Has wife or girlfriend ever caught you using her dildo

I got caught twice. First time it was very embarrassing for me. She was shocked. So we talked about it and she knew I loved having a butt plug in me. But when she caught me sticking a dildo in my ass it was quite shocking then she thought about it and she was a little turned on.

The second time she caught me she went right out and got me two dildo's a 6" and an 8" and a harness with out telling me. So now it's a game she loves to catch me so she can put the harness on and plow me. And the pegging begins !!!

I've only caught my sub once when he had given himself an enema without first approving it with me. He left the hanger on the hook in the bedroom. I saw it and put it away (before the kids notice) then gave him a nice paddling for not getting approval first from me.

@MissStress

I don't want to side-track this thread, but is your Mistress/submissive relationship 24/7? I don't recall you ever calling him your husband, only your sub.

I've used the sub/husband or husband/sub term occasionally. Mostly he's just my sub when I speak about him on zity. *Small letters are used intentionally too.

I know about the small letters. Are you 24/7?

I don't use them with my husband as a rule, probably because we tend to top and bottom / switch, rather than domme and sub.

I never caught my husband using my dildos.

We share the anal dildos.

We keep my vaginal dildos and our anal dildos separate. We actually have a "V" on my dildos. I'm the only one of us with a vagina! 😁 If we accidentally get one mixed up, it takes a swim in the dishwasher.

Susie,

I don't use them with my husband as a rule, probably because we tend to top and bottom / switch, rather than domme and sub.

I've always called myself a switch as I adore either being submissive or dominant with the appropriate woman. I'm curious, from your point of view and practice, what's the difference between top/bottom/switch versus dom(me)/sub?

Eric

Yeah I got caught little over 2years ago and have seance had my cock caged 24 /7. Servicing my wife

Never. Tee hee!

We have separate dildos for vaginal and anal use. So, "no".

In fact it's the converse. We bought some strap-on dildos for use in my rear, but she sometimes uses one anally when I'm away to remind herself of what it's like to be fucked in the rear....

Susie,I've always called myself a switch as I adore either being submissive or dominant with the appropriate woman. I'm curious, from your point of view and practice, what's the difference between top/bottom/switch versus dom(me)/sub?

Eric

We both consider ourselves to be a switch. The two of us don't get tied up with semantics with each other. We are what we are and don't care what labels others may use for us. Dom, Domme, Top / bottom, sub. Sometimes I am THE DOMME and my husband is the submissive, other times he is THE Dom and I am the submissive. The exact terms for us can vary according to the intent and flavor we impart to our scenes. We don't care what others call us. We know what we are and don't deny it.

Other people who switch but are not necessarily THE Domme or Dom and sub are more specific and like Top and Bottom.

People like (forgive me for using you as an example, but you are a recognizable couple on Zity) "MissStress and sub" are clearly the Domme and the submissive. They never (or extremely rarely) switch.

On rare occasion, a Domme/Dom may "throw the submissive partner a bone" and give him or her his or her way in a scene.

Frolicking is the term I give to people pleasing and enjoying each other's idiosyncratic activities. It is about having fun and exploration.

My X came home after work during the summer and decided she needed to cool off from a hot ride home in the convertible. She went to jump in the shower stall and found a large black dildo stuck to the shower wall.

Busted. Goofing off instead of mowing the lawn.

Her one comment was you got that big thing in your ass?

I said well it does fit in your pussy.

Yup, twice

We have separate dildos for vaginal and anal use.

Agreed as this helps with hygiene too but my wife has caught me licking her vaginal dildos clean as i love the smell and taste of her pussy juice. Seeing how hard i get she gets so wet so again plays with them and i lick them clean and of course we have sex too

I havnt ever been caught but I have though about it all the time, and what I would even say.

I will say, while not being caught, it seems like every other time I start doing something, a friend or coworker calls,.... ugh

Shaunie: I seldom have the opportunity to see a wet vaginal dildo... my wife uses it when I'm away, she nicknames it the "marital substitute".

You can't get caught if you don't hide your desire. And maybe ask before you use her toy or get your own. If you can't be honest with the person you've chosen to share your life with maybe you should cut her loose and keep looking. Not very fair to either of you in the long run. Best of luck

Yes but I think this was meant more for men.

My husband and I share anal plugs etc. I have a strapon harness that I use with dildos designed for anal use and a couple of vaginal dildo things I use if a female friend wants to anal or vaginal fuck me. If my partner wants to do it to her, she has to provide her own dildo. I have 3 different size dildos for use with my husband. One of them allows a simultaneous enema.

We use non verbal communication a lot. For example, if I find my enema bag on my towel I know he wants me to prep for anal intercourse. If I leave his bag on his towel, he knows he has to prep for a strapon session. Toy use is similar. A toy by his or her vanity sink means put it in or bring it to bed.

Dita