better at pinning on my diapers tight so they won't leak, and make sure the diaper is completely enclosed by my rubber pants. Although sometimes she has one of her close girlfriends change me if they are around and she is busy with something else. I much prefer them to diaper me than having to do it myself.

I am changed when I am cathedterized every 4 hours ,since I am being exposed down to skin anyway it makes a convient time . I am changed when I mess, another 4 to 5 times a day , I take medication by oral syringe 3 times a day ,that makes retaining stool impossible ,The same aides who prepare & administer my dòse, change me when I fill my diaper. A healthy "playfull caregiver" relationship needs boundries and rules ,just like my actual Aides have ,they do what i cant ,when it needs done .

Living in a FLR, my wife allows 4 changes each day. I put on a disposable with plastic pants in the morning after my shower. I go to the boys room at work during lunch and change in the stall (I fold it up and put it in a plastic bag and bring home). When I get home after work I change again. The last change of the night is done by my wife. She pins on a thick cloth diaper usually an hour before bedtime. The cloth really helps with nighttime leaking issues.

What's a FLR?

Its the state of Florida

I lived in Florida, Saint Pete to be exact for years. The heat kept me in cloth diapers only during the day. Plastic and or rubber pants were too brutal in the heat and humidity. Other than the odd dinner out at a restaurant, I lived with just two diaper pins and diapers for weeks at a time. Rita and her Life Partner my ex-wife Linda kept me well changed and powdered. I had the nicest diaper tan lines that made me look like I had a diaper on even when naked.

Sounds like she really is simply training you. Over time, it will become second nature and, most likely, as scary as it is, eventually, you won’t know the difference anymore. Just how it is. Permanent.

My diapers have been changed in the past by local area sitters who have gotten to know me and looked after me. I do so much better when looked after. Again, just how it is.

My diapers always need to be changed, I have 4 cutie bibs to tie on me, baby bottle fed, baths, pacifiers only occasionally, for some reason, I have always needed work with those. Not as natural for me, no idea why.

FLR is a Female Led Relationship. All decisions are made by Her and there is no discussion.

My daily routine .When I come home from work my wife always takes the lead, she asks me if I wet my diaper, I always say yes, she will come to me to see if my disposable diaper is wet enough, she slips her fingers in my plastic panties to see if my diaper is saturated with pee and if I have a leak, indeed 99% of the time, because she often tells me that mom needs to change the baby's bottom, it always depends on her mood, often she leaves me in my soaked diaper until my change for the night, after my shower she pins my thick cloth diapers tight and powdered and makes sure my diaper is completely wrapped in my plastic panties, usually this will fit done an hour before supper time or before going to bed On weekends I only wear cloth diapers and plastic panties, of plus I only have the right just a pajama top or t-shirt to see when my diaper is wet, she feigns it to me will know if it's time to change her baby. I like it when my wife changes my diapers and to tease me she tells me with smile what a pissing baby you are, you should be ashamed and of still carry diapers and plastic baby panties at your age.🥵👶

I would love it if having my diaper changed was part of an otherwise "normal" routine. I'm beginning to think that I would be comfortable even if it was not always entirely a private matter. I'm not necessarily talking about having my diaper changed right in front of others, but certainly having it said that "we should go get you changed", or "let's get you into a dry diaper" around others would add to the fun. I'm jealous of many of you who are able to experience things like this.

I wish my wife would take a more active roll in my diapering. She is well aware that I must wear diapers 24/7, but she is not interested in diapering or changing me at all. The only time she has ever changed my diaper was when I have injured my back on several occasions and could not do it myself.

I absolutely love being changed.

When I'm at home alone, I tend to it myself of course. But I regularly meet up with other ABDL friends, and we then take care of each other 😃

I've lost track of every girl who has changed me over my life time, but it is many, starting with my mother because I was slow to potty train and continued wetting my bed until I almost out of high school when I finally stopped bedwetting. She wouldn't let me pin my diapers on by myself so she always changed me. Later, when I came home from university for holidays I had to pin my diapers on myself, but once in awhile, mom gave in and diapered me. I always felt so happy when she did. Even my sister once or twice pinned my diapers on during those holiday occasions. As the years went by I yearned to wear diapers and did secretly once in awhile but rarely found a girl who would agree to diaper me after I told her about my diaper fetish. But in my 50's I stated to wear diapers most of the time after so many years of restricting myself from wearing diapers, wetting in them, wearing to bed and all, and knew I needed a girl who could diaper me like my mom did. So I dated many girls, usually while wearing diapers and most of them would change me after I told them my secrets, but most were pretty reluctant participants. Some I actually paid to change me, and I had a few masseuses who were much more enthusiastic about diapering me after a massage. I finally met my wife and she now changes me just like my mom did, and I still wear cloth diapers and rubber pants like I did as a kid. Just nothing better than to have a woman you love who will change whenever my diapers need it.

My girlfriend/mommy always takes care of my diaper changes. She has made it clear that I'm not allowed to change myself. At home I only go around in a T-shirt and diaper, or she will put me in a onsie. She does diaper checks, and tells me when I need to be changed.