Shifting Spoons

My partner is the big spoon, I love it when we cuddle and such. He also moves a lot in his sleep and when he is asleep, it's nearly impossible to wake him up. Sometimes we'll fall asleep and I'll wake up to him basically squishing me like some kind of pancake. Or I wake up to find that he has just rolled right off the bed (I gotta admit its hilarious).

Has this ever happened to you?

Stories?

If he moves around while asleep is is NOT a dead log.

A person who sleeps like the dead, doesn't move a muscle and they wake up in the exact position they went to sleep.

When we were teenagers and in college, my husband and I were such still sleepers (still are) that we used to check each other for breathing. It takes a nuclear explosion to wake up my husband, although when our daughters were infants, he woke when they cried at night to check on them.

I have long hair and a tendency to toss and turn. Being short, I've heard that be called a "jetpack" before. I can't say I recall falling out of bed, but I've woken up in strange spots in it!

With my ex we would start off spooning, cuddling, me wrapped in his arms. But I tend to move around. Many nights I would not only turn around but be in the opposite direction of when we fell asleep. Opposite as in my feet were now at the head of the bed and I'm hugging his feet. It also makes for so adventurous spooning in that position. As for falling off the bed ... it happened a couple of times too. Mostly him.

I'm very guilty of shifting in my sleep, alone or with someone.

While awake, I'll huddle close to the person I'm with. Asleep, I tend to turn away from the other person. I'll sleep in amy position I end up in, face down, hanging off the bed, twisted into any shape you can imagine. I'll speed deeply, and soundly, and be incredibly irritable if woken.

I have kicked a guy in the nuts while asleep (gently) when he was trying to wake me up for sex. Entirely his own fault, and I had to listen to him bitch and whine for hours after, so I have no sympathy.

I've been squished a few times too. Often the person is too close and will get shoved off.

I have gone as far as getting out of bed and sleeping (happily) on the floor to not be too close to someone.

And yet I still claim to be a 'people person' in job interviews!

Always move around too much when sleeping spoon never lasts

My husband and I usually spoon when we go to sleep and neither of us cares who the big or little spoon is. We just like to hold or be held when we go to sleep. We both wake up in the same position we fell asleep. We both sleep like logs.

I like to do it before sleep but I move around too much and get too hot to do it all night.

I like to do it before sleep but I move around too much and get too hot to do it all night.

That's one reason why my husband and I sleep naked 365 days a year. Hubby is a fucking radiator.

My ex told me she didn't need an electric blanket sleeping next to me. She said I made her warm enough.

I love to be held falling asleep. I generally sleep in big oversized t shirts or short pjs with no bottoms under a heavy weight comforter because I like the feel of the weight so sleep spooning is a very nice thing! Seems the only part of me that is cold then is my feet, but my partner somehow does not always enjoy being my foot warmer! I wonder why he does not feel the same about warming my backside as we spoon?

I swap with my wife. It's nice to be held, but it's also nice to hold. And yes, as noted before, the round soft buttocks just feel so nice when held up against the front of the male pelvis. Though I also like rubbing my butt against the front of her pelvis. Either way is great!

The occassional spooning is enjoyable. Hands cupping breasts or penis makes each of us feel loved.

But my sub radiates too much heat to stay that way for long. Add in the occassional night where one gets a bit restless while sleeping and spooning stops.

Both Playtime and I love spooning, as either spoon, or just generally snuggling / touching, but we rarely fall asleep that way, unless extremely tired....

I move around all the time in my sleep - though I'm reasonably hard to wake. This is occasionally an issue, as we sleep with the window open even in the dead of winter, and I often wake shivering after having crawled out of the blankets (I sleep naked). Usually, this results in a mad dash at the nearest heat source, which is, unfortunately, a sleeping Playtime, so she gets woken as well as I dive into her looking for heat......but she's the one who wants the dratted window open to begin with....

My wife & I shift several times during the night. She claims she doesn't wake up for many of them. I think we wind up spooned one way or the other about 2/3 of the time, with my right hand cupping one of her breasts when I'm the "big spoon"...

@BKuggs and I spoon sometimes or at least cuddle together. The problem is I am a little bit (right BKuggs?) of a restless sleeper. I get hot, then I’m cold. Last time I was with him, lol, I got cold and was “chasing “ him across the bed. I just wanted him to get me warm, but he kept moving away until I whined at him that I was cold, get me warm! , lol!! He accuses me of trying to push him out of his bed! Not true! 😄 😄

I mainly sleep on my right side and my now ex-wife usually slept on her left side, so spooning while sleeping did not work for us. When we were awake I was usually the big spoon so I could hold her boob or pussy.

I don't know how people can sleep with someone else. Not talking about sex. Talking about going to sleep and trying to get a decent night's sleep. Moving, snoring, getting up to pee, etc. Both people do this.

I read where a guy talked about how he wants his own bed when married. He was not saying he would never want sex, but for sleeping, he wants to be alone. I totally relate to that.

My husband @Romulus and I sleep as if we were dead--completely motionless. Once we are in position, neither of us moves. Well, I never move and my husband rarely does. We usually hold each other like spoons and don't care who is the big or little spoon because we can sleep on our right or left sides. We just like to be in close contact and once positioned, we stay there.

When we are spooning, we don't have one arm under the other because that lends itself to the arm falling asleep and being uncomfortable for the little spoon. The big spoon's "upper" arm wraps around or over the little spoon to lie on. The big spoon's arm can rest on the little spoons chest/breast, thigh or waist. Also, when I am the little spoon, I usually slide down a little toward the foot of the bed so my husband's face is higher up toward the head of the bed than mine so my hair stays out of his face. His erection/penis usually points up from the top of my butt crack to my waist due to our different positions in bed and his hand caps my breasts. When I am the big spoon, our sexual body parts line up because his hair is short, so our heads can be at the same level in bed and I don't have to worry about getting his hair in my face like he does when the positions are reversed.

We are both heavy sleepers. My husband can sleep through a nuclear explosion.

I'm the kind of person who is very aware of anyone around me. The slightest thing wakes me up. Maybe from having kids? I don't know. My brain has a hypervigilant mode running in the background.

When I'm the little spoon I don't mind as long as they are not smashing me into the bed, lay next to me not ON me. Since I'm vertically challenged I usually make adjustments when I'm the big spoon. I love little spoon especially in the morning when I can feel morning wood between my cheeks oooohh to push my bottom back against them mmmmmm very nice! ?

I always sleep on my side, knees usually drawn up, or on my tummy.

I love being the little spoon or falling asleep legs kind of entwined, or my head resting on his chest/shoulder.

Snoring does not bother me unless he snores like a grizzly bear.

Like @Wolfgirl66 mentioned I love to feel his cock against my ass and give a little wiggle, grind....

I really miss those nights.

With my husband as big as he is, 6ft 7, 347lbs, chest alone is 60inches and only wears a size 40 pants, it feel like a little a little kid sleeping with an adult, l am only 5ft 6in and 121 lbs. He wraps one of his massive arms over me and l am pinned in place till he moves, but l love it!!! Feel SSOOO protected. He is a body builder/weight lifter and is massive all the way around. I feel like a baby bear with the male grizzly as my protector. Its nice!! And yes, we sleep with window open all fall/winter and spring till it starts getting warm.

For my husband and I we match up fairly well when it comes to spooning. Him being 6’3” and about 225, me 5’10” and 150, but the problem is his body temperature in the winter is fantastic, in the summer a bit too much. We spoon as long as we can to which then he rolls over and we sleep back to back. Just the way it is.

Makes me remember the time I went ice fishing. When I came home I got in bed and she screamed.

WOW Paula!

6'7" and 347#, you being 5'6" and 121#, you must be his little spinner! It's hard to imagine a guy that big who is in good shape. His chest is MASSIVE! 😁 😁

Yes Suzy, he is a beast. He works out 2 hours in the morning, 2 hours in the evening. We have a gym in the basement in addition to the other gym we go to.

All of his clothes are custom fitted to look right. He looks like Brian Shaw, from The Worlds Strongest Man competition, just with darker hair and tattoos. Wears a size 16 shoe and 18 ring!!! Only clothes that fit him w/o alterations are sweatpants. His work uniforms are custom fitted as well as some of his gear. He looks funny on his motorcycle like he should be carrying it, not riding it.

But inside, he is a huge teddy bear. We were not blessed to be able to have children, but kids are drawn to him like candy. He just has that gentle giant air about him. He has a calming affect about him thats uncanny. Even most adults are drawn to him and especially the women, are drawn to him and l just smile. I know he is mine and l share if l choose to!!!

I have really enjoyed reading this thread. We take turns being the big spoon throughout the night. It seems we both need a break every couple of hours to let the blood flow and relieve tingling arms and fingers. Something she likes in particular is to face away from one another and then she snuggles up so that my butt nestles into the small of her back. Our height proportions make for a good fit and she says it keep her warm. A nice benefit is that she caresses my exposed cheek with her hand. Lastly, my favorite is when we settle down to sleep. She likes to watch a little TV before sleeping and I am usually too exhausted to stay up any later to watch. i will lay on my side facing her and she will assume a nearly perpendicular position on her side with her head on my side as a pillow. While she watches TV and I doze off, she will take her hand that is on top and caress my buttocks,, anus, perineum, and scrotum. In this position, my penis is generally touching her breasts, nipples or nestled between her breasts. This generally produces significant pre-cum and me gently thrusting against her breasts with my naturally lubricated penis.