Feelings of safety

I don't know about anyone else here, but there are definitely two completely different reasons why I'm into med-fet. The first is that I do find some procedures and situations arousing but the second is that I find the idea of getting sick or being vulnerable and having a trusted man care for me extremely soothing. The second reason is the main reason why I read and write posts/stories here. I love thinking about how it would feel to be taken care of by a friend. The embarrassment that turns to trust. Is anyone else in a similar boat? What do you find most comforting?

I definitely know what you mean. I enjoy all sorts of medical stuff from clothing and tools to procedures but I think of that as the more superficial side of my fetish. The deeper, more pyschological side includes things like being dominated, controlled and cared for.

My idea of a great vacation would be staying in a hospital (I know hospitals are not for healthy people and there's all sorts of bad bugs, this is more of a fantasy). Being cared for, checked up on, having meals delivered even haha. Someone coming in every so often to just ask how I'm feeling, check some vitals and write something on my chart.

I think the little things medical professionals say such as "just relax, I'm a doctor", "this won't hurt", "that wasn't so bad, now was it?" are very comforting. Generally good bedside manner type stuff. I also think the education/knowledge that medical professionals posses is very comforting, I like it when they use medical terms, seem experienced like they've done something a million times, have a diploma/awards on the wall (my dentist had tons). It's nice to feel like I'm in good hands.

I agree with @PatientChris - there is something just so comforting about being in a hospital (and btw, I too, think that the ideal vacation would be a hospital). Though the procedures may not be very pleasant, I think that it's the doctors and nurses that make it such a great expierence.

It sounds nice, but a vacation in a hospital here in the states would likely be the most expensive vacation you will ever take.

I know what you mean. I am disabled. I have a certain amount of independence, Some parts of me, love it, some associate care with love. I’m aroused, by care. Medical care gets me off