Red tanga

I am new to bdsm and one femdom lady said I should buy a red tanga before seeing her. And she wants to bring another guy to the scene . I have no intention to do something with another guy and she does not want to see just me. Please advise.

Don't do It PERIOD! You are going to a place you've never been before, meeting two people you've never seen before, you are outnumbered 2 to 1. That doesn't sound dangerous to you?!

If you do go make sure to give a trusted friend the name of the person and the address where you are going and ask the friend to call the police if you do not call him/her back by a time you decide upon.

BTW: https://www.amazon.com/Habitus-Lingerie-Mens-Red-Tanga/dp/B013VPRUYO

Don't do It PERIOD! You are going to a place you've never been before, meeting two people you've never seen before, you are outnumbered 2 to 1. That doesn't sound dangerous to you?!

If you do go make sure to give a trusted friend the name of the person and the address where you are going and ask the friend to call the police if you do not call him/her back by a time you decide upon.

Truer words were never spoken.