(Please note that this is a work of fiction.)

In earlier chapters, we discussed the entangled ideas of femdom and feminization. Though femdom need not involve a male, and it need not involve eroticism, we will restrict ourselves to the case of erotic female domination of the male. As regards feminization, this is not always an essential component, but for many couples, domination will extend the area of erotic control, and the male will adopt a more passive role. Traditionally, this was the female role, and these traditions are deeply rooted in some individuals.

The nature of the particular male is very important here. Some are actively seeking to be dominated, and a percentage of these may also want an element of feminization. Then again, others are very happy with being in control. Here, we deal with males who do want domination, and who also might enjoy the idea of being 'forced'. We are not proposing to enforce the following practices on dominant males.

Previously, we discussed orgasm denial and erections. For a high degree of control, it is important that the male has erections for as long and as often as possible (assuming a chastity belt is not in use). There are some who suggest that pegging is a safe time for a male to be allowed to ejaculate, because the woman is in control, but this is absolutely not the idea proposed here.

Remember that men are very penis-centred - they love to stimulate, and this enhances masculinity in their heads. During pegging, we should aim to reduce this, so the approach proposed here is that the male is conditioned to have a limp penis for the duration of the pegging. All his sexual stimulation is anal. No erection, and no ejaculation! At other times, an erection is welcomed.

Here is the process. A strap-on must be used rather than a dildo used with the hands, because we need a real environment for training. The hands of the male must be secured (and the reason for this is given below). At the exact moment of dildo insertion, use either an ice-bag or squeezing to remove his erection, but continue to move the strap-on. When the erection goes, remove the ice or stop squeezing, and praise him for his control and submission. Each time the erection returns, repeat the process. This should be done for approximately five times, and if the domme wishes to orgasm, this should be done.

After the session, the erection will return, and the male will have a tremendous urge to touch his penis. Having the hands tied is useful at this point, and the erection can be left to subside.

The desired effect is that the male has a powerful erection at the sight of the domme wearing a strap-on, but the erection vanishes by itself, 10 seconds after it is inserted, and does not return throughout the pegging. When the pegging is complete, the male manages to avoid touching the penis. It can take up to 20 sessions to achieve this state.

The benefits for the domme is that her control is visible. Few dommes can resist a smile as the penis subsides. She is free to concentrate on her own orgasm, knowing that the male feels good about complying. She will also find that when the male's erection returns, he will plead to be allowed an orgasm, which is an ideal opportunity to demonstrate control.

The benefits for the male is that the erotic sensations are purely anal, and these sensations will be amplified over time, because the penile sensations are absent. (We know from other areas that a sense can be enhanced when other senses are reduced.)