Doms

Just a bit of a drive by entry. There's another kink site out there that I do have a profile on but I rarely visit. It's a lot larger than this one and. there are a lot of fuckbois on it. Guys who are trying to use it as a kink-version of Tinder to get laid. I'm not looking to get laid. I have no problem getting laid when I want it and if I'm ever looking for a new partner I'll explicitly advertise for one. IE if I want to fuck you, you'll know.

I took my profile off snooze for a bit. It's snoozed again and I'm reminded why I don't spend any time there. Note, this rant isn't aimed at anyone here, it's just a rant, mostly from shit I saw there.

1) You don't need to be an arrogant asshole to be a Dom. Acting entitled isn't domly it's just annoying. True Does don't need to strut. They just need to be. You can feel their top energy a mile off. Some of the domliest men I know are seriously old-school gentlemen.

2) You're not entitled to anything. Just because a woman posts photos or participates on a kink-based website doesn't mean she's interested in YOU.

3) Learn how to take rejection. This is a life skill humans need to develop. You will be rejected. Every single one of us need to be able to deal with being told 'no'.

Just be nice to one another. My son says the problem is that on the internet you can't get punched in the mouth for what you've said so people get keyboard courage. Humans need to evolve past that.