Who else is obsessed with spanking?

I love being spanked! Usually my wife spanks me and occasionally, I spank myself.

I really enjoy a 3-minute warm up followed by progressively more severe strokes with three or four different implements for a total of 10 to 15 minutes total spanking time. I could go much long, but that’s about all my wife can manage before her wrist and shoulder need a break.

Sometimes she will insert something nice up my caboose and then while I wank myself, she will spank me hard, usually with a Delrin cane because that is light and easy for her to handle so she can whack me for a longer period of time, if needed, and she can inflict a lot more pain with less effort than heavier implements require. At our age, 65 and 66, usually I need some time, which isn’t a bad thing because I get a longer spanking or whipping, and when I’m nearly, but not quite there, she spanks with more intensity. She always feels bad when she causes severe bruising, but I carry it as a badge of honor that nobody sees.

We have about 10 implements, each of which has a fairly distinct and unique feel. Sometimes my wife doesn't allow me to look as she goes through all of them, one at a time, to see if I can tell which one she is using. I usually get 8 out of 10 correct.

Not obsessed; but it does hold my interest - and not really sure why 👹

I would say that I am obsessed with spanking, but I have always had an interest in how my friends were spanked at home and hearing or seeing paddlings at school.

Many of my friends’ parents were very ritualic with their punishments, as my dad was. I had to retrieve the razor strap for the upstairs bathroom and return it to the bathroom when the spanking was over. I also had to bend over the pool table for the spanking in the rec room. I never cared much for the game of pool for some reason. I was always spanked over clothing but I have been made to change into slacks or shorts if in a a skirt that would have presented paddling.

Pool table? Not many houses had those when I was a kid. I had to bend over my bed with my trousers and underpants down.

I love to be spanked, but the best I have ever had, was being spanked with a padded pingpong paddle. I could of had that happen all night. I think spanking should be considered foreplay! Drip

@ddell2 Many of my friends’ parents were very ritualic with their punishments,

Something I missed out on since mine were all done in the heat of anger and acted upon without preparation.

I am not obsessed as many would think of it. And I never really saw any specific attraction to spanking play when young or with my wife except for some random slaps on the buttocks or thighs every now and then. Back then it was just a sort of interjected activity, not a goal in itself.

But, and for this I am indebted to the many accounts I've read here on Zity over the years, I have become very intrigued and aroused by spanking play. Though it ever occurring for me seems highly unlikely.

I in recent years discovered that I truly love spanking a lady’s bare bottom.

I had a nude model who saw a picture of an enema bag and nozzle hanging on an IV pole in my picture folder on my phone.

What the hell is that was her response to which I calmly explained what it was, how it was used and how recipients responded to its use.

She had already told me that she had grown up receiving bare bottom spankings from her stepfather in front of her mother who also received bare bottom spankings if she angered him.

So after our next photo session, I spanked her and brought out an enema bag to use in her. She immediately loved everything associated with her first enema and asked for another.

She ended up getting four full bags followed by a second bare butt spanking that raised bruises. I thought maybe I had gone too far, but she got up, turned her bottom towards her mirror and inspected the damage.

Smiling, she said she would feel that spanking every time she sat down for a week.

That combination of nude photos, enemas and spanking continued for several years until the pandemic.

I doubt a day has gone by in my adult life when I haven't fantasized about spanking someone. Almost always it's a spanking that starts on the seat of a nicely fitting pair of jeans on the bottom of a woman with an attractive derriere I've seen somewhere. It evolves into the phase where the bottom is bare and the implement is a paddle or similar instrument. On a few glorious occasions I'm blessed to have lived my fantasies with a playmate. I submit this constitutes an obsession... one I can't imagine losing prior to my shuffling off this mortal coil.

My wife and I dabbled in spanking many years ago. She got the idea from an ad in Cosmopolitan. We bought and enjoyed some of the Shadow Lane VCRs, especially the ones that incorporated anal play which is big for us. But we just couldn’t roleplay (got the giggles) and it petered out. Having read all the M2F spanking and BDSM posts on Zity has ignighted a deep desire of mine to really and truly spank a receptive adult female. It’s just fantasy, but I’ve thought about it a lot and it’s perked my interest. I love women’s backsides and if I would’ve developed this years ago maybe it might have been different and been something we could have gradually gotten serious about. Wish I knew then what I didn’t know now. Zity has jaded me! I’ve become more interested and receptive to both BDSM and spanking thanks to others contributions. I see so many here like @Pollux who do have this fetish, enjoy it, and are responsible about it. Now, I just indulge my interest via the discussions and watching some of the spanking videos.

I’m obsessed with spanking it turns me on very fast. Almost in every sexual interaction spanking is involved

Mostly spank by me bare bottom bare hands until redish bluish and very hot

Spanking until tears is my favourite

I have been obsessed with spanking since I was 4 years old, maybe even younger. Growing up in the 1970s/80s spanking was nearly universal. My first memory was a discussion between me, my babysitter (12f), and another boy (8m) about how our dads spanked us. We all got spanked on our bare bottoms, much to my delight when I pictured my babysitter getting it. The other boy got the belt over the bad, while my babysitter and I similarly got it OTK by hand. Hard to say if this discussion was what started my fascination, or what made me realize it. From that day forward, I was obsessed with seeing, hearing, or hearing stories about spanking. Unfortunately I was very shy to begin with, and knew that being too interested in spankings was perverted, so I often pretended to be uninterested or even repulsed by spanking stories.

All that being said, spankings were a deterrent and very effective with me and kept me out of trouble. I absolutely hated getting them, despite my fascination, and avoided them at all costs. So as a result, I was a relatively well behaved kid.

I kept my fascination to myself, but started to kind of test the water in young adulthood with suggestions and discussions. I was still sure I was the only person to like spankings the way I liked them... the purely disciplinary and ritualistic type and not just some form of foreplay. To me sex and spanking are not in the same realm. Spanking can be erotic, but isn't always.

After the internet allowed me to discover that I wasn't alone, I started meeting people into spanking and playing. I credit my first spanko girlfriend who was very outgoing and had lots of friends for helping me to become more outgoing myself, and meet many ladies and gentlemen over the years into spanking. Our pictures are floating around the web to this day, and still come up on web searches (faces cropped out).

I completely understand why lots of people, mainly women who I have been intimate with love to be spanked. Openly discussing why they need it, offering their bottom; looking forward to the journey to their Orgasm!

After all it’s a kink like any other kink, it takes the recipient to their sexual happy place, sex is 80% between the ears and 20% between the legs.

As the song goes, “where do you go to my lovely when you’re alone in your head “

I am obsessed with spanking because I like to be able centre of.

Being spanked means being the center of attention. Arguably, a person who is spanked matters to someone else. That sense of worth is itself an aphrodisiac.

Continuing my point, spanking is an intimate punishment. Even just the nudity aspect creates a bond but the striking of my bottom is contact between two people tantalizingly close to the genitals. Even as I laying over my husband lap is intimate contact. It wouldn’t take but a couple crossed wires in my brain to make these connections subconsciously.

Of course, spankings are scary and the fear is itself exciting. Again, a crossed wire or two and fear can become an aphrodisiac as well. More commonly, we obsess over that which we fear and when the hormones of puberty wash through us, that obsession becomes sexualized. We then want what we fear but only in a context where we can experience it in a controlled form. We want to experience it so that we can gain mastery over it.