Think about the most important person in your life and then think about all of the random coincidences that led to your meeting, provided that you didn’t marry your childhood sweetheart. They were most probably involved with other people before they ever met you and may have been in love, thinking that this was going to be the one, only to find out that it didn’t work out for one reason or another. Whatever your individual sexual fantasies may have been when you first met, chances are both of you suppressed those elements that you never shared with anyone before. Your first sexual encounter with the person that you would eventually share the rest of your live with was, statistically at least, pretty much of the vanilla variety. But, perhaps, as you got to know one another better, things may have gotten a little more adventuresome in the bedroom; perhaps even a bit kinky.