Best toy to gape? Inflatable dildo oooor?

So I'm pretty seasoned with anal play and I really enjoy gaping, but getting a little tired of having to keep an arsenal of toys increasing in size to get where I want to be (currently use a dildo 2" wide). I considered an inflatable dildo because i like fucking myself as well as expanding my anus, but I tried an inflatable butt plug and it would only really expand inside of me and never really stretched me out (kind of indifferent to feeling of fullness inside). Can't seem to get a straight answer if the dildo will do the same or stay rigid enough to stretch me.

Honestly I want opinions on what would work best to at least stretch my ass, if not do that as well as act as a dildo, without needing more than one toy to do it. Hence why the inflatable dildo seemed to make sense, if it actually works. Just want to know before I buy because the anal expanders and inflatables are a bit pricey...

The Slink XXL.

My husband loves when I ream him out with it to the hilt.

I like it too, but I can't go as far/wide as he does.

Hmmm personally that looks like it does a bit more deep plunging and less expanding for my taste... definitely not a beginners toy! the idea of the whole thing expanding to stretch like the inflatable seems pretty appealing tbh, but haven't seen a good quality report. Also thought of the insta-gaper, but the ad says it only expands when fully inserted...

I have to use a few different sizes butt plug expanders in order to increase the gap without shocking my anus too much. Getting something like the Slink or a tapered butt plug will allow you to slowly increase without putting too much stress on your anus muscles all at once. The most I can expand so far is to about 2.7". Have not been able to get my 3" butt plug in yet and am not interested in going any larger in my case. I enjoy not only expanding the gape but also getting depth. I have a 2" and 2.7" dildo that I enjoy getting in 9" to 10" inserted. Riding them definitely milks my prostate and leaves me with a wet and wanting asshole. I find afterwards that I will produce and wet mucus for a couple of days as if my body is wanting more dildo action and preparing for it. I usually have to wear a diaper for the next couple of days afterwards just to absorb the excess self lubricant. Possibly a result of the J-Lube breaking down into more of a liquid but also my ass almost self-lubricating itself. It is a nice feeling but would wet my underwear and pants if not wearing diapers. Sometimes I might go 2 to 3 days of constantly riding my dildos and butt plugs before taking a break for everything to return back to normal. I do not want to cause my anus muscles to get permanently stretched.

A lot has to do with what you are trying to accomplish. If you want to be able to just lie on the bed, with you butt wide open, you are on the right track.

The 'pornstar gape' in a lot of movies, where you can see in seemingly right down to her liver is actually quite easy. It's just gravity working for you. When you are at your loosest, and most comfortable, while fucking or dildoing your ass, have him pull out, get on all fours, then lower yourself til your tits are touching your knees, butt up. Gravity will take over, and pull your guts down, into a straight sightline. If you start closing up, reach around and use two fingers of each hand in your ass to pull it open.

If you are just trying to give him a thrill, and a good look, this is how they do it in the vids. It's easy, and fun.

My inflatable dildo works best for me. As far as the position that best induces a good gape, face down ass up! I can normally gape in that position without any play at all. Now mind you, it's not a massive gape by any means, but it's the most relaxed position for me!

Gaping is a porn stunt that serves no purpose for myself or my husband. Whatever large objects we have had in our butts can be removed and we close right up. Re-entry is easy to the prior size, but the act of staying open is of no value to us.

This does the trick.

https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=imgbnk;ox=itmdownload;img=139165;s=gallery;minix

Or you can use a speculum, the Sakurai is perfect for this.

The manufacturer is in Pakistan: https://french.alibaba.com/product-detail/gynamed-sakurai-vaginal-speculum-140772736.html

There are some resellers on ebay (Gemany I think) but it is more expensive.

I ordered one a few years ago, there are different sizes but the more common is the "XO", the bigger, used by HotKinkyJo and a few others.