During one of my longer stays with my uncle, exactly what age I don't know, but it would have been between six and nine, I began to ask questions about about sex, sexuality, and reproduction. It had probably been prompted by me asking my single mum if she was going to have another baby, a brother or sister for me. I think she felt my uncle would be better to answer my questions.

Soon after I had arrived at my uncle's place, and maybe after my mum had prompted him, he suggested to me that we could have a chat about how babies came, in the following few days. That evening before I went to bed, he gave me several books of photographs (which it later turned out he had taken himself) and suggested I have a look through them before we had our chat.

There were pictures of males and females of all ages, taken as though they were medical shots. Face on, full body naked photos. The age ranges were from around my age, to people who must have been in their 40's. Some were fully smooth, some with full pubic hair, the male photos, showed a range of penis sizes and shapes, and states of erection. I was familiar with erections because on occasion I saw my uncle's aroused penis, as he talked or read, and of course even at that age I had woken in the morning with a stiffie. We even sometimes spoke of it when we noticed it happening with each other. It was entirely natural and non sexual, simply being part of conversation between a nudist uncle and an inquisitive nephew.

The following day, he sat down beside me and stepping through the photos one by one drew my attention to the salient facts about human reproduction. He spoke in a matter of fact way that sat comfortably with me and we were both at ease. He explained to me that whilst reproduction was one outcome of sexual intercourse between men and women, there were other permutations and combinations which also were extremely pleasurable, but did not necessarily happen solely between males and females but could take place alone, with two or more men or women together or in any combination of two or more. That all such contact was natural as long as the parties were above a certain age, and were not forcing themselves on others. He explained how the mouth, the vagina and the rectum, were all receptive to the penis and the tongue, and such connections created pleasure for all involved, even if they were simply observing. He explained how during puberty, I would likely experiment with others around my age with some or all of these activities, and find for myself which ones I would enjoy most. He said that most young boys discovered from as early as seven or eight. how touching one's erect penis in a rythmic way would give great pleasure and eventually lead to the release of semen which would be a sign of a degree of sexual maturity.

He also said he would show me other things I might find pleasurable.

I noticed that during this discussion his own penis had signs of some arousal as did mine. He noticed too but neither of us said anything about it.