Diaper lover

It's normal for you, if you feel good with doing it. There is nothing wrong with it, other then most people don't understand it. But, they have there own self worries, be sure. Not sure why anyone would find your diapers, why are they looking through your things? Your space is, or should be personal. I would have issue with anyone going through my things. I would tell them, never mind what I'm doing with these things, why are you going through my stuff? That's the issue. Should be the same with your right to privet time. Everyone needs some space at times. Let them know they are invading it, and sometimes you need meditation time.

When my wetting started my and I discussed it and a return to diapers was in order.The stigma was bad but after a few yrs become adjusted.

Yes I also found it hard to start with but as time goes by my confidence grows with my age, no ones business other than mine and immediate family and the wife and I even joke about it all when I have a leak or problem with getting nappies that work for me.

I recently had a realisation that if you fully embrace the "nappy" thing then the whole wearing and changing thing becomes a pleasure and is no longer a problem of any sort, it is my life and I deal with it allowing me to enjoy every aspect of my life including all the things I wanted to do before becoming incontinent ?

I started wearing nappies or pads and slips as the continence nurse likes to all them about 7 years ago. I was a bit nervous at fist but my wife convinced me it was not a big deal. Now it is as natural as breathing.

I wasn't into AB/DL fetish at all until I became incontinent. I didn't even know it existed. When I became incontinent it was hard enough to deal and accept the big change in my life of wearing diapers 24/7. No one needs the extra pressure of someone going thru personal and private items. This is just WRONG! I'm very private about my incontinence and wearing diapers. I keep all diapers and related items in my bedroom and I use a gym bag for my diaper bag to where they aren't exposed for anyone to see. No one has the right to go snooping thru others belongings. Regardless what fetishes you are into or not, I find it very disrespectful for anyone going thru another person's belongings regardless. If I wanted you to know that I wear diapers and I have a few fetishes than I would tell you or leave related items out in open view for you to see without snooping around my private areas.