Adult discipline spanking by best friend

I have always felt a 'need' to be spanked as an adult. I doubt I would ever pursue it, but I have a fantasy of confiding in my best male friend (both of us totally straight by the way). I imagine telling him of my self control issues, and extreme procrastination, and asking if he would mentor me with spanking as a disciplinary tool to help me. On the day appointed, I would go to his house. He would sit me down and 'counsel' me about my problems. Then, he would produce a strap or paddle and tell me to undress. Embarrassed, I would strip down to my briefs. I would be somewhat shocked as he tells me the spanking

needs to be administered with me totally naked, to be most effective. I would feel the humiliation level rising as I stood before him completely nude. With my eyes downcast in shame, I would feel his eyes studying me

for what would seem an eternity. I would be telling myself, this man loves me dearly as a friend, and I love and trust him. He is willing to do this to help me, so I am going to submit just as willingly. He sits down in a chair and pulls me over to him. He produces a paddle for me to see. As he directs me to lay across his lap, I begin to get 'excited' at what is about to happen to me. Then, he calls his wife in to be a witness. I had not anticipated that, and my face burns even redder as I catch her eyes looking on with interest. "This is for your

own good" he says; then, I feel the first smack of the paddle on my left cheek, lightly at first. After a brief wait, the right cheek gets equal attention. Soon, the speed, and intensity increase. "I think this might have

been a mistake" . I am hollering out loud now, and beginning to kick my bare feet. "That's enough Ken" I exclaim. I feel his big leg cross over mine, pinning me, as the spanking continues. We had arranged no 'safe' word, as I wanted the discipline spanking to be real. He would stop momentarily, and rub my sore buttocks lovingly as he scolded some more. "You will learn self discipline, or this will be only the beginning" he said . He put down the paddle and used his big hand to continue the spanking, which somehow hurt even deeper. Soon I was crying like a little boy over his daddy's lap. When the punishment at last stopped, I was made to get in the corner, face to the wall. Ken and Sarah went about their business as I stood, well reddened and naked buttocks on full view. Finally Ken laid a hand on my butt, and said "I HOPE you have learned something useful from this...I will be checking your progress in the coming weeks, and if necessary, we WILL repeat this." Sniffling, I turn and hug him, not caring that my

exposed privates are pressed up against him. "Thank you" I stammer out, as I turn to get dressed. Though my butt is VERY sore, and my humiliation great, I somehow feel guilt free and an overwhelming relief that is hard to describe. I do find that it has helped me with my issues....but, I will need several more sessions over the knees of my loving friend, as I grow to better self control in my adult life.

Has anyone else had such a desire or fantasy of being so disciplined by a best friend? Or have you actually experienced this? How did you go about talking to them about it? Was it effective for you? Where you afraid you might be 'turned on' by the experience some how? And, were you?

Hi,

I think its bad and embarrassing enough that my hubby spanks me, and that a few of my friends know. Not that i think that I'd let a friend spank me, but if one managed to spank me by overpowering me, I think the shame and embarrassment would be way to much for me to handle. Just my thoughts 😃

Donna

It would be great to have that kind of trust in a friend that may even be a switch .

That is funny, I have a very similar fantasy but no wife. My best friend who is straight gives me a spanking removing clothing piece by piece until naked. He makes me bend over his lap and I feel his hand come down on me over and over again as I resist he moves his leg over me holding me down. After he stopped tears are rolling down my face. He then makes me stand in corner hands on my side. He goes about his stuff and when he is done he whacks my butt and tells me that I better behave or he would punish me again. I gave him a hug and started to get dressed.

I would not engage in this on either side. I really don't think it would work because if I felt like breaking a rule I would simply decide to not report it. As an adult I am in control of the whole thing. Sometimes my girlfriend would spank me for things she considered annoying but the spanking wasn't what stoped me from doing it again, it was the knowledge that she didn't like it.

Before I got married to my spanking husband, I shared a home with one of my best friends, Jamie. She and I grew up together. We drew up a list of House Rules and kept an oar shaped paddle on our hall wall. Any violations meant pants taken down, bent over a low backed club style chair, for 10 whacks with the paddle. My husband adapted this in our marriage. Now, I get 10 paddle whacks for each demerit, but these are given bare bottomed and over his lap! My chubby behind went from the frying pan to the fire!

I would like to try this type of discipline in conjunction with a weight loss program. It would have to be with someone who I find trustworthy and willing to really be strict with me and follow through as needed. I would be given a target weight loss goal and-every two weeks we would meet up and I would be weighed wearing only a lightweight t-shirt. If I failed to meet my goal a punishment spanking woul be administered.

I am too embarrassed to ask my best girlfriend to spank me. It is the 70’s what will she think of me if I am crazy or what. In the 70’s there was no internet and I thought that I was the only one in the world to be spanked.

However I did spank by my best boyfriend who is now my husband