What size should i buy?

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Vanity Fair, I wear size 8/xl, 34” waist. As with men’s clothes different brands fit different

Even though the poster is no longer a member, I feel compelled to write about this. For me, there are two general sizes. 1. Very tight so that when I tuck everthing stays in place including my balls up in my scrotum. 2. very loose so that when I walk, i can feel the material moving around better. So, the size depends on the activity....

I always feel that if lingerie is loose things fall out , I like to keep things quite tight so that I can feel it also . I like size 12 knickers , normally thongs on a 38 inch waist

the size depends on the activity....

or what you are wanting/needing.

Found that my sub is comfortable in a 44B bra and size 7 panties.

I've recently been finding that women's underwear sizes are not as uniform as men's. I've bought panties and swimsuit bikini bottoms, and running shorts, and usually a women's X-Large fits me. But, just the other day I found two bikini bottoms in X-Large which didn't seem the same size, and a pair of panties in Large which looked as if they might fit me. Maybe the smaller of the X-Larges was mislabeled, because it fit about the same as the Large, and both were fine, although I've tried a Large size before which was too tight and didn't cover me well. The other X-Large was certainly looser than the other, but comfortable.

In men's underwear, I think I've mostly found sizes to be consistent, although maybe if I tried some designer brands I'd find some variation.

I was laughing recently as I realized, I probably now have more women's underwear than men's, since I don't regularly wear underwear. For many years, I've only worn underwear when I needed to because I would be undressed in front of others, either in a medical setting or for figure modeling where full nudity wasn't needed. So, I only had a few pairs. Now, those are far outnumbered by my fetish collection of women's panties.

One size fits all lingerie will fit almost everyone. At least it's a great start. Hope it helps.