Rectal temp used as an attitude adjustment

One time, growing up, I had a temper tantrum and my mother warned me several times to calm down. Finally she got my dad and he walked over to me. He went down on one knee, in front of me, and before I knew it - he tossed me over his shoulder and carried me up stairs. Mom followed behind us and went into the master bathroom.

I was put face down in the bed,still crying and yelling into the pillow. Mom walked into my bedroom, sat down on the bed next to me and pulled down my shorts and underpants. I thought I was going to be spanked and braced for one. That's not what I got, though.

I felt my mother part my buttocks and then gently slide her thermometer in my rectum. She released my buttocks and they closed around the cool glass. She pressed her hand down on my upturned bottom to keep me still and kept me there until I "calmed down". It worked. The sensations in me tingling rear distracted me and soon I was calm and collected.

Any other members had a rectal temperature taken to "calm them down".

That makes no sense to me. I think to me that doing a rectal temperature to calm a person down was mean. The question is, What was the reading after the temperature was taken? My mom never did something like that to me.

As part of my spankings my friend takes my rectal temperature when she has finished spanking me. I must lie still across her lap for my temperature; if I wriggle or complain I get more spanks. The first time she did it she told me it was to allow me to recover from the spanking while reminding me I was still being punished. If I earn extra spanks she usually takes my temperature a second time.

The same rules apply when I spank her. She does not like having her temperature taken so she almost always receives extra spanks. I usually give them to her with a paddle while she is lying over the arm of a couch. She'll get her temperature taken again while in that position.

No, but I'd love for it to be taken that way to calm me down and adjust my attitude and also to punish me.

I've gotten my temperature taken after having an attitude to "see" if a fever and feeling sick could've been the culprit, but it seems like that's a bit different.

That would never do that to me. I think that is a mean thing to do.

I grew up in an era when it was considered perfectly acceptable for parents to hit their kids, wash their mouths out with soap, etc., so hearing these stories doesn't surprise me. I don't agree that punishing a kid with a rectal temp. is acceptable, and definitely crosses the line. Today, depending on where you live, you can actually be arrested for threatening or touching your kid the "wrong way."

Wow i would think the fussing and such would be a risk to the thermometer breaking.

On rare occasions when a kiddo was running a high temp and I felt the need to take a rectal, it was never done as a punishment.

What a nice punishment...

I guess I would missbehave very often. :-)

I have a friend who told me that when he was younger and misbehaved his mother always thought it could be a sign he was “coming down with something.” Before she would punish he she would take his rectal temp to make sure he didn’t have a fever. He hated it. Whether this was part of his punishment is hard to know.

The OP simply revolted me. If a member wants to post his or her fantasies they should clearly indicate in their post that it is a fantasy.

It’s hard for me to imagine my mother punishing me with a rectal temp. That was for when I was running a fever. Although I would have opted for a rectal temp if given the choice over mom's wooden paddle on my bare butt!

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I had that happen growing up. If I was fussy or exhibited a poor attitude, it was assumed I was sick, and the thermometer and vaseline came out. I was immediately on my tummy, bare bottom.

On one occasion, after she caught me trying to cheat the temperature measurement using a light bulb, my mother took my temperature rectally herself. I think this was intended as a kind of humiliation and punishment. A spanking followed.

I never had my rectal temperature taken as part of an attitude adjustment.

Many times I will use a rectal temperature as well as a rectal exam as a form of attitude adjustment.

When a young lady realized what is about to happen it is amazing how their attitude starts to change.

But the adjustment continues..............

We were definitely a rectal temperature family but it was never used for attitude adjustment. Its only time out in the sun - to go where the sun doesn't shine - was when we were sick.

This never happened to me, but rectal temps do tend to make a person very docile. I only got my temp taken if I was actually sick. Spankings were for bad behavior.

I'd never advocate such a thing, but back when I was a lad I can see this might by a few mothers, very few I'd think, be seen as a legitimate strategy.

Today misbehaving kids are given a time-out in the 'naughty chair.' Over mom's lap, pants down, not being spanked (this time) while a glass rod took your temp would, like the naughty chair, be a punishment of sorts but far more it would be a time out and, back then, a clear message that next time you were like this, OTK and bare, it wouldn't be to see if you were running a temp, unwell, and that was what accounted for your behavior. No doubt the older you were the more significant this sort of time-out would be and for a 19-year-old truly not a small, easily forgotten, thing.

If a woman is acting up she should definitely have hers taken properly (rectally) so if she is running a fever an is potentially the cause of her misbehavior. It do not mean that she should not be spanked but not as long or hard. It is also a good way to see if an enema is needed

We did not grow up that way (with rectal temps taken besides as a baby). I honestly have never done it until a couple days ago and it was a non-event and didn’t even hurt at all. I could barely even feel the thermometer in me so I don’t see how it could make someone immediately submissive or taught to “behave.” I would just take it - knowing now that it means nothing. I lubed the thermometer, laid on the bed and slid the thermometer in my rectum and kept them in there for 4 mins. I think paddling is a better punishment (although that has never happened either).

Sass: I think the idea is not that it is physically unpleasant (as you said, if the thermometer properly lubricated and the recipient cooperative in opening the anus, one may barely feel it) but that the posture and act are submissive and regressive (being treated like a baby).

Hi Sass, I had a look at your page and loved this: "I have a sassy personality (but in a fun way!) I'm known by most people as friendly, loving, caring, affectionate, encouraging and a great friend. That's pretty much my goal in life - to make people's day better. If I can make you smile, I've done my job." What a wonderful outlook on life!

Interesting about you taking a rectal temp. Did you do it just to see what it would be like? Or, was there some particular reason you did a rectal temp on yourself? Also, did you already have a rectal thermometer, or did you buy one just for this temp taking?

Thanks, Thomas

I dated a guy who was in training for a large animal veterinarian, you know cows, horses an the like. Well he had several sizes of Large thermometers. Once after he considered me flirting with someone else at a party, (which I denied) once we walked into his apartment, he had me flipped over his lap, panties down and handprints pounded my backside until I was sobbing, then he slides in a rather Large thermometer, without lube! It was a bit uncomfortable! It wasn’t the only item I saw in my ass that night!

I'm not sure that it was done as an attitude adjustment, but I was a very fussy kid, until around 5, and my mom, like most mom's in that era, were probably advised by the pediatrician to check a temp. to rule out a fever, based on the behavior. If some parents used it as a means of punishment, then that's kind of abusive. As far as reading some of the posts about guys aggressively forcing their gf to submit to a rectal temp....I would hope that it was consensual. Otherwise it would be an assault. That's a whole different ball game.

I don't know about the attitude adjustment but if I was attempting to fake sick to avoid school, which I had done, there would always be a need for my rectal temperature to be taken! It certainly made me reconsider my plans!

Spread and naked (waist down at least and maybe over his knee) and a rectal temp is definitely a “CALM DOWN” moment for me and can serve as a precursor to several other things.

I can remember that when a rectal temp was taken an enema would follow later.

My husband and I take each other's rectal temperatures, if we feel sick. I also had my basal body core temperature measured with a basal thermometer. Growing up, I was the oldest of 5 kids, so mom took our temps bottoms up, even in high school.

I cannot remember any rectal temperatures used as punishment. Of course, if we complained about being too sick to go to school, out came the rectal thermometer and vaseline from the medicine chest!