In continuing my thoughts about sexually incompatible relationships I wonder how men and women consider themselves a truly married couple when there is no or almost no physicallity involved. As I meet people in this fine circle of friends, it's noticeable that most of us here are alone in our desire for something different in our sexual relationship. Alone as in, "No Harold, I won't let you insert that hose in my ass" or "No Harold, I won't insert that hose in your ass either" type of marriage. Where is the trust and understanding between husbands and wives.
I used to feel like it was just us horny men who liked things in our asses because we were gifted with a prostate (btw, I'll trade any woman my prostate for her multiple orgasms!), but this site has opened my eyes up to many anally oriented women who desire the same thing. The problem is they are in the same boat as the men in here. It seems like their husbands are in possesion of the "stay away from my ass" gene and they feel like they're anally curious wife is strange.
Ther are many wonderful suggestions in here as to how to involve a reluctant partner, but I am very curious (as some of you already know) to find out how many people were able to convince their SO to try something new.