Female Perineal Massage

Directly from a medical site a message to husbands telling how to help their wives.

There is nothing like saying it how it is. I wonder how many women have enjoyed this form of massage.

Perineal Massage: How to Finger Your Wife With a Purpose

A good old fashioned fingerbang is often one of the first sexual experiences for a young man. Although a minor accomplishment when compared to the sexual spectrum of adult life, it is monumental in adolescence. It is a milestone. It is a rite of passage. It is likely something that you did in a movie theatre, or on the school bus, or in the back of a car…so sneakily. It is definitely something you shared with your friends yet passionately denied that you did so when questioned by your “girlfriend” in the hopes that you will get to do it again.

As a sexually mature adult, the fingerbang gets forgotten in the wake of the awesomeness of being a sexually mature adult. We may still perform the act on occasion, but it no longer has its luster, its naughtiness – after all, it’s just a finger.

Pregnancy affords the sexually mature male two little known benefits: to relive the nostalgia of the risqué fingerbang and to aid in maintaining the corpus of your expecting wife. It’s a win-win!

Good perineal massage will help prevent lacerations and episiotomy (vaginal tearing) during childbirth. Here is how you as the husband can act as both doctor and mechanic:

Using lubrication of some type, insert your thumbs 1-1 ½ inches inside the vagina. Press downward and sideways, slowly stretching until your partner experiences a slight burn. Slowly and gently massage back and forth. Do this daily for 10 minutes from the 34th week onward.

Perineal massage will strengthen the bond between partners, as the wife experiences the hands-on effort of her partner striving to increase her comfort during labor. Furthermore, it heightens the probability that her lady parts will be functional again rapidly. After all, we do want to ensure that the playground is operational as quickly as possible after childbirth.

Mrs-P said

Directly from a medical site a message to husbands telling how to help their wives . . . .

A REAL medical website like from a hospital or medical school, or a website that calls itself a medical website?

Got a link?

Your post sounds like the Yoni massage.

A link would be good if you have it, Mrs-P. Thank you.

I will have to keep this in mind for when I am pregnant. Thanks for sharing!

From a medical site? You've got to be joking. Finger bang? How quaint.

Your post sounds like the Yoni massage.

Speaking of which, has any member here ever had one of these types of massages? The videos I've seen of these - which granted are usually from porn sites - do look very sensual, languidly sensual I'd say, slow, deep and very arousing ...

My husband has given those to me.

I saw this come up when my wife was pregnant, though all the resources I looked at used slightly different terminology than the OP's source.

It may have some reduction in tears for first vaginal delivery, but little to no difference for second (or further) births. It also isn't "finger banging" - your fingers are in her vagina (slightly), but there is a completely different method - you're stretching the perineum.

I'm amazed how many people are dismissive of therapeutic massage involving the pelvic region. Have we forgotten about the muscles, nerves and circulation (including lymphatics) the live there? We've been brainwashed by the anti prostitution puritanical forces. Coming from the world of professional bodywork, I lived this shit.

I'm amazed how many people are dismissive of therapeutic massage involving the pelvic region. Have we forgotten about the muscles, nerves and circulation (including lymphatics) the live there? We've been brainwashed by the anti prostitution puritanical forces. Coming from the world of professional bodywork, I lived this shit.

I'm not dismissive, I just firmly believe that pregnant women should be given the facts as we know them and be allowed to choose. They're putting up with enough as it is without being pushed to do anything else.

My wife and I did some perineal stretching and she didn't tear during birth, nor did she need an episiotomy. The actual massage/stretching was not very sexual, as we were both focused on the massage and how things were going relative to goals and anatomy.

Pelvic therapy has made my life much easier. After sitting on my ass for too long during my first bout of bacterial prostatitis ("It'll go away. I'm sure of it. It's nothing...") I developed pelvic floor problems. While I no longer go to the PT, I still generally wind up sticking fingers and stuff up my butt several times a month to check and/or massage muscles that still try and tighten up when I'm stressed. I also do some prostate massage hoping to keep the prokaryotes and BPH a bit more at bay. Again, when I do it (or the PT did it) it ain't sexual - I'm to focused on what I'm feeling, both in my pelvis and my finger. When my wife does it I do like it when she does it in two "phases" - a therapeutic one, then move on through the prostate massage to a more "fun" one.

The site is http://dadforbeginners.com/perineal-massage/ I believe it to be a light hearted look at life. Maybe I should have checked further. Apologies to all. (Definitely a MedFet inclusion)

It wasn't a medical site at all, an error on my part. The technique as described is certainly a procedure used to help / assist mothers to be have a natural birth without tearing or cutting.