(Please note that this is a work of fiction.)

The methods described here were developed as part on an online workshop. The group thought it would be worthwhile to publish them here.

In our progress to create the anally-awakened male, we passed through:

- Femdom, Penis-Control, and Pegging http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=70147.msg496779#msg496779

- Femdom and Reverse Pegging http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=72039.msg509881#msg509881

- Anal Awakening http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=72881.msg515844#msg515844

Sleep - an Untouched area for Femdom?

Aside from certain physical approaches - such as restrictive ties, chastity belts, little has been done to use the vast universe of sleep. Here we will work through some possibilities, and try to make them usable for a variety of femdom styles.

(The interested reader might want to consult a study:

Nocturnal Anal Stimulation In Ogasm-denial Relationships - A Study

from http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=profile;ox=contrib-topics;u=65839

This showed that orgasm-denied males have a leaning to increased anal stimulation. It also has a view on nocturnal emissions.)

The anal possibilities are interesting, but will be covered elsewhere. Here we look at 'penis-holding', or simply 'holding', suitable for couples in an advanced femdom relationship. It is assumed that the male has been anally awakened, making him expressive.

Holding is simple to describe. In bed, when instructed, the male holds his penis, and keeps hold. When he falls asleep, his hand may fall away, but when he wakes, he is to resume the hold. Eventually, he will continue to hold, even during sleep.

Under no circumstances must the male stimulate himself, or let go when he is awake! Because he is expressive, the domme is to ask him in the morning if any of the above occurred. If so, he is informed that, before bed, he is to make a sliver of ginger, and put a thread through. At bedtime, he is to sit on the side of the bed (or in full-lotus if comfortable) and the domme inserts the ginger into his urethra. It is retained for five minutes. He then holds again, all night. Note that normally, the details of punishment is left to the domme, but this punishment is highly specific. Yes it is painful, but it brings the attention of the male to his penis, making it harder to forget about.

How to hold? There are two ways, and the most comfortable is to be chosen. If the male sleeps on his side, the penis is to be held with palm underneath, fingers curling round. Go for maximum contact area of palm, fingers, penis.

If the male sleeps mainly on his back, his penis will fall to one side (assume the right, here). The right thumb is placed at the right of the base of the penis, and the palm is placed on top of the penis. It falls to the right, with the thumb tucked underneath. Should the sleeping position change, it is permissible to change the grip. A gentle grip is used, with no tension. Erections will come and go, which is normal.

Benefits for the male: there are several. It gives him an opportunity to show great discipline. It is comforting. If the domme refers to the penis as 'hers', he is holding a part of her in a caring way.

Benefits for the Domme: it is an opportunity to extend training into the night. It is more psychological than a belt, and is low-maintenance.

FAQ - Dommes Ask:

The sub keeps self-stimulating - what to do? Use the ginger, but also consider more pegging and anal awakening, as linked to above. Maybe he is not ready.

What will it feel like for me? Imagine what he is thinking, as you fall asleep. He wants to get it right, to serve. He is showing discipline. He is worshipping you!